Would the average guy in his early forties see his toddler's babysitter (or nanny) as...
-an equal (a peer)
-someone he would like to sleep with
-someone more along the lines of a daughter-figure
-something else
2007-11-12 07:29:17 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't answer that question so general. It really depends on the man you are talking about. You could be talking about a man who is going through a mid life crisis and looking to find someone young so they can experience that part of their life again. Or you could be talking about a man who truly loves him wife and just looks at a young girl as a young girl (nothing bad).
So It will depends. Sorry I couldn't give you a concrete answer
I hope this helped.
Ellie
2007-11-12 07:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the man. When I was younger I used to babysit for the mayor of our city and whenever his wife was not around he would hit on me and I WAS 15 YEARS OLD! He even tried to kiss me once and when I freaked out he was like "i look at you like a daughter and I was just giving you a friendly kiss goodnight"....yeah right! I never babysat for them again after that. Lord, what a scandal I could have stewed up! LOL! Anyway, most intelligent and decent men would see an 18 year old babysitter as a daughter figure moreso than a peer, but only if she has babysat for the family for a while. He may just see her as "the babysitter" and nothing more. It all depends on the man and what kind of morals and mentality the man has. Hopefully not too many girls will ever have to go through what I did with the honorable(ahem!!) Mayor. :)
2007-11-12 07:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-24 02:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The average guy at the age of 42 is stressed especially with a beautiful 2 year old to love.
He may see the 18 year old as a person, daughter-figure but not a peer.
Guys are made to want to sleep with everything that moves. It is our morals that keep our zippers up.
2007-11-12 07:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by Philip T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the man. Yes men find it a ego boost when a young girl smiles at him or talks to him a lot. But he should keep his self in check & remember he is married with a 2 yrs old daughter & how would he feel if another man look at his daughter that way when she turns 18 & is their babysitter.
2007-11-12 07:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they would. Once you are eighteen your legal. That is all they care about, TRUST ME! They want an 18 year old first of all because they can tell her anything and they believe that she will just melt in his arms. They have been around the block quite a few times. When I was eighteen I would have my male clients looking at me and trying to ask me out on dates. They also think that at eighteen a woman is very naive. Hence, they do not care that you are there daughters nanny. Its almost like a fantasy for them.
2007-11-12 07:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by RockStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it definitely depends on the guy. But in general, a guy sleeping with his hot barely legal babysitter is a very popular fantasy, both for 18 year old girls and the dads alike.
2007-11-12 07:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by Patti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to say he'd view you as a daughter or equal. But I don't really believe that. I'm currently under the belief that men (despite the age) see a good looking female (of nearly any age) and will check her out, and think about being with her. Disgusting and yet, surprisingly true.
2007-11-12 07:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on his attraction/closeness to you.
If he has no attraction to you and he thinks you do a good job of being his kid's babysitter, he'd probably see you as an equal and as just his kid's nanny.
But if he likes you/or is attracted, then he might see you as someone he'd like to sleep with.
But again, if he's not attracted to you, but is close to you, (like you've known him since you were a kid, and thats how you got the babysitting gig) then he might see you as a daughter figure.
2007-11-12 07:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on several things. Is she attractive? If he finds her to be so, then probably she's someone he wouldn't mind sleeping with. Is he cheap or tight with money? If so, then he probably looks at you as an expense. Are you great with the kid? If so, then he probably thinks of you as a big help. There's not enough information given to answer this question.
2007-11-12 07:34:36 · answer #10 · answered by alwaysremembertwentytwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋