What would be good advice?

Question

I have a friend who is married to a woman who is unworthy of him . He asked this woman to marry him last June, she said yes then 6 months later when he asked her to start setting a date she told him don't rush her and if he wanted to call it off he could, he was also recieveing calls from another man telling him not to marry her but he said he thought it was one of his brothers and left it alone. Then she told him she wanted to finish school first when she hadn't even started. She finally set a date in February of this year, she wanted the wedding that August he had already started planning the wedding before she even decided on a date or if she was gonna go through with it. Hes a really sweet person and loves her very much. She talks to him really horrible, he works four jobs and attends school. They finally got married this August but he said her mother wouldn't help pay for the wedding and she took her car because she was doing to much running for the wedding what is wrong here

Answer 1

He has married her so the deed is done, big mistake. Why did he make that mistake? He is either really into the chase and never really wants to catch anyone or he has extremely low self esteem.

Good advice, he needs counseling. You just need to listen to him when he needs to talk.

Answer 2

Good advice is BUTT OUT! What is wrong here is your friend is a SAP. But that is none of your business now.

He made his decision. The time to say something was BEFORE he got married. Now it's too late. If you did say something and he ignored it then he will probably ignore anything you say now anyway.

If you stood in a church and witnessed that wedding, you have an obligation to do whatever you can to help them...not encourage them to split up.

As the saying goes, if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.