Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

My hubby was working in a bad work environment and he finally quit! We have been having some issues lately and have been arguing more than often. He has told me that it's best for him to move out and leave. He said he's enough problems for me. I think he is just frustrated and needs some time to get settled down. What would you do about this situation? He says now that he's unemployed that I will be giving him more hell at home which I would not do! I told him I'd help out til he gets back on his feet after all that's what marriage is about through good or worse right? What do u suggest I can do?

2007-11-12 08:12:13 · 22 answers · asked by Txgirl23 4 in Marriage & Divorce

so i totally just realized i have a huge crush on this guy. but as shallow as this sounds, hes not really popular (i no) i dont no if i should keep flirting with him or what or like move on OMG HELP

2007-11-12 08:11:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother and I will be watching TV in the living room, two innocent babes. My dad is a room away in the dining room looking at skin. Sometimes he forgets to turn off the speaker and we're treated to loud, fake moans for about ten seconds until he figures out how to turn it off in his panic.

Funnily enough he seems to think we don't know what he's doing.

I've got no problem with porn, I just don't want to walk past the dining room to see my dad hastily pulling up his pants ever again.

Sensitive topic! What would you do? Note: my dad (both my parents, actually) always avoided any sexual topics at all costs. I learned at a young age never to mention anything sexual. And yet they wave it in my face!!!!!

2007-11-12 08:10:56 · 6 answers · asked by Sapphrodite® 5 in Family

Are these signs he might purpose soon? He couldn't believe all his friends were married. We were at Petco and I mentioned I would like a bird and he said we could get one when we live together. He showed me the weather for this week where I said I would like to move and he said we in the conversation.

2007-11-12 08:08:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 08:06:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright, well me and my boyfriend tell each other EVERYTHING, so whenever we end up on a sexual topic, we talk about masturbating and things like that, but whenever he mentions looking at pornography, I get really jealous and sensitive. I also get really angry that he was looking at some other girl's body besides mine. Is this so wrong? Plus, we got in a huge huge huge fight last time he mentioned it. Is that so bad that I get so sensitive? How can I get this jealousy and anger away from me? Plus, he doesn't get angry if I get upset. He just reassured me and told me that he loved me. It's just, whenever I think about it, I feel like extremely pissed off. What can I do?

2007-11-12 08:06:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 08:06:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 08:03:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 08:03:51 · 11 answers · asked by sandeep j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This weekend we got into deep conversations and she mentioned to me that several yrs ago she had found two letters he had wrote to a woman expressing that he loved her and wanted to make love to her and he didn't care if she was still with her husband and that he also wanted to lick etc. anyway last yr. she said this woman tracked her husband down and called the house. she is apparently good friends with the husband from the past years. anyway her husband happened to be going out of town that next week by coincident with his job. well she mentioned to me that she has a gut feeling that he snuck to see her and made love to her. she also feels that when he is day dreaming he is dreaming of this woman. even though this woman lives far away she feels that deep down that her husband is actually inlove with this woman. i want her to know the truth. i feel as her friend that she needs to know that maybe this woman is his soulmate. it is more details to the story.

2007-11-12 08:03:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am just curious where you met your bf/gf or Husband/wife? I like to hear how people met so this is why I am asking this question.
I met my Husband online. I met him in oct 2000 In a program called Firetalk Which didn't exist after 2 days of meeting him there and we swtiched to yahoo. Anyway,Sept 21 2001 he asked me to be his online gf. April 5th 2002 he came up to meet me in person.August 14th 2002 he came up to see me again and ended up finding a job & stayed. December 25th 2002 he asked me to marry him. June 14th 2003 we got married.He lived in Beaumont, Texas at the time and Now state college, Pennsylvania with me. Yeah might not be so thrilling but I met the person I was suppose to be with. we both knew we were suppose to be together in 2001. I love him so much!! I was 18 when I met him & he was 20.

2007-11-12 08:01:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the wife is working and he is the househusband?

Is this arrangement working for them and are they happy with this?

What are the responsibilties undertaken by the man? and how wife is contributing this arrangement to work?

2007-11-12 07:59:46 · 12 answers · asked by *Nikita* 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my wife for 8 yrs. We used to be sexual a minimum of once a day. However, for the past couple years, it's been about twice a month. I am a very sexual person and and am going crazy for the lack of. I try not to pressure her so I don't upset her. She has also not been treating me the same, she makes me feel like she just doesn't even care anymore, even though I treat her like she's the world. We have a son together so us seperating is not an option right now, he is my life and I can not bare to be without him. My question is this, what are your opinions about, if I should look elsewhere? I am not one for cheating and never have been, however I almost feel like she deserves it sometimes.

2007-11-12 07:59:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering this. If you were making over 100k a year, would you rather your wife was a housewife or went out and worked yourself?

2007-11-12 07:59:04 · 14 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 07:58:46 · 17 answers · asked by misunderstood_teen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm looking for something either very simple or bit funky. Anything from a rental house to a rooftop bar would work I am just having a hard time finding anything besides a basic restarant or hotel typical wedding.

2007-11-12 07:58:44 · 4 answers · asked by emily h 2 in Weddings

My engagement ring is 18k white gold. I have found a wedding band online that I love, but we haven't had a chance to go look at it yet. The band, however, only comes in 10k white gold. Will the gold look different up against my engagement ring? Is the luster, color, etc. different between the two grades? I don't want to waste my time looking if the gold is not going to match. Thanks!!!!!!!!

2007-11-12 07:58:21 · 15 answers · asked by ♥uuɐuuǝɾ♥ 4 in Weddings

Star If You Like...

Three guys and a lady were sitting at the bar talking about their professions.

The first guy says " I'm a Y.U.P.P.I.E, you know... Young, Urban, Professional, Peaceful, Intelligent, Ecologist."

The second guy says "I'm a D.I.N.K, you know... Double Income, No Kids."

The third guy says, " I'm a R.U.B, you know... Rich, Urban, Biker."

They turn to the woman and ask her, " What are you? "

She replies: " I'm a WIFE, you know...
Wash, Iron, F**k, Etc."

2007-11-12 07:58:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he has been ordered by the court to carry insurance. he will get it then he will drop it again. the only time i find out that he has dropped it is when i have to take my son to the doctor. the child support enforcement agency always says they will send him a letter but it doesnt help. i dont know what to do or where to go to find any answers. do i get an attorney, do i pay the bill then sue the father, do i get insurance and then sue the father. i cant find answers anywhere. thank you

2007-11-12 07:56:20 · 13 answers · asked by molly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For the upbringing of children

2007-11-12 07:56:00 · 22 answers · asked by qayyumpuri 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 24, and I seem to like and get along better with guys a LOT older than me (I'm talking about guys that range from their 40s-60s). I don't know what it is, I just always seem to be attracted to them. I've dated guys my age, but I still perfer older guys. I always just think age is just a number, it shouldn't matter how old you are as long as your in love. What do you guys think?

2007-11-12 07:54:37 · 13 answers · asked by I will always & forever love MJ 4 in Singles & Dating

We have been living in the same house for the last three years.
Things are now not good and i just want to get out.
If i leave is that desertion if we are not married?

2007-11-12 07:54:10 · 8 answers · asked by Ringo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought about having another baby but I am all confused. He says he's sorry and does now not love this woman. He saw her for a year and wanted to leave but I convinced him to stay.

2007-11-12 07:53:21 · 33 answers · asked by Goldie P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have only just recently heard that some people don't believe kids should be invited at all, unless they are in the wedding party. Or that if they are invited, they need to be in their own room the entire reception. All the weddings I have attended, both for my family and other people, have been family events and the kids are just as welcome as anyone else, even on the dancefloor.

2007-11-12 07:53:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm 15 but VERY matured for my age. My boyfriend is 21. Does the 6 year age gap matter?

2007-11-12 07:51:47 · 70 answers · asked by Rachel V 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been engaged for seven months and I do love my fiance but I am going through huge changes in my life and I don't want it to hurt her. Sometimes I think that she would be better off without me and I've thought about calling off the engagement. I don't know what to do. Is it better to hold onto someone, even when you think that your life could ending hurting her emotionally, or just let her go and let her go on with her life.

2007-11-12 07:51:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am in a relationship(2.5yrs) its the holidays...my boyfriend is going to louisville for Thanksgiving to his Moms.His 2 kids and his brother and girlfriend will be there. he didnt invite my kids, although,they probably wouldnt go but if i were going to my moms, i would invite his kids.for Christmas his kids are coming to his house,he told me we(my kids and i ) could come over if we wanted.....not "I want you and your kids to come over..." our kids are all older ranging from 16 to 21, i have 3 he has 2.by now, i would think it would be a given that he would know, if he is going to invite me along for a holiday get2gether,you would invite my kids. maybe im wrong.i dont think so though. 1 of my kids will be at his girlfriends, the other 2 may go to theeir dads or their sisters, i dont know,but i think i will stay home, cook something and invite my kids "home" because i know we are ALL welcome there !!!

2007-11-12 07:50:43 · 2 answers · asked by crazartgirl 4 in Singles & Dating

I went to the football game with my guy friend and he called me like five times trying to find out where i was because i was late and and he skipped going to a theme park to go to the game.

2007-11-12 07:50:14 · 18 answers · asked by Alexia S 1 in Singles & Dating

Because I'm nervous about my frumpy aunt and her giggly wiggly

2007-11-12 07:49:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you are seeing someone or dating someone that before the sex that the guy is always dressed nice and smelling good and looking good all the time..but after the sex happens...they don't seem to look as good, dress as good, and smell as good anymore?
I have a FB and before we started having sex...he was really attractive to me and attempted to look nice all the time regardless if we were just hanging out at his place or going somewhere...after the sex....it was like he wasn't trying anymore..
Anyone else notice this?

2007-11-12 07:49:29 · 7 answers · asked by Simply Lisa 3 in Singles & Dating