The guy has been dating his girl for 5 years. He really enjoys when my children and I all hang out togther. He seems to be a really nice guy who goals in life.
2007-11-13 03:23:31 · 7 answers · asked by Just asked 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has a girlfriend and you are just friends, sure. If you and he are more than "just friends" then NO -- call it off quickly. He's not "a really nice guy" if he has a girlfriend AND you.
You're sending mixed messages to your kids. They learn through your actions, and if your actions (and his) are immoral or unethical you're gonna confuse them about what's right and what's wrong.
2007-11-13 03:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a nice guy with goals? NICE guys don't cheat on their gf's. If his GOAL is to be a successful cheater then he's found the right partner to help him in that area.
WAKE UP! What do you think? That one day he won't turn around and do this to you? Why would you want a guy who has no integrity or morals? More importantly, why would you bring your kids around some scumbag like this? I'm sure he does enjoy you and your kids, why not? You aren't his girlfriend and you guys don't share any real obligations or commitment. That's nice. Bringing your kids around some guy who's got a gf somewhere else.
Back to your question..the answer is obvious! NO NO NO!!! You need to end it. How can you be so disrespectful to this man's relationship with his girlfriend? Would you like it if this was going on behind YOUR BACK? How would you feel if one day you found out he was out galavanting with another woman and her children? I hope someone blows the whistle on this crap.
I hate to sound so harsh, but I have no respect for women like you and men like him. If he was a real man and if he was really THAT into you, he would have left his gf already. What a freakin' coward!
***No I've never been in this situation. But that's because I know I'm better than being someone's mistress and being second best. Don't you think you're worth more than that?
2007-11-13 11:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seeing him as a friend is fine. As a bf or mate? NO NO NO . Big NO. First of all if he loved you and respected you he would've been in a REAL relationship with you, devoted to you only. Secondly, he's a cheater, if I were you I would NOT be with someone who had cheated on his gf or 5 years.
2007-11-13 11:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by leave me alone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has been with his girl for 5 years and is still with her, you are wasting your time because he is not going to leave her.
If he is doing that to his girlfriend,. he will do the same to you.
Think about what you really want in a man and maybe you will see that you can find someone else who is not already attached to another woman.
2007-11-13 11:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was a "really nice guy" he wouldn't be hanging out with another woman behide his girlfriend's back. Get your own man.
2007-11-13 11:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by shellshell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should continue to see him. If he is still seeing this girl, then you and your kids are only going to get hurt by him.
2007-11-13 11:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by kari 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, definitely not. He's cheating on his girlfriend - and cheating on you. That's not a nice guy at all.
2007-11-13 11:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋