Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

My husband and I was playing with our 1 yr old and something about custody was brought up and he said he was going to go for full custody and our daughter started crying so I took her and told her not to worry because I would go for full custody, and then he told me that he would at least go to Joint, my question is what is the true difference?
My husband is never home during the day, and our daughter and my step-son is in bed before he comes home from work [[He has full custody of his son, so I know what full custody is]]
I have a full/part time job working 3rd shift but I spend all day with our daughter and when she goes down for a nap I go down also. My step-son is in full day kindergarden.
When our daughter was 6 months old and learning how o roll over my step-son kicked her, and my husband did nothing all he said was S-S did it bc he was lacking attention + S-S has hit other kids, 1 had to be rushed to ER 2x's
If him and I were to ever get a divorce who would win?
Thank You

2007-11-12 07:48:31 · 10 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 07:47:45 · 9 answers · asked by rhiannon_m2004 5 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy that one of my best friends is friends with. whenever my friend talks to him he always kind of glances over at me. we are both jehovah's witnesses which you don't come across them very often. idk if he likes me, and idk how to make a move.

i kinda want to start dating him

2007-11-12 07:45:22 · 5 answers · asked by nw 1 in Singles & Dating

It came to light when a former client called the house. He left a message on the answering machine. She did not hear it as I erased the message. She was very evasive when confronted.

2007-11-12 07:43:18 · 22 answers · asked by BERNARD F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 30, she's 27. Married 1.5 years, together for 9. The last.. well.. 9 years she has mood swings where she turns into a total ***** and says horrible things to me, my family.. everything that is important to me. Because of this I had 2nd thoughts about marrying her before we got married but figured everyone has these issues and went ahead.
Shortly before we got married I met a girl thru the net.. just chatting, explained what my problems to her, and she shared hers with me. Just friends. Fast forward 2 years, we have recently developed feelings for each other. After my wife and I had a huge fight where she went home to see a psychologist, I met this girl. We both want to be together. But, my wife saw the psychologist, got anti-depressants, and is much better now. But, I can't forget all the horrible things she's done to me. All I can think about his how great this new girl is. What should I do? BTW the other girl is stuck with a bf she doesn't want to be with, she wants to be w me.

2007-11-12 07:42:14 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the guy i just started seeing and i are getting along fantastically(we're dating, but not 'officially' bf and gf). we have constant conversation and there's pretty much no awkward moments or silences, we are comfortable with what the other has to say. that is, except for the fact that he talks about his exes. alot. not good, or bad, just in general. it seems that every story he tells starts off with "there was this girl i was dating"... i dont know whether to take it as a good thing or bad thing... any advice??

2007-11-12 07:41:03 · 17 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend last night told me he isnt happy in the relationship anymore, he later confessed his in love with his ex even thought they broke up 5yrs ago. My family 3 months ago moved overseas and he knows i miss them heaps. I am staying in this country for him mostly.
I love him but know feel up set that he has no decided to do this to me.
what should i do, leave and join my family or sty and sort this out with him.ive been with him for 2and a half years and we get on really well.

2007-11-12 07:40:24 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 15, pregnat (please do not tell me to give up the baby, I can support it and I do not want to give it up for adoption) and I feel like my mom does not want me to have this baby even though she has supported me about this. I'm 6 weeks pregnat and I have a friend that has an apartment that I could move into. She is 18 and goes to a college near the apartment and is willing to help me raise the baby. I was wondering if I was a. legally able to move out (I will contuniue through school, right now I am taking online classes) and b. how can I explain this to my mom? I have about $50,000 saved up from summer jobs, baby sitting, my old nannying job and more stuff I've saved up and I am currently working at a cafe part time. This would probally just be temporary until I have enough to buy my own place. Plus my mom is pregnat herself. The daddy of my baby will not be around in it's life (that's a whole other story) and I want to be able to feel independent. Please help!

2007-11-12 07:38:48 · 11 answers · asked by Justine 2 in Family

Ok, this is sensitive question. More directed at the ladies. In the course of intimacy and forgetfulness yesterday, my g/f & I wound up having sex but forgot about the tampon. Shall we say it's "up there"...any suggestions how to get hold of it?--can't get any string...

2007-11-12 07:38:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 07:36:16 · 9 answers · asked by stoner 1 in Singles & Dating

He is violent and controlling. He refuses to take the 12 steps and recover. My parents refuse alanon.

2007-11-12 07:35:48 · 8 answers · asked by charlotte q 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im switching schools next year and he calls my school a lesbian school because the boys and girls of the school are separated into two schools and he implies I'm a lesbian for going to this school WHY do you think he does this?

2007-11-12 07:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by ladybug 3 in Friends

2007-11-12 07:35:18 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

probably its his first time

2007-11-12 07:35:14 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yes I have a thong fetish espically for shiny ones. I get turned on real quick if a women comes to me in a thong. I am tired of this addiction and being thong raider.

What can I do to help get over this habbit and addiction to thongs?

2007-11-12 07:34:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do women prefer front or back closures....and why? I think most men would prefer front closures, but it is nice to show off the skill of opening the back with one hand.

2007-11-12 07:31:44 · 20 answers · asked by NakdWhtGuy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 07:31:41 · 18 answers · asked by chevdud97 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently me and my wife seperated for reasons I wish not to share, and I was wondering how to win my wifes heart back? I have broke been a horrible husband in the past, and contiunally pushed her away. I have asked god to forgive me and I'm trying to rekindle the marriage, but I think it might be to late. Please help.

2007-11-12 07:31:09 · 12 answers · asked by Ronald H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do any one have any idea at all?

2007-11-12 07:30:49 · 10 answers · asked by PIMP 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 07:30:19 · 39 answers · asked by mellu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband tells me that he loves me and wants to be here in this home,but yet we had a problem a yr. ago and he made friends with some girl on the internet behind my back, but he was suppose to stop talking to her I just didn't feel right because he had to do it all behind my back.But now he still talking to her and told me that they (her&supposely she is married)are his freinds not mind,and I will never meet them,but she has come up to his work to visit,that is all he will tell me.He has lied about her for the past year, what am I to do we have two kids and I want this marriage to work but I don't want to be disrespected in any way. If I did what he did he would flip.Am I even wrong for staying in this marriage, someone help with alittle advice.

2007-11-12 07:29:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband left me 3 months ago we have 2 kids.My daughter found out he has a GF he told my daughter he would be out of town this weekend She thought he might be going to our cabin so she texted him & told him Dont you dare take your GF to our cabin if you do my friend who lives around there will tell me. He wrote back" tell her to come by at 1 o'clock & she can meet her."
I can't tell you how much that hurt me I have not been to the cabin since he left & all of my things are still there my clothes and everything & our bed I can't believe he would do that to me
my mom thinks that he just said that & that he didn't even go to the cabin. She thinks he was just mad at my daughter for trying to run his life. It hurts so bad if he did that.Does anyone have an opinion on it?

2007-11-12 07:29:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would the average guy in his early forties see his toddler's babysitter (or nanny) as...
-an equal (a peer)
-someone he would like to sleep with
-someone more along the lines of a daughter-figure
-something else

2007-11-12 07:29:17 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 13 years and my husband always climaxes before I do. When he does, then we're done. What can I do?

2007-11-12 07:28:10 · 11 answers · asked by Danelle B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my live in boyfriend of 3 yrs moved out nov 2nd and I've been a total mess cuz I want him to come home I can't eat or sleep but my question is now I'm incredibly. horny? Is that normal? He said he doesn't know if were broken up or just on a break to get things in order. So what do I do (it doesn't work if I do it myslef its just nowhere near the same)

2007-11-12 07:26:45 · 26 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm interested in seeing the differences for men and women. I think I already know the answer, though.

2007-11-12 07:26:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 47 years old cuddly with a beard i am a christian and has 2 great kids that i care for,i go to church every week,and am a voluntary worker at junior church,and the contact centre(meeting place for seperated families)i like to help others like the homeless,animals,aged and sick people and monthly make donations to mercy ships and spend spare cash buying stuff for homeless hostel,i'm cuddly and very loving,i am also very close to mum and weekly go to her house to do her housework,garden and take her shopping as she is disabled,i can also,sew.cook,clean,iron,shopping and look after the house and i'm a man would you marry me or be a pen pals if not why not please don't be rude or crude honesty is the key,please also tell the sort of person you are you could even email me a picture of you i not bothered what sort of picture it is

2007-11-12 07:26:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just found out I share this date with Charles Manson. This is depressing.

2007-11-12 07:25:39 · 33 answers · asked by The Voice of Reason 7 in Friends

Why do men want to share a woman? Especially my boyfriend? What is he and his mates getting out of having sex with me in front of each other?

When I ask them they say they really like me but then I think they dont listen to anything I say i.e using condoms! Also we dont use condoms so it is messy if you know what I mean! How can guys be ok with this from other guys?

Why does it not upset my b'friend to see men have sex with me? Why does he get off on it???

2007-11-12 07:24:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, I'm wavering on my wedding colors (eeek!). At first it was black & white, then black/white/red. Now I've seen some very pretty colored bridesmaids dresses over the weekend and I'm thinking of changing my what I had in mind as the colors.
I've not asked bridesmaids to be in the wedding yet, and nothing has been purchased besides invitations (which are plain white). So I'm still in a "no harm done" situation.
How many of you just knew your colors and were done with it? How many of you went back and forth a bit?
How did you decide upon your colors?

2007-11-12 07:24:34 · 11 answers · asked by nova_queen_28 7 in Weddings