i have had a small arguement with my friend at school. it was because he treated me like an invisible man. so i asked him on msn why he was treating me like that, but his answer hurt me. his response was so furious that i don't know why but he just got mad at me and he is still at me. i apologized him, but he refused several times. and his other friends(who are also my friends) became so dry to me too. they never talk to me first until i talk to them, and they are always so dry and curt to me whenever they have a conversation with me. i really don't know why. this just makes me crazy. maybe because i'm new to this school... i just don't wanna make this problem worse and i don't want to finish the friendship. please help me. why everyone is so curt to me?
2007-11-12 12:50:03 · 12 answers · asked by ¼º¿ë ¹ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah maybe it is because you're new. Just realize that you tried to say sorry for something you don't even know you did wrong, and if they can't accept the apology then they aren't true friends. I've heard that after 5 times of trying to say sorry, if the person still can't forgive you then it is more their problem them yours, and now they should be the ones saying sorry! Just forget them, friendships go through rough times and you just have to deal with it. Try being friendly to a lot of new people you meet, that way if something happens between you and someone and you'll someone else to go to and feel comfortable talking to. The other people are probably just following the guy who wouldn't forgive you because they want to stay friends with him or are too insecure to stick up to you and like you on their own. Just forget them and make new friends, the righ ttime will come when you guys will be friends again.
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2007-11-12 12:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Little P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers can be cruel, friends or not. You asked for an answer and got one, one you did not want to hear. And it appears this friend then spread the word to your other common friends. Well, I would think that if a few days have passed and nothing has changed, those supposed friendships are over. Move on and fine new friends who respect you as a person who cares, human being with feelings, and a human who makes misakes
2007-11-12 12:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just like to say first of all that you NEVER EVER say things like that on msn or aim or on the computer at all. It only leads to trouble.
Your friend probably told his other friends things that aren't true that you said...and they may be mad at you now.
The only thing you can really do is wait it out and see if your friend will forgive you. Try talking to him. See if there was a misunderstanding because you told him on msn.
And I repeat: TELLING THOSE THINGS ON MSN WILL HAVE THE CONSEQUENCES. don't do it.
2007-11-12 12:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you are new to the school so you are not totally accepted into their clicks. School is about trying to find your independence and working through problems. It is a lesson you have to learn on your own. Do not stress out too much because in life there will be other friends.
2007-11-12 12:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by undyingrage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta tell her that if she didn't want to hang out with you, she should of told you, she shouldn't need to feel like she has to lie to you & go behind your back to hang out with other people - that's not even what best friends are about, she shouldn't need to do that to you, she should be fine with telling you "nah maybe another time", nobody wants a best friend who ditches them and lies to them, that's dumb.
2016-05-22 21:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, f@#$ them!
they obviously dnt care, it seems tht u do ,toooo much give thm their space REMEMBER why have enemies if u have friends like tht! ok just start chatting with others get a girl or smthng get ur mind off it!
2007-11-12 12:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by vitalhuman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they were your true friends, they would tell you what's going on. You need to find another group to hang with. You seem like a cool cat, don't wear your heart on your sleeve.
2007-11-12 12:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, high school. Sorry, but I have to agree with Stephanie. This will pass, just be patient.
2007-11-12 12:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Penny ~ Baby #1 due Jan 4 2009 ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have this same proble with one of my friends well i thought she was my friend .if you so called friends treat you like that they are really not your friends . just be yourself and people willl like you for who you really are just be your self trust me and just have fun at being your self people won't like you if you pretened to be some one else
2007-11-12 13:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by gotfunk cuttie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him if possible face to face and don't put it on him ask him how you can improve
2007-11-12 12:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋