i miss him so so much and i have no one that can help me and everything. is there anything that helps you keep going on even if something hurts you very much. can you share that with me... please
he was my boyfriend and soon to be husband. yeah he was a few years older than me but i still loved him with all of my heart. he was 22 and i am well 16. please dont say anything about the age thing i no all about it he was to old and me to young i have heard all of that. i just want something that will make me feel better on this sad painful day of memories........
2007-11-13 01:35:47 · 7 answers · asked by Rebel Cowgirl 10/13/07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've told you that I promise that the painful memories will turn into happy memories. It's just going to take time. Years. My mom was my best friend in the whole world. When she died it was hard. The first thing I wanted to do when anything/everything happened was pick up the phone to call her and tell her all about it. So many times I reached for the phone. It really gets easier. There's nothing that is going to take away the pain. Only time will dull it some. Think of all the good times you spent together and the happiness you gave him. Know that he went happy and full of hope. And you have his son. You have to be strong for him. Sweety, my thoughts and prayers are with you. You can do this.
2007-11-13 01:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie Queen of All ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope things get better for you soon. i found a poem that you might like. i know its sad but i think its very special.
good luck
God bless.
Saying goodbye is never easy
It's the hardest thing to do
But what hurts even more
Is not the chance to say it to you.
Yesterday is just a memory
Our laughter was sunny and bright
Then clouds started to gather
For you were no where in sight.
You were my first real love
And this I will never forget
How you left without a warning
No good-byes, my only regret.
Wherever I may be now
Always searching for another so true
To place my world of emotion
Handing my love to someone like you.
If again I must go there
And experience all the pain
I would do it in a minute
For all the good I would gain.
No matter what my wrongs
You offered only love
Until the day you left me
For your new home up above.
I know you still are with me
Your love is within my heart
Though life is no longer present
Our souls will never part.
This is given to you in honor
Of all that we did share
I just wanted you to know, dear,
How much I really did care.
2007-11-13 01:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by lovely chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that helps to heal is time. I know this doesn't sound very encouraging, but believe me as time goes on you will feel better. I am so sorry that you have lost your love this way, my heart goes out to you. I will be praying that your healing time goes fast. Yes you can keep going, even though you may not feel like it right now, just remember What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. It may not make much sense right now, but in the future you will understand. May God Bless you!
2007-11-13 01:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by babiesmama212 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You say you have no one that can help you, but you don't have to be on your own. Contact:
http://crusebereavementcare.org.uk
there should be a phone number for you to ring and information about somewhere near you where you can get counselling. Please email or ring them.
And take a step of faith and just ask the Lord Jesus to help you right now and to send someone along so you don't feel so alone. I will pray for you too. God bless.
I'm sending you a big hug ... take care xx
2007-11-13 03:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna get spiritual on ya...when it seems like I can't even make it through the day because I've been going through some hardships I pray and remember that "all things are possible through Jesus Christ, our Lord" and it is through him that I find the strength to make it through those difficult times. I'm so sorry for your loss.
2007-11-13 01:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can think of the almighty up there.he has a much better deal for you.This is something you have to go through to make u stronger n wiser.those tears or painful moments will be the anchor for your determination and courage in the future.The one and only.
2007-11-13 01:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is count your Blessings and cut your losses and try to remember the good times and forget the bad.
2007-11-13 01:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by ricky p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋