Probably sounds like nothing, since we dated for 4 months and a half. Long distance too, she's 15 im 17. And we started dating of course this summer, she recently moved to another town and new school..and..just about 3 or 4 weeks ago we had two big fights that supposedly "changed the way she felt about me"...and these fights were about sex, and nervous issues of pregnancy...So after a few countless hours of obsessing we got back together...and it seemed fine at first, until one day, she told me she just didn't think she felt the same anymore, and she didn't love me. So from last sunday we got back together, and she broke up with me last wednesday, she has a new bf, and I called her to ask how, and why, she just said "STOP CALLING ME" " I NEVER WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU OR TALK TO YOU AGAIN"
and since then I've been crying my eyes out hysterically..i LOVE HER! and i can't get over her *cries*....what should I do? did she fall in love with him and lose feelings for me? HOW?!
2007-11-12 12:31:17 · 11 answers · asked by tinfoilman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, i think she doesn't know what she is doing, maybe she is going out with her new bf while the two of you are still together, cheer up, you will get over her somehow, it just goes to show she doesn't feel the same way about you, try to find a new love, like a new pet, hobby or girl something that will take your mind off her, do stop crying oer her, she isn't worth it, im sure you will be able to move on soon... dont try to get back with her anymore, she doesn't deserve you.
2007-11-12 12:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Krizia ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably just rebounding. She might be looking to try and get you jealous. If she said that to you, then I don't how you can be sad...if anything you should be mad. Right now, I'd just lay off. If she really loves you she'll go back to you. If not, you know, it's gonna be hard but you adapt and move on.
Make a list of all the negative things about her. Watch movies like The Godfather or any other movies that make you feel like a man. Just man up and stop worrying. I'm in no way trying to sound like a prick but I've been where you are and someone told me that and it was the greatest thing someone could tell me.
Never let a girl be a factor in the kind of person you become. Good luck buddy.
2007-11-12 12:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie not to be mean or to harsh but when a woman is done they are done. And especially as young as you all are then it makes everything so much harder and more dramatic. If it wasn't true love then it is very easy to just move on no matter how much the guy trys or say anything and everything to try to get him back you are giving her all the big head that she want. By her having a new boyfriend and you still calling my best advice to you would be to just leave her alone and if she truly likes or loves you she will be back....its like when you treat a man or woman like crap the opposite sticks around to see if they can changes the other one and vise verse...don';t call go out with friends give her some breathing time and if it is mean to be it will I promise you that
2007-11-12 12:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by beamer_chixx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to get to the bottom of the problem. It is not related to LOVE but to your EGO. Your main concern is with the REJECTION. She rejected you in a very clear terms. This your male ego is not able to take. It is not because of any love for your GF you are crying but it is because of the fact that you have been rejected. Your ego is not accepting the 'rejection' that also from a girl who should be used to BIG FIGHTS with you. Of course, she is a sane girl, therefore, it is very natural for her to find another BF, who is not an egoist like you. You should wish her best of luck and find means to improve your attitude towards life. Missing a GF is not an end of the world. You are only 17 there will be many more in your life but if you do not improve upon your priorities and general attitude I am afraid you are likely to counter more problems in future.
2007-11-12 12:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Amar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 4 month long distance relationship? I'm guessing you are more distressed about the rejection than really losing her. That wasn't even enough time to get adjusted to having a relationship. Leave her alone. Go on with your life, get involved in activities and meet new people. I'll bet you you'll start feeling better in a week and in 2 you won't even remember who she is.
2007-11-12 12:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... the truth of the matter is, none of what you said above matters. Being freinds, even with boyfriend/girlfriend is a result of mutual agreement. Since she does not want it anymore, then it is over. There is absolutely nothing you can do to change her mind, unless she does it all on her own.
2007-11-12 12:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY BF JUST BROKE UP WITH ME A WEEK AGO AND GOT A KNEW GF I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL I'M SO JELOUS IT MAKES ME MAD AND SAD BUT I THink about the posative side i'm still alive thats an inside joke i said it inside (my best friend thinks thats halarious dont end up like a luser like her)just joking i love her in a best friend way =]
2007-11-12 12:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by julia_1o1_cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somewhat we have a some story
just ignore her 4awhile or try and then just like call her out of the blues and ask her wats up like text her or something cause right now i think shes annoyed of u so yea she wants 2 move on but its a posibility that shes not sure so just try and leave her alone 4 like a month or 2 and then call her and see how shes doing
good luck try
and try and move on? there are @least 6000 girls out there in the world that go out with you and im sure that there r chicks close by that like you that u like just hang in there!
2007-11-12 12:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She may have for some time. That is hard to tell. It will be harder for you because you are the one that got hurt. Time will heal your wounds, though it may not feel like it now. It is best for you, though to try and move on, when you feel you are ready.
2007-11-12 12:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by Shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel and explain how youll change ur ideas on sex for her if she really worth it.
good luck i know this has to hurt alot honey(big bear hug)
2007-11-12 12:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by millertime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋