How do i tell my fiancee that i dont trust his best friend. His best friend is still friends with my fiancees ex and still talks to her all the time. One night he texted my fiancee to hang out with him. Then I found out he also asked my fiancees ex to hang out on the same day. To me this seems like a ploy between the friend and ex to see him again. She is totally obsessed even after not talking to him for 2 years. I know she still wants him back but the ***** needs to understand she isnt going to have him back. What do I do about the best friend though?
2007-11-13 01:46:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you confront the b@$tard "friend" b/c he is not a friend @ all. Then you tell your man whats what! It's eaiser than you think and get used to it you are now in charge for the rest of your life! she and the a$$h@le can be together than everyone is happy...
2007-11-13 02:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best friend really shouldn't be an issue. But if he is disrespecting your relationship by having a hidden agenda, then maybe you should speak to your fiancee about it. As far as this other chick, I wouldn't stress her too much, as long as your man has never given you a reason not to trust him. If he has been loyal and trustworthy thus far, then I would just continue to love him and give him the benefit of the doubt. Remember, he's YOUR fiancee and he's HER ex. I think that says alot in itself.
2007-11-13 01:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by HoneyChild 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not get the best friend to arrange a meeting between you and the ex-girlfriend. There's only one way of stopping your thoughts getting out of line with reality and that is to address directly the thing you think is causing a problem. If you are insecure about your relationsip with your betrothed then it is you who has to tackle the issue.
2007-11-13 02:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by CountTheDays 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first...if you dont trust him you might want to think about why that is, if you do not trust him and he has not done something wrong...then you need to work on that. Also just talk to him...what most couples get divorced over now days....or breakup is the fact that there is just no communication. No one knows how to communicate anymore. Sit him down alone at a nice dinner. Tell him you want to talk to him about her and how much you are irritated, worried...or whatever. If he really does not like her anymore then you have nothing to worry about.
2007-11-13 01:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sandra G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe people know your bf alittle better than you do. I would listen to them and your parents. Sometimes being on the outside looking in has their advantages. Your head is too much in the clouds to see the real person your bf is. Dump him before it is too late.
2016-05-22 22:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your fiancee just what the hell is his friend doing??? Is he pyscho or just plain stupid?
2007-11-13 01:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust your man? That is the question, the best friend is not really your problem.
2007-11-13 01:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ignore him tell your boyfriend how you feel and all the things you have discover tell him things can work that way and that you are not comfortable with that relationship.
2007-11-13 01:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by rose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what should matter to you is that he is with YOU!!
if the guy is plotting against you, who cares as long as your bf loves you and takes care of you.....
insecurity can crumble you relationship to peices
2007-11-13 01:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋