Last month i broke it off due to him not being there for me.
I mean...he's a great person but his priorties weren't straight.
He would choose to get a XBOX 360 game before making sure we didn't need anything. Now he's texting me talking about he knows he messed up. (Let me tell you...this wasn't the first time we left each other for things in that nature), he has a horrible attitude, doesn't trust me, doesn't like to communicate about situations (he rather go at the mouth instead of talking) and i basically fell out of love. I put more than 50% in this relationship and felt like i got 20%.
I just want him to understand i am okay alone and that i can do it. (Basically i was) and that i want him to just leave me alone.
I have texted him this already and he is very persistant. Please help.
2007-11-13 03:39:34 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop answering your phone and responding to his text messages. If he shows up at your door, tell him it's over and you don't want to see him or hear from him any more.
Or go to his house and tell him this to his face. Text messages are a silly way of communicating a serious issue, and he may need to hear it directly from you.
2007-11-13 03:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh expensive God. I had a guy like this. first of all, if he threatened to kill himself, call the police or something for suggestion. determine you get information of it, because of the fact he will deny it up and down the line, and then attack you afterwards and attempt to 'kill' himself. If he particularly starts off letting you have it, call 911. They checklist the conversations, and you have information of him asserting he will do it interior the history or despite the fact that. this is his existence, no longer yours. If he desires to throw it out the window because of the fact he can not enable circulate, enable him. he's a grown up for Pete's sake, and you're actually not his mom. understanding the form of guy, once you smash it off with him for good, he will harass you extra. Block his style ASAP, and initiate preserving documents of whilst he has forced you. If it gets to the area of a restraining order, you will want information of harassment. Block his style too, because of the fact he will locate besides to get to you, finally, he will circulate slowly off someplace and end. i know you opt for to be pals, yet which would be impossible. He might ought to alter, and a guy like this won't replace for you. i replaced into in an eerily comparable undertaking to you, and that i think undesirable which you're dealing with this precise now. this is a demanding option to make, yet you're at a element on your existence the place you should be courting a guy, and not a boy. Sorry for the long reaction. i'm getting somewhat captivated with those type of issues, haha
2016-10-16 09:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by kosmoski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want him out of your life, then do not answer any more of his texts, calls, etc... If it persists and he starts stalking you or continues to disrespect your wishes of not being with him, then you can try to get a restraining order. That is a drastic measure and I wouldn't use one unless he was truly stalking you. Tell him very firmly one more time that you do not want to be with him any longer and that he needs to move on. Then stick to your guns.
2007-11-13 03:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't reply to his texting. When he gets tired, he will stop.
2007-11-13 03:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore him he will get the message
2007-11-13 03:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by vibe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him
2007-11-13 03:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by bre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋