2007-11-12 06:31:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-11-12 08:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by kate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A wedding transforms both men and women. For whatever reason, spouses begin to take each other for granted. It is probably because they know that they'll be together until death do us part. Maybe someone should change the vows to until death do us part or until you gain fifty pounds -- whichever comes first. This may sound a little harsh, but it would probably keep the vow exchangers on their toes.
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Within a relationship, both men and women should have a say in what the other person looks like physically. After all, attraction is the key to a healthy relationship. Now I'm not saying that attraction is the only essential element in a relationship, but it does help; and anyone that argues this point is deluding themselves. After all, the definition of love, philosophically speaking, is attraction preceeded by admiration.
Why shouldn't one have a say if their wife or husband puts on too much weight from sitting on the couch and eating nachos all day? When you buy a car, a BMW for instance, you expect it to remain a BMW. The car won't become a GoodYear blimp with time, it will inevitably get old but will always remain a BMW. So if a woman or man no longer looks like they used to, don't be afraid to communicate that they should get back into shape. As with all things though, subtlety is your best ally.
Of course if you've packed on a few pounds, you have absolutely no right to ask your partner to lose weight. The only way you can make such a request is if you are keeping yourself in shape.
2007-11-12 07:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL.
Don't go for the default setting though. You're only looking at the bad changes. There have been some good changes that you're not seeing that weren't there in the beginning.
Better idea is to look at upgrading. That way you keep the good and improve on the bad. She's the best person to talk to about what to work on. Of course, the same upgrade goes for you too.
It's never a one way street.
2007-11-12 06:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by Vitiran 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We all undergo changes as the years pass. I'm sure you can find ways in which you have changed too. Perhaps the two of you need to have a calm, respectful talk about what bothers you. Be sure to listen when it's her turn.
2007-11-12 06:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
People change and there is not default setting. I was married for over 14 years and my husband changed drastically and not for the better. You either learn to deal with the changes and love her new ways or you can't cope with them and seek couseling.
2007-11-12 06:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by Babe 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Contact: Stepford mens club 0001489 1234567.
Seriously matey dream on it does not exist - except perhaps on Venus
2007-11-12 06:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is it a 70's model, if so there's a little switch just by the G-spot apparently not been able to find the one on my misses though good luck.
2007-11-12 06:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by H.A.L 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is no factory reset function. You have to trade her in for another one once she has become corrupted or defective. At this time, I suggest an upgrade to one with better features.
2007-11-12 06:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try using the escape button>>>>
2007-11-12 06:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
whatever she has to press to turn you back to the lovely person you were before you landed her.
2007-11-12 06:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by D B 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It's the little spot between her *** and her bellybutton.
2007-11-12 07:38:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋