He is violent and controlling. He refuses to take the 12 steps and recover. My parents refuse alanon.
2007-11-12 07:35:48 · 8 answers · asked by charlotte q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If my brother tried that crap, the rest of the brothers would help him move real fast!!!! Being a DRUNK is bad enough, but to do that to Mom & Dad, he knows what the rest of would do with/to him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-12 08:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by happywjc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First talk on your husband and tell him which you do no longer choose your brother residing there to any extent further. tell him your motives and then the the two one in each of you at the same time could confront your brother approximately leaving. i might tell him which you elect in easy terms you, your hubby and your little ones with you at domicile suited now and he desires to discover yet another place to stay. provide him no greater effective than 3 months to discover yet another place to stay. Write it on the calendar and furnish to help him look for different places. meanwhile, discover out what kind of homeless shelters are close to you by way of fact if he does not get out by ability of the date you gave him then it particularly is the place he's going. tell him that he can lease a room from somebody else if he won't be in a position to have the money for an house. look on craigslist or on your community newspaper for classified ads like this. i does no longer exclude him out of your existence by way of fact he's in all probability going to choose emotional help and you may o.k. could help him detect a activity too. Be keen to help by way of fact he might actually need it yet you do no longer could enable him stay which includes your or provide him any money. he isn't a infant. And as for being an alcoholic refer to him approximately going to AA conferences or getting some form of help to stop ingesting. tell him you do no longer choose him to finally end up lifeless by way of fact of alcohol. sturdy success.
2016-12-08 19:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called elderly abuse.And there is something you can do.I wish I could remember the organization you call but your DR.'S Office should know.Anyway they will investigate the situation and they will not tell who reported the abuse.They will keep a close watch on your brother and might be able to get him out of their home....Do not wait do something right away.
2007-11-12 07:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie Ann H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is talk to him and let him know that you won't tolerate any violence against your parents.
Watch the situation closely and be ready to act if need be. If possible, invite him to stay with you instead of them.
Good Luck
2007-11-12 07:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by mn lady 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Baker act him!!!
This is a way that family members can put him in rehab against his own will. Call a hospital and ask about it.
2007-11-12 07:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by spikey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot do a thing. I know you want to protect your parents, but...
You might try to talk to them when he isn't around and find out if he's threatening them. Then you might be able to help. But I doubt it.
We'll say a prayer for you.
2007-11-12 07:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Blue 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If they choose to enable him, there is nothing you can do. If he gets violent towards them (or you), call the cops.
2007-11-12 07:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer L 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, if they agreed then its all on them. If he just moved in, call the cops if they want him out.
2007-11-12 07:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋