Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

guess i'm wondering what is an appropriate time frame to end this or look else where (i've only been married for 1 1/2 years) the friend connection is there we just lack an intimate connection

2007-11-12 12:48:56 · 17 answers · asked by daigle451 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for a couple of years. This is the only man I've been with. We have sex once every other month, and I'm pretty sure he's doing it just to shut me up. The sex is good but it seems like I'm forcing him! We are in our late 20's. We talk about the lack of sex all the time and he says that his sex drive isn't strong. But once every other month seems like he has no sex drive at all!

I've been through a lot in life and need a release. What can I do? I'm ready to pack my bags!

2007-11-12 12:48:01 · 19 answers · asked by anli 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 12:45:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I met a guy in Houston who I want to date, I live in California and plan on moving to Texas for job promotion. This guy is my age and he happens to be a cop. I feel a little scared because of the reputation that cops are given about being cheaters ...etc Are they all cheaters or is it just like any other profession?

2007-11-12 12:43:44 · 37 answers · asked by R 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so to make a very long dramatic stupid story short, my inlaws have decided that they hate me, and my children, My husband is my girls step dad, and together we have a son. My husband also has a son from a previous marriage that he has sole custody of. The only child that they want anything to do with is my step son, even though my son is also their blood granchld. They wont even step foot in my house. IT all started last year, and to be honest i really dont get it. I got along great with them for a long time. Now its like Im the plague. i feel like they would do anything to get rid of me .
anyway, for christmas they told my husband something about drawing names so that their wont be any conflict(i dont know what that means, as i have tried to be the bigger person through it all.) SO here is my question...should i ask my husband to tell his family to take my name out of the drawing since everyone of them seem to have something against me.

2007-11-12 12:43:34 · 11 answers · asked by Kimberly G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well im pretty confident in myself when im around ppl i know really well and feel comfortable around. but once i get around ppl who i don't know very well i get very self conscious and my mind freezes up so whenever someone talks to me i have really simple boring responses because i can't think of anything else to say. Its really annoying cuz there's this guy in my science class that i like and i really want to talk to more but i never know waht to say becuase im always afraid that im going to make a fool out of myself.
any advice or tips on how to be more confident around other ppl and more extroverted???

2007-11-12 12:42:39 · 22 answers · asked by little miss sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

is there anyway to know if someone is cheating on you?

2007-11-12 12:41:37 · 23 answers · asked by Mr S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having one of those days right now. I just want to know that on an emotional level someone feels for me.

2007-11-12 12:40:48 · 34 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 12:40:23 · 11 answers · asked by ....... 5 in Marriage & Divorce

they make fun of my hair everyday cuz my hair is short why wont they leave me alone

2007-11-12 12:37:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was driving my boyfriend's car earlier today and I noticed a condom in the door of the driver's side but I know we don't use them because we are trying to have a baby. I confronted him about it and he said it was his friends but I know he doesn't like anyone driving his car so I don't know if I should believe him or not. Would you believe a guy was cheating if you found something like that?

2007-11-12 12:36:14 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so there's this guy in my class that i use to have a crush on but now i don't no if i do or not( this isn't my question though) Ok so in my chemistry class, i sit across the room from him and we always stare at each other. I don't no who started it first but when ever i'm in that class i always stare at him to see if he's looking at me. Sumtimes i notice from the corner of my eye that he's staring at me. I stare back at him but then i would always look away cuz i can't stand ppl staring at me. The thing about this is that, he would always continue to stare @ me so i always glance back & fourth at him. Anyways, my question is that why is he always staring at me? Is it becuz he likes me( he has a gurlfriend but i dont think he really likes her) or am i just paranoid cuz i dont no if i like him(he started to stare at me first, i think)? Anyways, he stared at me for awhile last week in french class and he stared at me again today for awhile, and i had to look away. I dont no why though!

2007-11-12 12:35:05 · 6 answers · asked by sweetstrawberries_26 1 in Singles & Dating

Probably sounds like nothing, since we dated for 4 months and a half. Long distance too, she's 15 im 17. And we started dating of course this summer, she recently moved to another town and new school..and..just about 3 or 4 weeks ago we had two big fights that supposedly "changed the way she felt about me"...and these fights were about sex, and nervous issues of pregnancy...So after a few countless hours of obsessing we got back together...and it seemed fine at first, until one day, she told me she just didn't think she felt the same anymore, and she didn't love me. So from last sunday we got back together, and she broke up with me last wednesday, she has a new bf, and I called her to ask how, and why, she just said "STOP CALLING ME" " I NEVER WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU OR TALK TO YOU AGAIN"

and since then I've been crying my eyes out hysterically..i LOVE HER! and i can't get over her *cries*....what should I do? did she fall in love with him and lose feelings for me? HOW?!

2007-11-12 12:31:17 · 11 answers · asked by tinfoilman 2 in Singles & Dating

He is a horrible kisser.. And I really don't find kissing him appealing!
I know I was his first time, but that was a month ago. I think, on average, we kiss atleast 7 times a week.
This is a lot of practise, mates.
What should I do?
I know this sounds superficial.. but I don't want my kisses ot be forced and PRETEND I enjoyed it.

2007-11-12 12:28:14 · 42 answers · asked by Mel L 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello,

I need an itemized list of the duties of a stay at home parent. I am trying to see if I am missing anything from a list I made myself.

Please keep all commentary and propaganda to yourself.

I will all also gladly give out points for the best answer and all that good stuff.

I will truly appreciate it,

MJ

2007-11-12 12:25:48 · 11 answers · asked by MJ H 2 in Family

have you hidden from your wife,or anything you dont want her to know.

2007-11-12 12:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by kaveman15120 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin marred a 17 year old a few weeks ago and he died yesterday in a car accident. She is refusing too let us burie him or even attend his funeral, they have only known eachother about a month. Do we have any rights? Do we have to go to court to be able to bury him?

2007-11-12 12:17:50 · 7 answers · asked by sandsanna1980 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and a friend of mine have been good friends for many years. I would do anything for her and feel she'd do the same for me. 2 things have made me think (and come here) because of what she's told me. She knows (because I've told her) that I really, really like her. But 2 things I've heard her say that really bothers me about her

1 - She's told me before that she judges people on how they treat her and what they buy her
2 - She's told me repeatedly that she's a high maintenance girl.

Now, she's always had a b/f, so I've never done anything to disrespect that, but if a friend (that you really like) told you these two things above, would you still want to go out with her if she broke up with her b/f???

I don't have a big issue with the high maintenance issue as much as I do about how her men are judged by what they buy her. I have a good job, but don't want to be judged what I spent on her. I want to be judged how I treat her

What would you do?? Stay or Go ?

2007-11-12 12:15:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

going down on my wife? If I could, I'd curl up in there and go to sleep!

2007-11-12 12:14:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 12:13:01 · 2 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 12:09:16 · 26 answers · asked by Emily R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 12:07:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am nice, patient, empathic, and kind with my wife. But whenever I bring up something I have an issue/problem with, it's like she refuses to hear me. No matter how delicately and tactfully I bring up a disagreeable subject, she immediately switches to defensive mode and blames me for the problem. Example: "Sweetie, I feel X." Response: "Well, you need to stop feeling that way..."

2007-11-12 12:06:50 · 14 answers · asked by Keep On Trucking 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 35 year old returning student at a community college. I am attracted to my math professor and I think the feeling is mutual. How do I go about approaching him about seeing him outside of school?

2007-11-12 11:59:36 · 51 answers · asked by gentlehands 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 11:57:43 · 3 answers · asked by Rocky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm conducting a survey on people and their ideal relationships...**Please pick ten out of my list of factors that play an important role in an ideal relationship. Which ten are most important to you for your ideal mate. Also, please put them in order of most important being first, to least important being the tenth...~* oh and if you have any suggestions for something that i didn't list already please let me know.
*sexual attraction
*religion
*goal orientated (motivated)
*dedication
* self esteem
*family orientated
*aspirations
*socially involved (programs/ activities)
*athletic (healthy)
*good listener
*affectionate
*responsible
*honest
*willing to compromise
*compatibility
*leader
* follower
*respectful
*expectations (what they expect out of the relationship)
*sense of humor
*financially stable
*outgoing
*laid back
thanks!!

2007-11-12 11:52:45 · 8 answers · asked by forthillserv86 1 in Singles & Dating

my crush has been all weird she is putting her head on my soulder and today she hugged me for no reason

2007-11-12 11:52:33 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been "with" this guy for about 5 months.. And we usually talk everyday but only see each other about once a week and I usually just go to his house and we mess around..Well,I haven't seen him for about 3 weeks now and so I asked him. Are you just scared to get hurt(because he told me he was hurt before) or do you just not like me anymore? He told me he just hates commitment. so I said do you want me just to leave you alone? And he never replied but I dont know if that meant he wanted me to or he just didnt get my text b/c lately he hasnt been gettin alot of my messages or so he says. But anyways,I just really really like him..He's about 10 years older than me,but I just really like being with him and now that he said that i'm pretty sad..and hurt. It's hard to be without him,esp since i talked to him all the time. I dont know..what can I or should I do? Any Advice??...

2007-11-12 11:52:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, here's the deal. I'm a girl,and I like this other girl, who likes me back. Not a problem right? Wrong! She also likes this other girl and she said she doesn't want to hurt anyone. So how do I "win her over"? Anyone can answer.

2007-11-12 11:52:00 · 2 answers · asked by Kim B 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...my boyfriend loves it when I talk dirty to him....but i don't know what to say! I always end up saying the same thing to him, and it's getting old. I want to spice things up...can anyone help me!?!?

2007-11-12 11:47:36 · 12 answers · asked by megabossy_91 2 in Singles & Dating