is there anyway to know if someone is cheating on you?
2007-11-12 12:41:37 · 23 answers · asked by Mr S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if she is female
2007-11-12 12:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by tom a 3 · 1⤊ 8⤋
You will truly never know unless you find some kind of proof. Some people know how to cheat, never leaving any trails to be found. If you suspect this, the best thing you can do is get a GPS recorder and put it in the car. That will tell you where the car went, when, and for how long. Its not fool proof , but it is a great tool to catch a cheater.
2007-11-12 14:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by dehatched 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first sign is a gut wrenching pain that turns your intestines inside out. If you feel that intuition, something is up. My ex was cheating on me for while, and here's how I clued it together:
It started with her taking walks to talk on the cell phone. Then, she deleted all the numbers and hid the phone from me. After that, she got cold and irritated with me easily. Finally, she would leave the house in fits of rage (unprovoked) and not come back for hours.
Even more, she ran out of money often, stopped helping with chores around the house, bought new perfume, got a new haircut, and it all started with the pain in the stomach.
Eventually, I cracked her email and found proof, which angered her. She treated me like I wasn't even human. Snapped at me for no reason. I couldn't take it anymore.
I read that the longer the affair goes on without being uncovered, the less and less respect the cheater has for you. So do yourself a favor and hire a private eye, tap her cell phone, or uncover her email. You may not like what you find, but the truth will set you free.
2007-11-12 13:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, I think our guts tell us when something is
wrong. If you just feel like things are not normal, talk to him
and if you can't get all the answers you need than move on.
Alot of people cheat, I don't know why, but never settle for
that kind of person. The only way to find out for sure is to
follow him, or to have some one else do it, but if he isn't
cheating, that will cause a problem to.
2007-11-12 15:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by boxmaker40 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many signs of cheating, but to truly know; you must find evidence and confirmation of it all.
Some signs:
1. Secretly talking on the cell phone and hiding the numbers
2. Being gone from home more often than before
3. Less sex
4. Buying new clothes and trying to look their best
5. On the computer more often
And sometimes there are no signs at all; but you know in your heart it is happening.
2007-11-12 12:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by pussycat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At the moment,you cannot really tell. Because if he or she wanted to cheat, there will always be a way. You may not see signs of cheating because others are really very careful about it. For the meantime, you can check her/his celfone,wallet or car - he might left some receipts that would be a lead.
2007-11-12 12:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey their mate well if there are any sudden changes or if shes away more from you or have you been though a tough time and also does she talk about anyone more than you truly there is no way of knowing but you can sit down and talk to your partner ask if things are ok between you two or if her feelings for you changed be calm and don,t get cross as you may just push her away from you good look mate hope things work out ok for you both.
2007-11-13 01:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but they will get caught out in the end. All liers and cheats get caught out, its a fact off life.
cheating is pointless anyway and is for wimps. if your not happy with the person your with finish it rather than cheat and hurt them in one of the worst ways possible.
2007-11-13 22:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by over.therainbow90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know the person well enough there are always signs to cheating.Acting different in all ways in a sure sign boredom can be too.A person has instinct's so use them TRUST them so if you are thinking they are cheating ask them and watch how they answer if they are nervous or any different then you know them to be well then there you go.
2007-11-12 13:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by Cynthia B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its always as obvious as youd think, but i guess look for chanmges in behaviour and maybe if the person is out more than usual or home late things like that. i guess it will be different though per person whoes cheating. i feel so sad for the faithful partners who are left with the ruins of affairs ect i think its so awful that somone you think loves you and is faithful can do somthing like that. they obviously feel no shame or remorse when there doing it though.
2007-11-12 20:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by caz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing short of catching them.
I suspected my ex for along time. When we broke up, he was going to move out without saying goodby. I came home early and he was sitting there with his things packed waiting for her to come pick him up. That kind of confirmed it.
OH and the not having sex thing is a myth - we never had any problem in that area.
2007-11-12 12:52:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋