Why is it that girls care more about emotions in a relationship than Boys?

Question

Girls notice the problems with the relationship faster than boys and they understand better sometimes to. I dont get that

Answer 1

That's how their bodies were made. they were made to be more emotional, but some guys are too. Us men are more less outspoken. For instance you may complement other girls on their clothes. Men may think it, but never say it. I've complemented girls plenty of times, but never actually said it out loud.

Answer 2

Depending on the ages, girls initially develop emotions much
quicker than boys, so sometimes it seems that the female is actually more mature than the males happen to be. But that isn't always the case. Sometimes boys can be shy, afraid of being rejected, and when boys are young, they still have a lot of time ahead of them before they usually catch up with a girl's emotions. And it is sometimes true that girls tend to be more emotional than boys, especially in their younger years. Our family doctor told us that boys almost always tend to be less emotional than women because of the difference in their hormonal makeup. This should change after both the boy and the girl have fully matured and, of course, everyone matures at a different age. I have even read that since women are genetically made differently than men, that some men don't think it's cool to be emotional or let their emotions show. But as you get older, that tends to change, especially if you are in a relationship after you have both grown up and reached maturity.

Answer 3

Have you ever heard of the book "Men are from mars, Women are from Venus". This book talks exactly about what you are describing. I am not recommending it, as I have not read it. I was using it to point out that you are not the only one who has noticed this. Generally speaking women are more emotional and men tend to be more logical. I am not saying that women are emotional people who lack logic or that men are logical machines with no feelings, only that men and women approach things differently and their are exceptions. I don't think anyone would disagree with this, because their are studies which back this up. Personally, I am an atheist. I also feel that the reason this is so, is because of evolution. Through out our development, men and women have had different roles. Typically men were the hunters and the women looked after the young. Because of this, I feel that we have developed different ways of approaching situations. As a hunter, thinking logically would aid in tracking and hunting prey. Emotions, like fear or anxiety, would only server to hinder the hunting ability, by causing the hunter to be to anxious or too scared to attack something which could kill him. With the women, emotions like caring or love, would aid in the raising of children and their emotional development. After hundreds and hundreds of years of people being placed in these roles, I believe that is was bound to have some sort of effect on how we approach situations. Take it with a grain of salt, because this is only my opinion, but I feel that it fits best with our understanding of evolution.

Answer 4

in general, i think younger guys find it difficult to speak in an open way about what they are feeling.
It's a confidence thing, maybe their worried about what comes out their mouths might embarres them or make them look weak or vunurable, which make them look like they have the emotional range of a teaspoon.

I'm a 24 year old guy who's been in a relationship for 7 years, i work in sport and see teenagers going thu these probs all the time...tensions build up and it's not healthy.

Part of being strong and confident is knowing what you want in a relationship, sometimes you have to stand up for what you want or need. but you have to tell your partner why and thats what people mistake for emotions or sensitivity somtimes.
Hope this helps,
Nick

Answer 5

Boys do not obsess over the relationship like girls do. When guys struggle with problems, they tend to want to go off by themselves and work it out, but they would rarely go to a friend for help.

When girls have relationship or emotional issues - they share with other girls.

You just have to respect that the two approach these things differently.

Answer 6

Well, that's not true 100 percent of the time... it depends in the individuals in the relationship. Sometimes, yes, guys have trouble taking hints... but sometimes the woman is just looking at things too deeply.

Look... relationships are about doing your best to understand someone else and enjoying your time with them to the fullest extent. It sounds like what you're having problems with is communication... don't point your finger at the boys... they're much more sensitive than you think. They just express themselves differently.

Answer 7

because many of the emotional currents in relationships are very temporary and can change from day to day.

Why get wrapped up in the details all the time if its not affecting the big picture? Many emotional "crises" are fleeting and temporary.

I would have to say as well as that most women are constantly looking for validation that the relationship is perfect and if one slight thing isn't right, then its cause for concern....well thats not true or even practical. Women wrap themselves up in emotion constantly, and you also talk constantly about your issues and problems with your friends, strangers, etc. so long as they are a girl who listens.

Guys dont do that, we keep to ourselves about our PERSONAL problems, women it seems can't (by and large) and are constantly looking for thigns to pick at.

So you see, since women from early childhood on continually talk about their personal problems, issues, emotional displeasures, and guys dont. We arent wired to look at them as adults.

Honestly, from a mans perspective, I am glad about this.

There is a joke that goes like this:

Steve and Mary were going to their friends house, tom and laura, and it was kinda known that they were having issues. After dinner Steve went to the garage wtih Tom, while Mary and Laura sat inside. They both talked with one another for a couple hours and left.

On the way home Mary is telling steve about all the things Laura said. Steve just kept nodding his head (pretending to care) and then Mary asked Steve, "what did Tom have to say abotu Laura?" Steve looked at his wife and said, "I dunno, not much. We were just checking out his new table saw"

Fundamental difference right there, men dont blab and women do.

Answer 8

Boys don't really pay attention like girls do I think that they just hope everything go good and not try to fixx all bad things happening I guess we understand more because we sit and stress ourselves out thinking about evrything that could have made this happen. I also think that girls love to be paid attention to and love also the feeling of being loved and cared for.

Answer 9

Because you can leave a girl with a problem for the next 20 years and you could forget her walk away to a new relationship if you were mean enough to take this attitude

Answer 10

it is my very own opinion! i'm entitled to it. a million-0% (until im 21, this provides my physique & hormones time 2 calm down & mature, so i don't could think of two times bout a infant in severe college) 2-seventy 5% (3/4 of a relationship is being concerned bout the different guy or woman) 3-2% (we adore being doted on, in basic terms not overly, if he gets me a card for my birthday, candies or flora on valentines, in basic terms something besides his words to reasure me that he cares) 4-a million% (If he lives in a container, or wears quite undesirable outfits i'm prolly not gonna supply a 2nd look. yet once you artwork for a residing or inherited your dad's fortune, im prolly gonna a minimum of verify you out) 5-22% (If i choose it to b a protracted-lasting relationship yeah you gotta have love.) Now, am a teenager & think of i comprehend each little thing bout each little thing. yet im extremly lifelike & sarcastic. so which you would be able to easily approximately believe those solutions.