Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

If my spouse really knew what i was feeling inside, it would hurt too much to stay in the marriage.

My spouse has a severely handicapped child from a previous marriage. This is hard for me to cope with, and makes me very uncomfortable. We are rarely intimate and i believe this is because i associate my spouse with this child. How would revealing this affect my marriage?

2007-11-12 05:00:03 · 35 answers · asked by julesm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 04:55:00 · 1 answers · asked by crybabygomez 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife usually has no interest in sex. Yet once every 3 months, she suddenly gets horny. Women are not supposed to get horny. What's wrong with her?

2007-11-12 04:53:10 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the cheating was not sleeping with another guy.

2007-11-12 04:52:00 · 5 answers · asked by halimeh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am pregnant and I cannot please my husband in the bedroom and so I have given him "permission" to talk to and have a relationship with other women. I have even set up a profile for him on fling.com (sexysouthernguy). The only thing I ask is that he is open with me about it. He works with a girl that I swear has the hots for him. They have exchanged #s and she asks him all the time if he has plans but they have never planned anything. I think that neither of them can get up the courage.
Do you think I am doing the wrong thing? Or am I just being a considerate loving wife?

2007-11-12 04:50:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Humans are obviously curious by nature; if you try to show something to them, then they will naturally take a passing look to see what it is that you want us to see, and whether it is worth seeing in the first place. When a girl wears a Vee cut top that splits down to almost her belly button, does she really expect people to stare into her eyes?

Certainly she must realize that everyone is thinking “bimbo” whenever she acts offended that she got the result that the clothing designer was apparently aiming for.

Just curious as to what she might be thinking.

2007-11-12 04:49:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has been in my life since I've been 2 y.o., almost like a cousin. Throught the years we would see each other and our families but as we've gotten older and married things have become awkward. I can't ever go there without getting annoyed by something riduculous. She married ten years ago and sine then I've been the one always driving to her house for these kids parties etc. I've been married for 2 years and mentioned her house is too far for me to drive, to meet me half way into the city. Her response was that she spends too much money in the city. Okay, so I have to pay tolls and be the one to commute 1 1/2 hours each time. My life is less important because I don't have kids and my husband make more money than hers. She says insulting comments (I don't even want to get into that) I'm always in a bad mood when I get home. This is the first time we're actually going outside of her town in ten years to go shopping. Everything is with the kids, I asked if her ...

2007-11-12 04:48:18 · 11 answers · asked by Lyla 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What is it called? it's like daycare only for old people. I need it for my project, i'm saying it's a bad thing. They should live with their families.

2007-11-12 04:47:27 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

this last one he's still emailing and talking to her on the phone while at work...confronted the woman via an email myself and she said she would leave us alone and let us live our lives...that was back in january and they still talk...they were high school sweethearts and reconnected 30 years later. this isn't his first time cheating either...is he just giving me lip service so he doesn't lose his caretaker?

2007-11-12 04:44:46 · 15 answers · asked by alura_06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is calling me a pussy because I said I wasn't looking forward to cooking on Thanksgiving, I am 6 months pregnant and frankly I think I should have help this year and every year for that matter. Cooking the big of a dinner is alot of work and even more when your pregnant.

2007-11-12 04:38:09 · 13 answers · asked by ME 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I broke up on Monday. I'm not entirely sure why but he said we fought alot (we have been) and we tried too many times that was all and he couldn't even look or touch me. Anyways he is being completly immature! I saw him and he couldn't say hi or even look at me but proceeded to laugh and rub it in my face, how happy he was...or pretending. P.S. Things changed this summer after I went away to Canada for a month...also we are christians so he would not be sleeping around. So there is this girl, one of those annoying, overfriendly types. Facebook of course! She already has a picture with him as her default saying how much she loves him and how hott he is, and wrote a comment about the concert tomorrow...the concert she's driving 2 hours to see just with him...that i was going to suprise him with. However, he either hasn't been online or isn't replying to any of these things. She's rubbing it in, not him. What should I do, I want to be mature. I also want him back...

2007-11-12 04:35:23 · 4 answers · asked by DeliaS 1 in Singles & Dating

iam asking this beacuse im confused beacuse iam a virgin and for it to hurt scares me

2007-11-12 04:34:19 · 11 answers · asked by bre bre 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance wants to get married in early August. I say too hot. I want to have the wedding in late September or early October. She doesn't want to be cold. Any ideas?

2007-11-12 04:32:18 · 18 answers · asked by Ken C 2 in Weddings

My husband and I have been married for a year and together on and off for 10 years. A little background info..we met when we were 14 years old in drug treatment, I got pregnant and raised my son alone for 5 years, he then says he wants to have a family, I went back to him, got pregnant with a second child, and he slept with my cousin in my living room while I was sleeping. I left again, fininshed school and changed my life. During that time he continued using, and ended up in prison for 3 years. I was married to someone else, and that was a miserable situation too, which produced another child. My now husband 'Changed" while in prison and I got back with him about 2 days after my first marriage ended. I have been able to get my RN degree, and actually have some confidence now, he is verbally abusive to myself and my kids. I know this sounds like an easy decision, but I feel a lot of guilt. He and his mother blame all his on me, and say I have a problem with "running away"

2007-11-12 04:30:37 · 13 answers · asked by Destini H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanted to include registry cards in our invitations. So people would know where we are registared. Also so people out of state can purchase something online of they'd like. It this tacky?


BTB 7-5-08

2007-11-12 04:26:08 · 25 answers · asked by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 in Weddings

::this is kinda a repost,sorry::: everytime i go shopping for the past couple of weeks i see this guy who works there. i will be walking around, and i will feel eyes on me. i'll look up and i always see him watching me. sometimes its long stares, othertimes its quick glances. he doesnt "follow" me around like some guys, but if he happens to me nearby then he is looking. well i was there today, and i look up and there he is. so i tried to ignore him (because i dont like to stare at people). i had to walk passed him to get to something, he was in the process of taking his cart down the aisle when he just stops and watches me walk passed him (i could kinda see and feel him witht he corner of my eye) i look at him, and say hi, and all he does is look the other way. now when he sees me he tries to "sneak"glances rather then flat out staring. he doesnt appear to be shy (he doesnt look like a geek or nothing) is he crazy, or is it possible for normal guys to so afraid they're rude?

2007-11-12 04:22:08 · 39 answers · asked by HerR 2 in Singles & Dating

Of course, you might say, "whatever we agree to is fair." But I would like to make a proposal and back it up on some reasonable basis. Thank you for your help.

2007-11-12 04:20:32 · 8 answers · asked by richard_bruder 1 in Family

she also loves to read vampire novels . do you think she is werid or no ?

2007-11-12 04:18:25 · 27 answers · asked by iluvred156 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am a 23 year old college student. I made the biggest mistake of my life when I married a man who I thought I was madly in love with after only a few months of knowing him. I don't have family to turn to and no friends that can help. I recently found out unbeknownst to him that he has been meeting women online to have sexual relations. I have to stay here in his home for right now because I have nowhere else to go, and I do not work, but am looking for a job now. What's the best way to handle this situation? A little bit of advice please?!

2007-11-12 04:15:45 · 9 answers · asked by Lizzy! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK, I'm getting married this coming summer, Well I live in Arizona and its pretty hot here in the summer time. After our ceremony and its time for the reception like after our first dance, meal...etc. Am I still suppose to keep the dress on? Its strapless but still hot. Is there another "party" dress I can wear or am I just suppose to wear it the whole time.

We are expecting the party to last awhile....due to both families being quite the partiers...

2007-11-12 04:15:26 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Angie♥ 3 in Weddings

I remember a time when everything between us was cool.

No stress, no worries, no strings attach Just thinking about you and I, not worrying about consequences

We didn't want everyone to know...

A secret that is ours to hold and not to tell, of long walks and late nights on the phone.

Rumors throughout the hallway of a story untold, of two beauties who were possibly in love.

One who knew the ins and outs and the other who knew nothing of the word OUT.

This created a mess consisting of unwanted stress that eventually turned into less... and bad... and worst.

Today we are two worlds apart.

She moved on, I moved on then WE finally moved on.

Reunited: now seems to be hopeless
But we still have those memories we shared that get blurry every time I tried to remember

2007-11-12 04:12:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a cousin who is 30 years old, she just got married in Jamaica on Oct. 24. This is her 3rd marriage(i know, crazy) anyways her reception is this Saturday Nov. 17. I was wanting to know, should I buy them a wedding gift, I just think it's kind of tacky to register for your 3rd wedding. This is her new husbands 1st marriage, so I kind of feel like we are obligated to get them something from their registry. But on the other hand I just think a card will do. What do you think??

2007-11-12 04:06:04 · 16 answers · asked by cm7882 2 in Weddings

I went on a 3 day confrence in Chicago and while I was gone, my significant other must have called me 10 times a day. He called me in the middle of confrence meetings, called me when I was out to eat with co workers, called me when I was sleeping.
Now I am home. He lives 1 1/2 block away and he has totally ignored me. He quit calling when I got off the plane and tells me he is exhausted from work and slept all day yesterday, all nite last nite, all day today and is planning on napping before he goes to work tonite again.
He has done this same thing over and over again. He will start calling me tonite at work, but when I get home he will not call me again. Whats his problem?
I call him, but only once a day and usually when the whole day is tied up and I have something to say.
Its just ridiculous to me that I live about 1/10th of a mile from him, but he acts like I dont exist when I am home.

2007-11-12 04:01:48 · 10 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been married about 4.5 yrs the marriage on a whole has been very emotionally rocky for me. I am going to be turning 26 yrs old soon and my husband is 39 yrs old.We met by chance at one of my dads companies parties and after 8 months of dating got engaged then 3-4 months later we got married much to my families dismay.Looking back i think i was more infatuated with the gifts he was giving me,i liked being shown off and all the attention.It felt like love but my feelings started diminishing shorty after we got married because i was so lonley.My husband travels 4-5 months out of the year. My husband lets me buy whatever clothing ect that i want but is cold and emotionally unavailable for the most part.He is extremley controling and i feel like just property to him.When i brought up kids he bought me a dog it took 2 more pets for the talk to finally happen.We tried for a year i got poked and prodded nothing was wrong but i still could not get pregnant.He refused to go through any..

2007-11-12 03:58:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

does your partner need constant instructions? or do they use their brains and do things without being asked or maybe they offer.
Do you get fed up with the lack of support and communication?

2007-11-12 03:58:20 · 29 answers · asked by whispernikki 4 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you get your boyfiend to stop breaking up with you. if the couple is going out right now for the 4th time, and hes probably gonna break up with the girl like in 2/3 weeks.and the girl doesnt wanna leave him.they never broke u for good so can someone helpp?

2007-11-12 03:55:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've NEVER been in a real relationship - relationships I have been in I would classify as High School types so that doesnt count. Anyway I'm now 20 and want to find a special guy to have fun with and stuff.
I've been on dates and I get asked out ALOT...This makes it difficult because I get along with most people..anyway I met this guy and he's cute and has a great personality and upholds the same morals as me, but he doesnt have a great smile - his teeth are not appealing..now I know everyone cant be perfect but I feel as though I would be forcing myself to like him 100%.
Is it possible to like him more once getting to know him, and his teeth will no longer become an issue?
I have no clue about realtionships and I dont want to hurt his feelings or mine in the long run. \

2007-11-12 03:55:08 · 5 answers · asked by musiclovermogul 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy i'm interested in.
I would love to pursue a relationship with him
but some people have told me bad things about him
Such as, He's a player., only wants one thing. [sex]
I dont want to judge him
because i wouldn't want to be judge
how do i find out the truth?!

2007-11-12 03:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by Skye 5 in Singles & Dating

If there is one thing I've found out, it has to be the fact that people find love at the most unique time, or places. If your willing to, why not share how you met your love. It could give ideas.

Thx you
:)

2007-11-12 03:51:24 · 22 answers · asked by Your little helper 4 in Singles & Dating

i just dont get it i broke with this loser boyfriend a month ago then he text me out of nowhere tellin me that im fat and sayin thats the reason he left and im like okay whatev get the hell away from my life end of story.. (im moving on and all of sudden i found out that he wrote my sister on myspace stating the situation with us out of the blue! the thing is they are not even cool like that barely even had a conversation together..i just dont understand men if he calls me mean stuff and has a problem with me why would u he try to contact me??

2007-11-12 03:51:01 · 6 answers · asked by Cyntia 3 in Singles & Dating