It came to light when a former client called the house. He left a message on the answering machine. She did not hear it as I erased the message. She was very evasive when confronted.
2007-11-12 07:43:18 · 22 answers · asked by BERNARD F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she is evasive then she has something to hide now, if she can not be honest with you and has not been honest with you before marriage imagine what else she has and is hiding. You can not make a whore into a housewife.
2007-11-12 08:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
As long as it all happened in the past, you need to let it go. Why did someone call your house, though? Is it the same number she had before you two got together?
Yes, she probably should have disclosed this to you before marriage. But she's probably very embarrassed by this and is afraid to lose you. Many women don't enthusiastically choose to be a call girl, but sometimes their life situations leave them few options. Please don't condemn her for something she did before she married you. You obviously helped turn her life around and have given her stability -- without ever knowing by how much. Take heart in that, tell her you love her no matter what her past was, and just be forgiving and let it go.
2007-11-12 15:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by agrocks 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Confront her and ask her about it, but do it trusting her. Let the past stay where it should be, though, in the past. That was her past and there is nothing that she can do about it now so there is no point in making her upset about what happened a long time ago. Everyone makes mistakes.
2007-11-12 15:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you shouldn't judge her - if you love her... Everyone has a past. Some are more colorful than others! I'm sure she was evasive... who wouldn't be! Love her & ask her what it was like, why she quit, how long... stuff like that. But do it in a loving manner so that she doesn't feel threatened by opening up to you!
2007-11-12 15:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by T. 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is tell her that you know, that you need to know if it is going on now, and if it isn't then just deal with it and move on. Don't dwell on the past and let it stay there. If she hasn't done it since you have been married to her then there is no need to fret. Don't make her do time for sins of the past.
2007-11-12 15:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by No one 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW, I bet you nearly crapped your pants!! IF you love & trust her, you'll just have to get over it. But in real life thats the way it all works anyway! Turn this into a POSITIVE for the both of you! She'll know how & what to do to keep you at home. There is a future here if its handled propperly!!!
2007-11-12 16:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by happywjc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The whole time you were dating her, this never came up and what are her clients doing calling your home? Why not try talking to her. Do none of you talk to your spouses?
2007-11-12 15:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Bad_Kity 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love her no matter what, "for better or for worse", just like you vowed to do.
Live in the present, not the past. You have a checkered past as well my friend.
Good luck.
2007-11-12 15:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If that end in the past,forget about it.But is a good idea to ask her about it,and be sure that is past time.Past is past.Good luck.
2007-11-12 15:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's her passed....if u really wanted to know her back round b4 then u should of hired a detective..since u married her..u must not be interested in her passed...just move on..now u need to worry about if she is thinkn about do it it...that's what to confront her about...bcuz if she do then at least ur letting her know her consequences b4 thinkn about doin it again.. ;-)
2007-11-12 15:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by April 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋