I've been "with" this guy for about 5 months.. And we usually talk everyday but only see each other about once a week and I usually just go to his house and we mess around..Well,I haven't seen him for about 3 weeks now and so I asked him. Are you just scared to get hurt(because he told me he was hurt before) or do you just not like me anymore? He told me he just hates commitment. so I said do you want me just to leave you alone? And he never replied but I dont know if that meant he wanted me to or he just didnt get my text b/c lately he hasnt been gettin alot of my messages or so he says. But anyways,I just really really like him..He's about 10 years older than me,but I just really like being with him and now that he said that i'm pretty sad..and hurt. It's hard to be without him,esp since i talked to him all the time. I dont know..what can I or should I do? Any Advice??...
2007-11-12 11:52:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice to you is to walk away. He is testing you to see how much you will chase him. Stop calling and texting him. If you never hear from him again then that means he never cared about you. If he does chase you down then maybe you should give him another shot.
2007-11-12 11:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many women who hate commitment as well.
It is practical considering youngsters nowadays date and sleep with so many people before finally marrying one, I think he is being very honest. There is nothing in saying that one is committed, it is only proved when the couple get eventually married and set up a family!
Hope this helps!
2007-11-12 19:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it, if he hates commitments when will he ever start liking them. girl the earlier you walk away the safer for your heart. when he's ready for commitment he'll come looking for you and if he doesnt you'll still be the better for it
2007-11-12 20:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by toohot 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes using you
and how old are you?
never date someone that much older then you.
hes a decade older then you, thats gross.
forget about him, hes a selfish jerk.
and karma will be back for him
2007-11-12 19:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
look babe i think you should give him a wide berth. it obvious he is in secure. when he does not want to commit him self. and he is not text in you. or calling you. thats answer in it self.so just move on.
2007-11-12 20:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
find someone who does not hate commitment.
2007-11-12 19:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋