My brother is married and having a dauter this month the doctors say thursday.I'm really scared though. I've always been the 2nd child.Instead of the favorite so i'm scared i'll be left behind since everyone is exicted.So do u all think my family won't forget that thier old "princess is still around.
2007-11-12 10:05:57 · 7 answers · asked by air 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That is your brothers child and if it is his first, then she will always be very special to him. Your his baby sister so that makes you special also. But now is own family and kids will come first for him. But to your own parents, you will always be their baby. The new baby will be the center of attention for some time, just because she is new. But I am sure you will love being an aunt also, and wont even notice anything else around you when she is there. Nieces and nephews are a blessing, enjoy her while she is little. And spend time with her, and maybe even offer to keep her from time to time.
things will work out fine, and you may really find that once she is here you will love her more then anything else in the world till you have kids of your own.
2007-11-12 10:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by cris 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, most likely willbe forget about you. But it is okay you are your favorite person. You should be scared. Life is lonely without family and friends.If this is the way you look at life you will never have a friend or relationship. My friends think of others first ...."Princess" You sound like a TOAD........
But if you want to be special in your family then make this baby the The princess put her before you and only then will you became the Queen that is loved...Get some therapy. Grow up
2007-11-12 18:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by abuelamah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you will still be a part of your family, and they will still love you, no matter how many children your brother has.
Don't focus on being the "favorite" - that's being selfish, because you're demanding that everyone love you MORE than they love anyone else. Families don't need to play favorities, because every member of the family is valued.
Yes, your niece will probably get a lot of the attention for awhile. But that doesn't mean she's more loved or more important. It just means her needs are greater right now.
Remember, your niece will need you - you're her aunt, and that's a very special role! You get to teach her how to be a princess, and no one can do that better than you. Just think how much love and joy that Big Princess and Little Princess can bring when they are together!
2007-11-12 18:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grasp the thought of being an aunt and don't worry about you not being the only PRINCESS around. Yes, things will change but you are your parents daughter. That will never change. I'm assuming this is the first grandbaby so it will definately be spoiled rotten. That is what grandparents are for.
Step up as the aunt and don't let jealousy ruin your relationship.
2007-11-12 18:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Cate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but no one forgets about someone else, because a baby is born. I hope you are happy for your brother and his wife, because the more you get to know your neice, the closer you will be with the family. You know you will be the # 1 Aunt, and if you love that child right, you will always be her favorite to. It is only a win, win situation.
2007-11-12 18:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will feel that way only if you let yourself feel that way.
2007-11-12 18:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are still their child no matter what don't forget that
2007-11-12 18:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by BSL Fighter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋