I broke up with my hubby today because he did something i didnt like i was doing some kind of work around his area where he worked i passed through and passed some flyers out at the time i was training 4 women so they were with me long story short i introduced them to my hubby and he said hi to all and kinda flirt with one of them in my face and when i approched him he said i was crazy well one of the women came up to me and said he really made her feel uncomfortable and she really didnt appreciate that so i felt embarrassed and i just dumped him ladies am i wrong?????
2007-11-12 12:51:41 · 7 answers · asked by Conteplative 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no we are not married we dated for 4 months
2007-11-12 13:03:26 · update #1
there has been other incedents ladies, i found a stocking under his bed and he has no hair what so ever but when i go to his house his conditioner and shampoo are always being use also he has said i love you his ex wife in front of me and turns his phone off when hes around me also he erases his incoming and out going calls before he gets to my house...... ladies am i still wrong?
2007-11-12 13:10:06 · update #2
I'm confused..is he your boyfriend or husband? because as far as I know, you can't just "dump" your husband. You would have to file for divorce or legal seperation. I ask because although what he did was distasteful, inappropriate and disrespectful to both you and your co-worker, I don't think marriage should end so easily. I think you two need to talk things out, and get some counseling together.
Now that you've added more details, I would say that he tries too hard to hide what he's doing, so he may be doing something wrong. The bigger picture is even if he isn't, the fact that you can't trust him means he's not the right one for you. Either trust him fully or get out of the relationship.
2007-11-12 12:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just "break up" with your hubby "husband". I think there have to be more to it then this. If this is the first thing that you have felt was wrong and your running from it then how are you ever going to make a relationship last? Now, if this a collection of other serious things then that's another story. How do you know that the other girl is not doing this out of jealousy or spite? I say check this behavior out a little more and then make a decision. Losing his trust is a major issue. Then again, if he doesn't respect you there's no point in trust.
2007-11-12 21:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by panther 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't seem right for a few days , but it was pretty brave of you to do that,i surely think its pretty good of you to dump him , .... no offence im saying how i feel inside .
2007-11-12 20:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Smarticle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont kno. he has upset you and this other woman is uncomfortable. i think rather then dumping him you should hav a serious talk with him and see if u can work it out. tell him how u feel and wat he did wrong
2007-11-12 20:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh
yes.
how about you TALK to him first?
You apparently don't care too much for him, so i wouldn't be calling him your "hubby"
2007-11-12 20:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you guys been married and was this the first incident?...We need more info!
2007-11-12 20:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmm for reals i dont now !!!! i guess you did the wrong thing just because you were jelous!!!!right!!
2007-11-12 20:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋