Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

and wants me to break up with him. We're both openly gay, I'm 16 and he's 17, and he's a lot stronger than me dad so my dad is intimidated by him and wants me to break up with him. What should I do?

2007-11-12 13:29:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And what does that include...what are you doing?

2007-11-12 13:24:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we have been together 8 married 6+. since july this year a slowly emotional distance and no affection for 2+ months and no sex period since late june. this is my 2nd marriage and her 1st. she is 13 yrs younger and no real career sicne she has been a stay at home mom for 3 years . she has found new friends at work , which was part time. there has been a number of times coming home late am and some times not at all. now we sleep in separate rooms and she relly does not want anythind g to do with me. i love her sooo much but how much more of the emotional abuse can i take. i think she is cheating and have seen her with other man for lunch and cell phone records ..wel long calls to other men aka friends. i had a long demanding job so i was not there emotionally for her . we tried cousiling 1x and ashe said no. you work on you and i will work on me, she needs space but for what , i am on her *** about time away from me...wht to do

2007-11-12 13:23:55 · 15 answers · asked by day 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have the pass code to his apartment. And I know where he parks his car.

2007-11-12 13:22:54 · 28 answers · asked by Pants face 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 13:21:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so I like this guy at work. But I'm a very sociable person and I talk to everyone and recently, I was talking with a guy friend and my "crush" came and stood by us but I kept talking with my friend... Anyway. So I saw my "crush" the other day and he didn't talk to me as much as he used to.

I know he sees me talking with alot of the guys. I didn't ever think it would bother him because it's not like we're dating. But then he has this sudden change of mood and I feel like he's mad at me... Gosh, I don't know what's going on. Just let me read your inputs, thanks ;)

2007-11-12 13:20:35 · 33 answers · asked by Ess D 4 in Singles & Dating

I moved on my mom's property one year ago. I set my trailer right next to my sister's old trailer which was being used for a storage. Mom said it was going to be moved across the field eventually. When I started hooking up he utilities to my house and unhooking them from the old trailer, mom had a fit. She said she wanted to fix it up JUST in case someone needed a place to stay. Well, almost one year later my uncle needs a place for him and his kids. So mom calls me up, says they are moving in and they are hooking into my water and sewer. I said I didn't like the idea and she told me to get over it because it was going to happen anyway. The water is in my mom and my sister's name...I just took over paying the bill. The sewer my sister put in years ago. The old trailer is only 12 feet from my house. So now they are hooked to the water which I will have to split the cost of the bill with my uncle. He also hooked electric cords to my house without asking until he gets his own electric.

2007-11-12 13:19:00 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy Blue Eyes 2 in Family

I think that 30 minutes is long enough for us to stay there, the guests can stay however long they want. What do you think?

2007-11-12 13:18:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

she wants to tranfer school after she rans away and go to work can the cops find her that way?how long do the cops look and howgood do they look?and if she leaves state can they steel get her?what happens if she comes back or gets cought after she tearns 18 what could happen to her? what could they do?

2007-11-12 13:18:00 · 8 answers · asked by Kally A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-12 13:17:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-12 13:16:01 · 8 answers · asked by nanaa; (: 2 in Family

my friend is only 17....and he always said he whacks it to grandma sex and porn..i never believed him until i was in his favorites on the computer and see always these nasty sites.......im kinda grossed out by him, i dont want to judge him but its def awkward..

2007-11-12 13:15:35 · 5 answers · asked by bluepengreen 2 in Friends

Now, i'm not talking about bland things like hiking for 2 hours in the snow. I'm talking about totally pointless stuff that probably only 1% of couples do.

My inspiration for this question came from something that just happened with my girlfriend and I. My GF (Krista) wanted to do a shot of Jack. I told her that was fine but if I did that she would have to chase it with a shot of syrup. She agreed... but... if we chased with syrup she wanted me to drink a glass of dill pickle juice after that...

anyway... by the time this was done we had this set up...

We both squirted lemon juice in each others eye... did a shot of jack...did a shot of syrup... drank a glass of dill pickle juice... and then stuck 9V batteries on our tongues...

We accomplished this crazy crap in about 15 seconds....

So what kind of crazy stuff have you and your significant other done?

2007-11-12 13:14:40 · 1 answers · asked by Jake B 4 in Singles & Dating

okay so my freing came over and we have a dumbwaiter and she got in it(but it was my STUPID idea) and it broke and she fell down... no one was hurt but it took like 30min to unscrew it all and now its broken... my mom was soooooooooooooooo SOOOO mad at me and wants to kill me... not srsly but u know... i dont know what to do PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!


THANK YOU SOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-12 13:13:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just got home from a trip with my two cousins. Well during the trip my ant and uncle didn't buy allot to eat so I was basically eating cereal allot, because there was nothing else. Well when my uncle dropped me off at me house today when I wasn't in the room, he told my mom I have bad eating hobbits. I didn't know about this until she told me, I was like mom why are you telling me this? to make me feel like sh!t? I told her that she shouldn't tell me that kind of stuff, and she knows my feelings are hurt, so I got mad at her and now shes pissed off. It just seems like she is intenually (sp?) doing this to make me feel bad. And I eat fine at home there just was hardly enough on the trip. We just don't seem to get along and I am getting very deprepresed allot. I've tryed talking to her but she wont listen. I don't know what to do please help me! I'm 14 by the way, and if you have a rude answer get lost!

2007-11-12 13:10:03 · 5 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

2007-11-12 13:09:30 · 7 answers · asked by sadie* 2 in Family

oral, regular or with help of toys. I had an ex girlfriend once who could get off as many times as she wanted. What is average number of times you girls are getting off in one session?

2007-11-12 13:03:52 · 19 answers · asked by jeff b 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate life and I don't know how to make it better... what should I do?
I'm in school right now (college). I hate it. I'm suffering from severe depression (for 9 years). I feel all alone. I have friends but I don't trust them because they gossip a lot. I am a junior but I don't know if i'll be able to make it. I can't take it anymore. I'm not doing as well as I want in my classes. I have a lot of hospital bills to pay. No job. I don't know what to do. My parents can't afford to pay for me.
I was almost used by some guy whom trusted enough to lose my virginity with. But I got out of it before it got bad. But it still hurts that someone would try to use my kindness for weakness.
I'm getting over it day by day but I dont think I'll be able to trust another again.

I don't like being at school and I don't like being at home.

I'm stuck in a rut. I guess you can say that I am venting but it's the only thing I can do right now to make me feel better... sort of...

2007-11-12 13:02:45 · 8 answers · asked by . 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother died a few days ago. My sister went to go close her accounts and she found several transactions my mother could've made. Her room mate stop calling to check up on her when we closed the accounts we think it's him. What can I do Legally I don't think there is much we can do.

2007-11-12 13:02:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

other than movies or ice skating

2007-11-12 13:02:31 · 9 answers · asked by minibush3 1 in Singles & Dating

34 yrs old never been married 2 children in current relationship.

2007-11-12 13:01:06 · 5 answers · asked by jo_sanna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 12:57:09 · 4 answers · asked by Neil 7 in Singles & Dating

im black/cuban mainly black but i like this girl from el selvador and another from columbia and when i thnk about asn dem out i think maybe dey wont want me cuz im black so wat should i do?do u thnk hispanics and blacks should date?

2007-11-12 12:55:07 · 23 answers · asked by dre 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for 5 months. Not married, b/f & g/f. My problem is is that his true colors are starting to show. He has 2 beautiful little girls, all he wants to do is fuss at them. He belittles them and calls them names when they cant do their homework right. Now he is starting to do the same thing to me. He has hit the girls but he has not hit me. But I am scared to death of him. Every move I make I am constantly looking over my shoulders. I have no privacy, where are you going what are you doing? I cant get a job because he is jealous. I want to get out, but I cant. Finances, and I am scared of what will happen to his girls. I have become very fond of them. I have looked into shelters cant go unless I have children with me ( the kids ar his not mine). I cant go to the cops because he is one of them.....Does anyone have any suggestions?

2007-11-12 12:53:37 · 21 answers · asked by heavensangel37 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl i like. She is in my history class. I like her and she is very beautiful. Im not exactly in the popular group in my shool and she just seems out of my leage. Pluss it is hard to talk to her because she is the shy type. Wha sould i do?

2007-11-12 12:53:06 · 33 answers · asked by Pocketrocketmaster 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with my ex on/off for 2 years.I needed to just have space from it all so I tried to have no contact with him at school since we have a class together. I started to be very mean to him even though he was just trying to be nice. i had family issues,self worth, and friend issues going on which caused me to be kinda ignorant. we still talked at times and he texted me once every week for 2 months. I still cared about him a lot.he even called me to hang out but I told him I was busy. After that he stopped trying to talk to me. Its like were both invisible. His friend said hi and waved to me but my ex just looked and me and didnt say anything. I sent him a text last night saying congratulations on winning the game. and he texted back saying thanks lol i saw you in the stands.

Does this mean he cares about me or is he just being nice or what?

Side note- Theres a girl that waits for him after some of his classes. They aren't going out.

2007-11-12 12:53:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my hubby today because he did something i didnt like i was doing some kind of work around his area where he worked i passed through and passed some flyers out at the time i was training 4 women so they were with me long story short i introduced them to my hubby and he said hi to all and kinda flirt with one of them in my face and when i approched him he said i was crazy well one of the women came up to me and said he really made her feel uncomfortable and she really didnt appreciate that so i felt embarrassed and i just dumped him ladies am i wrong?????

2007-11-12 12:51:41 · 7 answers · asked by Conteplative 3 in Singles & Dating

i have had a small arguement with my friend at school. it was because he treated me like an invisible man. so i asked him on msn why he was treating me like that, but his answer hurt me. his response was so furious that i don't know why but he just got mad at me and he is still at me. i apologized him, but he refused several times. and his other friends(who are also my friends) became so dry to me too. they never talk to me first until i talk to them, and they are always so dry and curt to me whenever they have a conversation with me. i really don't know why. this just makes me crazy. maybe because i'm new to this school... i just don't wanna make this problem worse and i don't want to finish the friendship. please help me. why everyone is so curt to me?

2007-11-12 12:50:03 · 12 answers · asked by ¼º¿ë ¹ 1 in Friends

I have a friend who is married to a woman who is unworthy of him . He asked this woman to marry him last June, she said yes then 6 months later when he asked her to start setting a date she told him don't rush her and if he wanted to call it off he could, he was also recieveing calls from another man telling him not to marry her but he said he thought it was one of his brothers and left it alone. Then she told him she wanted to finish school first when she hadn't even started. She finally set a date in February of this year, she wanted the wedding that August he had already started planning the wedding before she even decided on a date or if she was gonna go through with it. Hes a really sweet person and loves her very much. She talks to him really horrible, he works four jobs and attends school. They finally got married this August but he said her mother wouldn't help pay for the wedding and she took her car because she was doing to much running for the wedding what is wrong here

2007-11-12 12:49:39 · 2 answers · asked by q2k15 1 in Weddings

from a girl that he might like? and a girl that likes him..

2007-11-12 12:49:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating