I am in a relationship with a man who is 14 years older than me (im in my 20's). Anyway I have never felt this way or been treated this good. Is anything wrong with the age differences and what are some of your age differences in relationships or marriage?
2007-11-13 03:14:46 · 13 answers · asked by j.j.l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love knows no age. what is important is that you genuinely love each other and share common interests and has a great respect for each other. so if you truly love this guy and he feels the same way about you then by all means marry him
2007-11-13 03:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by mayo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ironic... I'm in a similar situation currently.
There are many obstacles present when attempting to tackle this subject - The big one being your own feelings toward the matter.
When you feel that you are comfortable enough to engage in this kind of relationship, do it... But you'll need a thick skin; the gaze of The Other is a hard one to overcome.
So... Personally, I don't think that there is anything wrong with age difference, etc. So long as two people can be mentally, physically and emotionally on the same level.
Good luck with everything.
2007-11-13 03:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure about age is just a number ,sure now that both of you are still young it's fine .It's when he's in his 60's and you're still in your 40's that's when the age difference will come into play. What about kids , that is another consideration. In the end if you love each other & have a great relationship then Good Luck to you.
2007-11-13 03:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Ana C pisces1976 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the difference lies in maturity not age. When me and my wife married i was 21 and she was 26, granted its only 5 years but now im 24 n she keeps creepen towards 30,haha.
So no i don't think that their is anything wrong with the age difference(unless one was 15 and one was 32). Have fun and enjoy what you have, good relationships are few and far between regardless of age
2007-11-13 03:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women tend to be more mature than men, and if he's good to you, I think you should give it a chance. He's got a lot of history though, with fourteen more years of exes than you have, maybe even an ex-wife or kids. My dh is 9 years older than I am, and it doesn't seem to make much difference once you've been married for awhile. The only thing is, if he retires at 65 and you have to work 14 more years, how will that be? Make sure he's financially secure and then you can both enjoy his retirement years.
2007-11-13 03:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by rcpeabody1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're actually not the right age to be her father so 11 years isn't too plenty. despite the fact that, 20 is only too youthful to get married. in case you reside jointly, then in 3 or 4 years the age distinction won't count number as plenty.
2016-10-16 09:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by derverger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as 2 people love each other, age shouldn't matter. And it also doesn't matter what other people think about it, if you're happy, that's what matters. My husband is 7 years older than me & we're happy! That's all that matters! Good luck to you!
2007-11-13 03:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being on the same page and having respect for each other along with love is much greater than simple age difference. be happy and continue on.
2007-11-13 03:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that decion is really up to you and ur probably in the stage about caring what other people think but dont. As long as your treated good then your good
2007-11-13 03:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by top_notch_sagittarius_chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both at the same level... age is not a factor. But that is a big "if".
2007-11-13 03:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋