but you go to see him in hospital and the chick he swares he aint with is sittin there holdin his hand (she has also said they arnt together) but why would she be holdin his hand and it sounded like she'd been there all day (i had to work)
2007-11-13 02:40:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may not be cheating now, but until he defines the scope of the relationship with this woman the door is open.
Use some tact when he gets out of the hospital for his care, but as soon as it's prudent you need to deliver the ultimate question of his definition of this woman in his life. If it isn't what you want to hear, take appropriate action.
2007-11-13 02:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You try to look at the situation in all points of view, try to stay calm , and remain civilized . Overreacting in a bad situation can only make it worse. Show your beau that you are the best for him and if he doesn't accept your hospitality than you can either work it out or go find someone who will. Remember happiness and fairness is key in a relationship. If you know for sure he's a cheating scum than give him another reason to be in the hospital.
2007-11-13 02:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Acepholis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the pulse out of her...No for real if she said no then you have to ask why she was holding his hand...Un called for b/c that is your man not hers! Your BF should have a little more respect for you no matter where he is. Allot can happen in a hospital and i know your mind is wondering. Until you have proof you can't do anything or say anything, you have to catch him or record him saying things he isn't supposed to. Good Luck!
2007-11-13 02:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of work?
Maybe they were family or maybe it was just a really emotional event. Putting your self-value or worth into whether or not people are doing the dirty because they're holding hands is a little silly. Worrying about it is not going to help; so, confront it and resolve it.
2007-11-13 02:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Elainea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are jumping to conclusions...never accuse a man without proof. If you want to know the truth then you have to be smarter than he is. Play detective...if that will appease you...but remember, what you find out may be what you've already suspected. Prepare yourself for the worst...and HOPE for the best. Good LUCK!
2007-11-13 02:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by Renea31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is equipped in all shades. many times their myopic view of existence is slanted to no longer seeing how that is on your footwear, really than the way it extremely is. tell them to options their own agency. they'd be questioning that you do not share a similar pastimes, backgrounds, historic past & that there are basically too many adjustments to have a helpful relationship with someone of a diverse skin colour. tell all of them the belongings you've in elementary & why they are incorrect. best of success to you!
2016-10-24 03:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by mayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to make you think you are crazy and just dreaming this crap up. It is happening and you need to quit letting him make up excuses to make you second guess what you know is really happening. He is not worth it. He wants his cake and eat it too. Move on. You deserve better. Doesn't it make you mad that he thinks you are that stupid. It would piss me off. GOOD LUCK!!!
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2007-11-13 02:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by D TRAIN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hire a private eye to follow him, trust me, it works hell good, or maybe take some time to talk things out with him, communications the key to a good relationship
2007-11-13 02:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Womans Intuition, my darling. Go with your gut..
2007-11-13 02:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by amanda** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that's a hard one, but if i was you i would just break up with him. or try to find more clues that he is cheating. but girl its up to you!!!
2007-11-13 02:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by Lorena Hernandez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋