What kind of issues can a guy have if he has been married four or five times?

Question

A friend of mine has been married four or five times. Could it be fear of commitment or something else?

Answer 1

1. Serial cheater and liar
2. Cheap
3. Poor hygiene
4. Immature, (irresponsible) personally or financially
5. Cannot keep commitments, does not value relationships, does not know what he wants in a relationship
6. Lousy in bed
7. Selfish (Does not know how to extend to anyone else)
8. Physically or verbally abusive, domineering, manipulative
9. Shady character, sexual deviant, sexual predator
10. Overly impulsive, jumps into relationships too quickly
11. Has hidden mental or emotional problems
12. Boring and unimaginative personality
13. Substance abuser (drug addict, alcoholic)
14. Closet Gay

Answer 2

If he's been married four or five times, he's not afraid of commitment. He's afraid of monotony. Are the ex-wives still living? Maybe he's gay and can not face his truth. There could be lots and lots of reasons. I know a girl that's about 40 and she's been married several times. She keeps marrying guys that are abusive. Its kind of like a sickness really. Maybe he keeps marrying the wrong kind of woman. Maybe he's a momma boy and can't figure out how to be on his own, so he keeps getting married to be mothered. He needs to be single for a while to figure out who he is and to learn to live on his own and work out whatever other issues he may have lurking under the surface.

Answer 3

Its not fear of commitment it is lack on knowing what commitment is. He committed 5 times and was unable to stay committed.

There are two basic possibilities.

1) everyone else is a jerk

or

2) he is the jerk

It is possible he does not know how to pick a woman and selects them based on the wrong traits. i recommend eharmony they might be able to take the guess work out of it.

To determine if he is the jerk or everyone else is it would be as simple as looking at the conditions on which he got separated from each woman. This will tell him allot about himself and will likely show a pattern.

When dating it is always good o talk about the persons X. This will give you in-site as to how they will treat you after the newness is over.

Answer 4

Commitment is not the issue. After all he married four or five times. It's much more than that. Perhaps it's an issue of trust. On his part. He does does trust Himself to be the man he needs to be. He bounces from one person to the next tring to "prove" he is the man! Sadly all to often this is the case in this lost and undone world. No romance is not dead just asleep my friends lol...

Answer 5

It could be that he doesn't look before he leaps... I know that I got married after knowing my husband for 5 weeks, and now 2 years later we're trying to get everything set up so we can separate. I'll be divorced before I can legally drink in a restaurant. It happens when people get caught up in the emotions, and there's something thrilling about just not thinking. 4 or 5 times is a little extreme, but it's possible that there's nothing seriously wrong.

It could also be that there's something sexually different about him. Maybe he wants it too much or too little...or he's a little freaky. It could be something really simple, but no matter what it is it's going to be hard for someone to get past the fact that he's been through that many women.

Answer 6

It is said that a man marries the woman she is on their wedding day and hopes she will stay the same forever.
It is said that a woman marries the man on her wedding day she believe she has the potential to change into what she wants.
Somewhere along the way it sounds like he doesn't want to change - sorry, evolve - in his relationships and is overly determined to remain himself as he was before he made the commitment of marriage.

OR, it may be that he keeps marrying the same woman....a different woman but one with the same characteristics of his last one. This means he doesn't have the wisdom to learn from his mistakes.

Either that or he is just a right nasty bast***!

Regardless, I'd say marrying someone who has been divorced 4 times is asking for trouble.

Answer 7

Maybe he just hasn't met the right person. How many of us have had nurmerous relationships? Would someone ask why you have had 5 or more boyfriends/girlfriends? Not everyone meets the right person when they get married. And they find that out after the marriage. It is unfair to assume why this man has had so many marriages fall apart on him. None of us know him, nor do we know what its like to be married to him. No one goes into a marriage believing that it will end in divorce, it just happens for some people.

Answer 8

No, it's certainly not a FEAR of commitment, since he has been married 5 times. Just STAYING married. He may just be a fickle type - falls in love enough to marry, then when the mood wears off, falls in love with someone else.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

It could be that or the fact that he is attracted to the same type of women that aren't good for him. It could be any number of things. It could be he should just be dating instead of marrying these women.

My step dad was married 3 times before marrying my mom. They have been married for 5+ years and have the greatest relationship but she is completely different than his other 3 wives who could fit into one category.

I hope he finds the right one.