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Would a guy that I was talking to and dating for 2 months make me a hit it and quit it the first time we had sex? He answers all of my text messages and the morning after we had sex he sent me a text saying he had a nice time with me last night and that we're still cool. But, everytime i ask him to hang out, he says he has to watch his son, which is a typical response from him even before we had sex. Help! What does this mean???

2007-11-13 02:53:15 · 10 answers · asked by J 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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There are lamer responses to a first round of sex working into a second than "I'm taking care of children". Maybe he's trying to figure out whether you are the next woman for him - you don't mention the circumstances that got him into parenthood, but I suggest he's much more careful getting deep into a relationship right now.

Do be honest and caring, but do find out if you are just a physical thing for him, or if there can be more.

2007-11-13 03:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0 0

No, this is NOT a hit it and quit it situation. I'm sure he would gladly hit it again, if the opportunity came along. His behavior indicates something else -- he doesn't want to move the relationship along beyond where it is now. BUT you should confirm this directly with him. The way to do this? Back off for a while. Say a 5-7 days where YOU don't reach out to him. See what he does. . . .then, if and when HE intiates contact, if you're still interested in exploring a relationship with him, tell him face-to-face in a very easy going way -- "Hey, I've really enjoyed our time together and would like to continue exploring a relationship. How do you feel about that?" Anything that comes out of his mouth other than an enthusiastic unqualified yes is as good as a NO. That's when you chalk it up to experience, charge it to the game, and MOVE ON AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE. In no time at all, you will find someone who is completely in sync with you . . .Good luck to you.

2007-11-13 03:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He is married or you're not worth making the extra effort for him. Your just a booty call and he is probably already in a relationship. Confront him. Dont do that to yourself. Good Talk.

2007-11-13 02:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I personally think he is using you for sex.If he really wants to spend more time with you ,he will find the time.I have been there so trust me i know guys who just want to get into your pants.

2007-11-13 04:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It means he has to watch his son.. Guys arent complicated and conniving like you women.

2007-11-13 02:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Joey B 2 · 0 1

so nothing changed after having sex.

i thought that'd be a good thing.

2007-11-13 02:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by KJ 6 · 2 1

I don't know.. it could be.. it might not be.. ask him, it never hurts to ask him. See what is his reaction..

2007-11-13 02:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by .sincerious. 6 · 1 0

I've been there. U need to find someone else...

2007-11-13 02:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by msatiable 1 · 1 1

move on.. find someone else

2007-11-13 03:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by amanda** 2 · 0 0

ask him

2007-11-13 03:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by frank b 2 · 0 0

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