If you wait until marriage to lose your virginity, particularly if it's the two of you, will the sex life be much better?
2007-11-13 07:34:57 · 13 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
From an intimacy and emotional standpoint yes. From just a pure quality of sex standpoint, probably not.
2007-11-13 07:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jake44 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a controversial subject but here's my opinion. I firmly believe that you should always test the waters beforehand, sex, although not the only part of a marriage or a relationship for that matter, is still a very important part in a happy marriage. It has a key role for making a couple satisfied. If you marry and then find out your partner is horrible in bed you may be so unsatisfied that you may seek other opportunities for pleasure. I think a bit of experience makes sex with your spouse a lot more fun.
However, people will argue that I am wrong and you should wait till your married.. but, i'm not saying everyone should go out and have random sex... i'm just saying that your should try it before you buy it.
2007-11-13 07:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No-one can truly answer this question. If you are virgin when you get married how would you know if it is better. Like wise if you have had sex prior to marriage how would you know what it feels like to be a virgin on mariage night. I say if the urge takes you go for it.
2007-11-13 08:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether the sex is better if one or both persons was promiscuous before marriage, is irrelevant. What's important is that the couple have saved their virginity for each other.
Personally, I don't care if my first sexual experience, which I plan to save for my future-wife, is good or lously. What does matter to me is remaining faithful to her by abstaining from sexual behavior until me and her are one. Frankly, I think it's going to be good: I'm not naive enough to not know how to have sex, even though I'm a virgin.
2007-11-13 08:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
sure! As a 20 twelve months old male, i've got had many women who bluntly presented me intercourse. I rejected each and every person of them simply by fact i understand that God made intercourse so as that while we come across the guy we would % to spend our lives with perpetually, we've a fashion of coming up a definite connection. This connection enables us shop marriage and love at the same time for something of our lives, in the path of the no longer hassle-free and the undesirable cases. Why do you think of various of marriages fall down at present? Even people who had arranged marriages stay at the same time longer than maximum couples simply by fact they married in the past that they had intercourse. i understand the way it is to experience such as you are the only guy or woman who's waiting. I felt that way too, incredibly as quickly as i began college and became into optimistic that no person in the worldwide might wait to any extent further. yet you recognize what, I now understand lots of people who're waiting and countless captivating, sensible ladies who're waiting. think of what it's going to be % to love a woman whom you have waited for and he or she has waited for you? My buddies understand i'm a virgin, and that they arrive from each and every form of cliques (preppy, jock, gangster, and so on.) and everyone of them respects that I even have had the capability to attend till marriage. So do no longer supply up! Your hormones are going loopy now and those around you will make you experience so on my own, yet quickly sufficient you will see others start up doping up around you who're additionally waiting yet have in simple terms been too scared to confess it till they understand that it is not something to experience embarrassment approximately. that is something to be happy with. Be proud! you're a real guy!
2016-11-11 09:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i basically did this with my wife. we were each other's first partners then got married. it didn't go well, and we recently got divorced. My new girlfriend and I have great sex. But that's not to say you shouldn't wait - i think the level of communication between you is more important than past experience. my new girlfriend and I communicate very openly about sex, so it's better. my ex and I didn't.
2007-11-13 07:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Pedro 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex is too good to wait. Regardless of whether it is the person you are going to marry or not.
2007-11-13 07:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't know but I can tell you that I would like to take back most of my partners with the exception of maybe my first and current...
2007-11-13 07:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it will hurt the first time for her and you will be a nervous wreck. It only gets better from there.
2007-11-13 07:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by Islander 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is only for married people. It is best when cultivated over the years with your married partner, yes.
2007-11-13 07:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋