Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

There are no consequences for the men when they do cheat so thats why they keep doing it. What if there are some consequences will they still cheat?

2007-11-12 10:23:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 10:22:35 · 10 answers · asked by April 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex emailed me and said the kids only want to come if I take them to Florida. They are 7,12 and 14. I have joint custody and speak to them every day and they did not tell me this at all. I am tired of arguing with her. How should I handle this?

2007-11-12 10:22:23 · 9 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this guy online 6 months ago and on our email/im exchanges he had expressed interest and invited me out a few times, at the time i wasn't ready and never committed to any plans but kept friendly with him and chatted every now and then to get to know each other better. He travels alot for busines out of the country and at one point therefore i really didn't want to get into it and with him ended up never around or too busy. so somehow we stopped IMing each other. 3 months passed i decided to engage him in a conversation again, he tells me that he is been noticing me online but we didn't get into explaining why we didn't chat for so long. he is still very nice to me and attentive in his words, we have been chatting for hours in the past couple days. when i mentioned that i'd like to meet him, he didn't come up with any direct response to that. I have been thinking about him alot, is he still interested in me, will he ask me out again?

2007-11-12 10:19:42 · 1 answers · asked by gaile 2 in Singles & Dating

Catering is just SO spendy. I would rather everything else be perfect and cut back on the food costs.

2007-11-12 10:19:04 · 18 answers · asked by BTB{06.22.09} 4 in Weddings

I don't want to overreact, but whenever my boyfriend meets new female "friends", he gives them his number, and these girls call him constantly. I have no problem with him having female friends, but I feel that by doing this, he is making himself seem too available to them. Am I overreacting, or do I have a reason to worry?

(He is 21 and I am 20)

2007-11-12 10:17:21 · 13 answers · asked by HoneyChild 2 in Singles & Dating

i am:
short
pretty[least thats what ive been told]
nice
funny
loud
___________

what do guys like?
i dont have a bf i dont know why!

2007-11-12 10:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

viewing the body? or the lowering of the casket into the ground?

2007-11-12 10:15:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I went out with my ex on/off for 2 years.I needed to just have space from it all so I tried to have no contact with him at school since we have a class together. I started to be very mean to him even though he was just trying to be nice. i had family issues,self worth, and friend issues going on which caused me to be kinda ignorant. we still talked at times and he texted me once every week for 2 months. I still cared about him a lot.he even called me to hang out but I told him I was busy. After that he stopped trying to talk to me. Its like were both invisible. His friend said hi and waved to me but my ex just looked and me and didnt say anything. I sent him a text last night saying congratulations on winning the game. and he texted back saying thanks lol i saw you in the stands.

Does this mean he cares about me or is he just being nice or what?

Side note- Theres a girl that waits for him after some of his classes. They aren't going out.

2007-11-12 10:13:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I am looking for serious answers and i frankly do not care about religious abstinence!

I am a female and i masturbated since i was 4 years old....yes i sadly fit Freud's theory and to say the least i am kind of a nympho. Because of health reasons particularly the fear of getting pregnant, i decided to simply masturbate to soothe my libido, but for some time now it gotten to the point were I NEED more! I am currently 16 and a virgin, and i feel i just need sex for the physical gratification. Literally a hunger that needs to be fed. I do not care or really want the emotional relationship i just want sex. And before answering, it is not hormones, hormones do not last this long and i went through the hormonal growth phase fairly early and it has gone and past. So finally my question...

If I just went out and basically lost my virginity to a stranger would there be emotional repercussions in the distant future?

2007-11-12 10:08:36 · 16 answers · asked by Cherry F 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm having trouble getting my husband to want to do any handy work around the house. If he's not at work he's messing with his computers or at his friends working on a truck for fun. We just bought our home this year and there are many things that need to be done: install a dishwasher, put up shades these 2 things are already bought, arrange garage. Every time I ask for something to be done I get the SAME answer "We'll get to it", or "don't worry I didn't forget", or "We'll have time this weekend". But it NEVER gets done, when I get impatient about it after asking for weeks I get told "Don't ride my ***, grr, rrgg". I'm like it doesn't get done when I don't ride his ***, it don't get done if I do ride his ***. WHAT DO I DO? I grew up with my dad being the type that does everything from building sheds himself to fixing a clogged toilet, fixing cars, anything. I don't know if its stupidity, laziness, or what? It's now affecting our sex life b/c I'm not attracted to laziness.

2007-11-12 10:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 10:07:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He tries to go around it every time i tell him to meet my family. He is really embarassed and thinks my family will be mean to him. My family is the coolest and nicest. I really want him to feel comfortable with them like i am with his family.

2007-11-12 10:07:16 · 3 answers · asked by brenda r 1 in Family

My brother is married and having a dauter this month the doctors say thursday.I'm really scared though. I've always been the 2nd child.Instead of the favorite so i'm scared i'll be left behind since everyone is exicted.So do u all think my family won't forget that thier old "princess is still around.

2007-11-12 10:05:57 · 7 answers · asked by air 3 in Family

last week i posted a question on here about my husband's weird friendship with this 27 year old guy and my husband is 45 years old. well the new news on this situation came to a good end after all. the guy jumped up out of the blow and moved to alabama and left his wife in kids in detroit. he called my husband last tuesday and i heard my husband asking him when was he coming back to detroit. i guess the guy said never. well yesterday when my husband and i were on our way to church he told me the real truth behind that conversation he had with the guy on the phone. he told me that the guy told him to pack his things, bring his pension money and moved to alabama with him that they were going to run a warehouse together and sock up. my husband got mad and told me that he was done with that guy because he was not going to change. he erased the guys phone number out of his cellphone and he has scheduled for our home phone number to be changed.

2007-11-12 10:04:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She came home thinking her husband and her were going to have sex since he called on cell phone and said come home I want to have sex then come home to seeing him lay there knowing he already did his own thing. Would any girl be mad about that?

2007-11-12 10:04:24 · 6 answers · asked by BlahBlahBlah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex husband & I live about 3 1/2 to 4 hours away from each other. We have a son together & in the divorce decree it states that he gets the 1st, 3rd, & 5th weekends of the month for visitation. He hasn't come to see him since September. When we went before the judge on the day our divorce was finalized both of our lawyers asked us under oath if everything in the decree was in the best interest of our child & we both said yes. Is there anything I can do to make him start coming to see him when he is supposed to since he agreed to it? This is ridiculous that I have to be the only one raising our son. I know that he'll probably use some lame excuse that he's working or something. I'm just trying to figure out how to word it so that he might step up & start doing what's right. I called him a couple of weeks ago & he never called me back...and last night I texted him & asked him to please call or text me back so we can talk about our son & no response. I am fed up.

2007-11-12 10:03:40 · 8 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Power? Money? Height? Scent? Looks? Confidence?

2007-11-12 10:02:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok.. I have a contact on yahoo answers that i think is really nice.. well or he seems through the way he answers my questions.. and asks his own... I think it would be nice to be able to email him or something.. like not through yahoo answers. whats a good way without making myself sound like a total dweeb? Im jus a nice girl and sometimes it helps to talk to other nice people.. No neg answers please... lol. i jus dont wanna seem stupid......... ;) ;)

2007-11-12 10:01:54 · 2 answers · asked by Sarahhh 3 in Friends

I asked first if he had a gf and he said no. Ok, we exchanged phone numbers. That is when I found out about him having this "friend with benefits". Do I pursue anything? I know he likes me as I asked him out and that is when he told me the before mentioned. HE even left me a voice mail by saying: Gee, I thought you didn't like me! My cell phone hung up on him. He has some issues, but pretty much in check. Help!!! He is busy alot with a teenaged son too. He says I can keep calling but not alot. What do I make of this? I'm a bit mixed-up where my feelings are concerned. I got really hurt by my last bf really bad, and I do mean really bad. But I'm ready.

2007-11-12 10:01:08 · 9 answers · asked by iowababyblues 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it really 'just dates' for the night or sex or what?

2007-11-12 09:58:25 · 6 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Singles & Dating

I'd like to wear heels so I could look taller and more elegant in photos, but they hurt my feet. I'm not interested in having sore feet for my wedding. My fiance says I should wear low heels for the ceremony and then switch to comfy shoes for the reception and dancing. If I do that, though, won't my dress be too long? I can bustle the back, but the front would be too long, no?

Any suggestions for shoe options for the girl who wears sneakers all the time?

2007-11-12 09:57:33 · 18 answers · asked by weirdiscomplimentary 6 in Weddings

So, I'm writing a story, and I just need some ideas. Any idea, even if it's totally stupid. Well, not totally stupid, it'd be nice if it was at all relevant...

But here's the problem. There's a couple in my story, well not really couple, they broke up before the book began.
They had to keep their relationship secret, from everyone.
It's imperative that they kept it secret.
But I'm not sure WHY they kept it secret.

So any reason why two 16ish year old kids would have to keep their relationship secret would be great.
Anything at all.

Please and thank you!

2007-11-12 09:54:39 · 13 answers · asked by Rose 4 in Singles & Dating

Right now, a lot of states, my own included, either have had or do currently have legislation being talked about to open adoption records to adult adoptees.

Kansas and Alaska never closed birth records for adoptees - they were always available. Now, Maine, New Hampshire, Delaware, Alabama, Tennessee and Oregon have opened the records to adult adoptees only.

Share your thoughts please.

2007-11-12 09:53:03 · 2 answers · asked by genaddt 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

He told me he loved her before we started going out. Even after we went out he was still chatting with her and messaging her. He never confronted her about his feelings, but he has written poetry about her etc..etc.. On her birthday I saw that he left her a comment on Facebook saying how much he wishes he was with her and it killed me because on that day he was with me. We have only been going out for a little over a month. He is absolutely perfect in every other way and he cares about me, and I am with him because I have hope that one day he may love me the way he loves her...the way I love him.

2007-11-12 09:50:34 · 22 answers · asked by hideandseek2020 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so im 17 and i hav never been out with a girl, i have always had friends that are girls, but i have never felt inclined romantically towards them. about a year ago i met this girl through playing sport with her and her mum and we have become really close since then, they come round like every other weekend we see them at least 3 or 4 times a week and every time i see her at school we always say at least hi. When we get a chance to talk properly, we can talk for ages. We recently went on holiday with them and me and this girl spent like all our time, be it in the swimming pool, watching a movie, playing tennis, or just lazing about. over that week i really fell for her as she is good fun and just the sort of girl that i like. When we were on holiday we were sort of flirting with each other, like playin tig, and just generally fooling about. She feels quite content to drag me about as if i were her bf but we are not going out. please continue reading

2007-11-12 09:49:36 · 3 answers · asked by gussy 3 in Singles & Dating

How can I improve my social skills. Until now i dont really talk to many people and im feeling a little nervous about it. I know that i should just be myself... but how can i act or what can i do to show people that im friendly and that im interested in making new friends. Sorry if this sounds strange... im just not used to it so it seems a bit difficult ! Thanks

2007-11-12 09:49:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-12 09:48:59 · 2 answers · asked by asapss2003 1 in Weddings

i am a 25y/o guy and i heard that this 18 yr old girl who is a mate likes me.

Because im 25 and she's 18, should i say no for this reasonor is 18/25 okay?

Your views

2007-11-12 09:45:26 · 10 answers · asked by bueller82 1 in Singles & Dating

My alcoholic husband wants a divorce because he says I am negative. He is the one that verbally abuses me and tells me I am fat, he doesn't like the way I dress, I am boring and pathetic. I tried to explain to him that am negative because he is so mean. Why doesn't he understand this, why is he placing the blame on me?

2007-11-12 09:44:23 · 13 answers · asked by swissbabe2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce