whats the best way to flirt without not looking desperate because apparently my method isn't working.... so whats the best way to flirt and get your attention? please help
2007-11-13 03:14:00 · 27 answers · asked by jisby13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mmmmmmm jus b urself!!!!!!Its d most imp key of all.Jus b urself look at guy if hez lookin at u then jus give him a smile ,,,n wait for his response else if u wanna flirt more then talk a lot with him n den suddenly stop talking or stop paying attention to him,,,he'll get crazy n start wondering whats happening n will move arnd u like a puppy
Trust me lady it really works!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-13 03:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Robby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes a flirt desperate is faked laughing, prolonged flirting, and getting up close. If a lady were to flirt for a few minutes, look me straight in the eyes, say good-bye with a smile, and then walk away, she would definitely have my attention, let me know I am the guy she is interested in (sometimes there is a misunderstanding there) and still keep a little challenge to the hunt.
2007-11-13 11:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Frank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me personally, all it takes is to show that you have a good head on your shoulders and a great sense of humor.
A great example of what instantly turns me OFF of a girl is too look at Jessica Simpson of a few years back. The whole "Chicken of the Sea" not knowing that it was fish? Talk about a turn off.
Don't act/pretend like you're dumb to get someone to notice you or a guy to laugh. Simply put, people are laughing AT YOU...not with you.
Tell me what you like to do, what you aspire to be, your hobbies, the music you listen to, etc. Tell me REAL things. These to me are a major turn on. You're flirting...but you're doing nothing more than saying things you already know and feel comfortable with. It's a win-win!
Secondly...have a sense of humor. Don't come up to me glaring me down with the evil eye because you think I'm "cute" or whatever. Come on up to me and say something that might take me by surprise. Something that would make me laugh. You're SURE to sweep me off my feet if it works...and if it doesn't work at least you didn't creep me out with all the staring.
2007-11-13 11:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by gratefulhokie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make eye contact, give a little smile. I feel that if a woman wants to flirt she should make first move. Start a conversation. A real man will not take it as desperation if a woman makes the first move at least he shouldn't take it as desperation but flattered unless he is stuck up butt hole.
2007-11-13 11:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by casper_jazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being friendly with smiles and a small amount of touching. i.e. touch an arm or shoulder. The body contact sends a message that you are "interested. And you can tell by the way the person reacts if the "feelings of interest" are reciprocated.
2007-11-13 11:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called playing the game....so you want to know the best way to catch guys attention?...Its quite simple, it called eye candy...your appearance in general does a lot of work for you...so if you keep yourself looking good, then you'll have a flock of guys coming after you, but that doesn't mean that you'll the guys you want...Its up to you to use your "screening process" (you know the tests you ladies hit guys with) to find the needle in a hay stack.
2007-11-13 11:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by 7th_engineer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like urself never ever put urself out there so someone can take adantage of u a little flirting it okay but not full on flirting cause that will make u seem like u are something that u dont want to be..
2007-11-13 11:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dun thing flirt will really help. Just be yourself and talk like u normally would, be as natural as possible because u want them to see your real self not an act out one.
2007-11-13 11:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ryoma E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be casual and not too obvious. Start with eye contact and a smile then look away. If he's still looking when you turn back then you could be in with a shout.
Good Luck.
2007-11-13 11:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lexi j obviously doesn't do well with the guys. Please don't listen to her! Be yourself and if you feel like the guy(s) are taking things the wrong way then let him/them know. We are the horniest breed on the plant and sex is always on our minds. Most of us need blatent explanations cuz we think for the wrong area. If you let us know how you feel then most of us will respect that. If you're going to talk about other guys then you are going to alienate whomever you're talking with. Good luck!
2007-11-13 11:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Alpha Dad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋