Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

My girlfriend and I have a fantastic relationship everything is great. She confided in me that she would love to know what it is like to please a woman orally. How do I help her with this fantasy, or do I just leave it alone.

2007-11-12 06:55:35 · 12 answers · asked by iceman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 06:54:56 · 50 answers · asked by stoner 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is depressed and wont do anything about it. He went to see a doctor and the doctor perscribed him some anti-depressants that he took for a week and then stopped because he didnt like the way they made him feel (numb). He went and saw a therapist once and he didn't like that all he wanted to talk about was his childhood (it was bad). It has gotten to the point where I dont even want to be around him. He hates his job but can't leave it (military) and I know that is a huge issue. Its to the point where I feel like he hates all of his life, me am at the end of my rope on what to do and on patients.

2007-11-12 06:54:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 06:53:15 · 17 answers · asked by Neil 7 in Singles & Dating

at the gym there is a section for chicks only, at my college their is a womens something center, wuts the deal. for the gym i guess, wut they think were trying to look at them, if i'm paying 80 sum a month for a gym fee to work out, trust me you are not on my mind while i'm working out. and as for school i really have no clue. this is actually my friends question, but i think it is interesting so i'll ask

2007-11-12 06:52:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

'm here with my stick man watchin a basketball game, my girl and her freinds were in the back room. I guess there going to the mall before they go this karaoke bar. they are so loud we overheard one of her friends say, i cant wait to buy an outfit i wanna feel sexy, me and my boy looked at each other in a pause and started laughing. i understand buying clothes because you have none or for a special event. but i never heard of someone going out and spending money jus so they can feel sexy. in about 30 minutes my boy and i are going to red lobster, but were not goin to look at the food and go yum, i feel full, where going for the enviornment and to put the food in my stomach

2007-11-12 06:51:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The problem is I too talk to my mom often..may once in two days...and i cannot tell him to stop as i am afraid he woul ask me to do the same...but is it not different for girls...my moms like my friend...wot do i do??

2007-11-12 06:50:28 · 8 answers · asked by c687stu 2 in Family

I meet this girl at a bar she has some of the same friends as i do we. She stated talking to me about her boyfriend that is away a school and how she dose not like him and she want to dump. Now at the end of the night we end up making out know she want to date me. Can i tust some one like this and what should i do

2007-11-12 06:49:02 · 1 answers · asked by brian j 1 in Singles & Dating

Can you have a maid of honour that has done nothing for you/ or lived up to the role?

I have sorted the dress, the bouquet, the venue, the trousseau etc

She has disrespected me at work (I am in charge when the manager is not there) I asked her a question, as to why she left the builing and did not sign out or report to me, she answered with her back to me.

I never asked her to be maid of honour, when I said I set the date to other workmates she said 'I will be your maid of honour'

Because she has disrespected me at work, I no longer want her as my maid of honour. Surely the MOH should respect the bride to be in all aspects

What do you think of this?

2007-11-12 06:48:48 · 6 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

I really like this boy but i never really see him or talk to him because he doesnt go to my school i only know him becasue hes my friends friend and we once got on really well but that was only becasue i was drunk lol. I saw him today but i had no idea what to say so i didnt like talk to him at all and we dont really know each other. I have know idea what to say to him or anything!!! HELPPP Hes kinda a bad boy if u know what i mean he smokes weed but hes really nice. i just really want to be better friends with him! Anyone good with guys here? if u r then please tell me what you talk about and how you get a conversation going. But keep in mind i dont really know him!

2007-11-12 06:48:37 · 3 answers · asked by Izzy 2 in Singles & Dating

he never talks to me because i'm Gothic but he has said that he likes the same music like i do rock music last year he was trying to talk to me and i did'nt talk to him because i thought that , that would make him look domb . then he said hey and i said hey and he was picking at me calling me name that hurt me but made me feel good about myself but it hurt me alot and now this year he does even talk to me

2007-11-12 06:47:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am the maid of honor at my best friends wedding and I am writing my speech. So far it is about 3 minutes long with added time for laughs because some of it is funny. I would like to add more because there is so much I can say but I don't want to take toomuch time.

2007-11-12 06:45:28 · 15 answers · asked by LovesPets 2 in Weddings

I was talking to this chick & I teased her about her picture.
Later the 2nd day she changed it...

How can I tease her without hurting her feeling or act like a jerk.
(About the picture she changed)

2007-11-12 06:45:09 · 9 answers · asked by Cocoon 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a husband, 1 son that is 19, another that is 17 and a 3 yr old. My problem is that my dad drops by without even calling and stays for weeks on end. He's here now!
He did call this time but he called earlier in the week and said "I have an eye doctors appointment Friday, I'll be down by the end of the week." I said Ok but...He failed to mention his eye doctors appointment is NEXT FRIDAY! He is sleeping in my oldest sons room on a twin bed so my son is having to stay somewhere else while dad is here. He claims the older boys have been calling and harrassing him to come visit but when I questioned them they said they hadn't even talked to him. When he is here he sleeps all day and up all night slamming cabinets in the kitchen which is right beside our 3 yr olds room, it wakes him up. He also slams doors etc. I love him to bits and pieces but when he awake he is right under our tails. My oldest boys can't even sneak in without him latching on to them. And my 17 yr old...

2007-11-12 06:44:13 · 2 answers · asked by justceleste 3 in Family

my husband and i have been having problems for awhile he has a huge problem with controling his anger he always has a smart remark to everything u can not talk to him about our problems with out him thinking im blamming it all on him then he trys to turn it all around on me we have had fight after fight because of his mouth or smart remakrs or lake of romance although the sex is good but last month he crossed the line and put his hands on me and hurt me and i cant trust him or anything now i told him he had to go to anger classes etc but he keeps making excuses and does not want to talk about our problems i need to see him want to help himself but i cant make him he thinks everything will work itself out he cares more about work money material things not trying to fix our marriage i dont know what to do iv read book after book what do i do to make him ralise he is loosing me please give me your thoughs fill free to pm or email me with any private advice if u dont want to post it here

2007-11-12 06:42:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, I just thought it would be fun to see what kined of dates I get from people. My boyfriend FINALLY asked me to marry him but we really don't have a clue on what day to "do the deed." I thought this would be a great way to get some ideas :)

2007-11-12 06:42:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-12 06:41:36 · 10 answers · asked by chicana v 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated a girl for a year. We broke up but we still are friends. About 2 months ago she started dating my friend. It didnt bother me at first but now i realize how much i like her .... What should I do?

2007-11-12 06:40:59 · 30 answers · asked by blaah 2 in Singles & Dating

If you have been with someone you loved so much could you forgive them if they had cheated? Especially if you had begged them to be honest with you about the incident. This has been an ex-girlfriend who caused numerous problems in his life, has a baby whose father is unknown and seems t surface every few months for money. I felt we had a good relationship in everyway until she moved back to town. He has tried to work things out with me but he is still holding to his story. I had called her and asked for him, he was there.

2007-11-12 06:40:53 · 8 answers · asked by Beth66 2 in Singles & Dating

Few weeks ago he got an out of school suspension for being a bully and of course this wasnt his first time. He likes to bully his brothers and when he went to his dads house he even raised a fist at him. He has never done that at my house but i just got a call from the school and he had been mean to a younger student and commenting about their religion. Im am overwhelmed cause i did not bring any of my boyz to talk about anyones religion. I feel like im failing as a parent and dont know where to go from here cause i know its gonna get worse since he didnt learn the first time after the suspension and grounding. can anyone suggest where to go from here, he's a good kid when he wants to be i already feel im too hard on him but im to the point i cant let him out of my site.

2007-11-12 06:40:17 · 4 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family

anyone notice how women say they prefer romance and all this yadda ya over money. i jus find it funny that when you talk to them they judge a finacial status as criteria for them to even accept you talking to them, now i'm not saying go on a date with a dude who approaches with one shoe and the other has his foot poking thru the front (cuz obviously your in for disaster)
i jus find it funny seeing this in real life, movies, tv, or even watching some dude across the club trying to spit his game (then when he walks away with his head down, we all know wut happened)

2007-11-12 06:39:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This happened before and we are married only for 2 yrs. I dont know why I miss her now when she is gone. Please help out... :(

2007-11-12 06:39:37 · 12 answers · asked by Auto S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 06:35:58 · 4 answers · asked by Marie A 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend's girlfriend (who's in law school right now) dumped him because she didn't have enough time to date. Unfortunately, this left him broken-hearted. I don't know. It seems like not having time is a stupid reason to break up with someone, especially since this woman still has time to hang out with friends, etc. How hard is it to go on a date one day a month, or whatever. Do you think she sincerely just didn't have enough time, or that she just needed an excuse to break up?

My friend, of course, makes excuses for her, like that she felt bad about not having enough time for him, etc., but I think she's just a heartless brat! (I'm a little upset at her, can you tell?)

2007-11-12 06:35:01 · 8 answers · asked by bocca_bella 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondered what your opinion is on this. I am writing a paper about it.

2007-11-12 06:33:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My wife went out and got her nose pierced when I was away for the weekend. We have had numerous discussions about this were I expressed my dislike for this. Now, I understand it is her body and she may do what she likes, but don't I have the right to be upset? She is mad at me for getting upset, which makes me even more mad about the whole thing. Am I missing something here?

2007-11-12 06:33:12 · 20 answers · asked by Spyder81 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Wow! I am waiting for some good comments!
We all need some lust! Yum Yum! lol

2007-11-12 06:31:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 06:31:38 · 6 answers · asked by Sweet Southerngirl 1 in Friends

2007-11-12 06:31:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i cant have friends over. THANKS

2007-11-12 06:30:51 · 8 answers · asked by Lols 3 in Family