last week i posted a question on here about my husband's weird friendship with this 27 year old guy and my husband is 45 years old. well the new news on this situation came to a good end after all. the guy jumped up out of the blow and moved to alabama and left his wife in kids in detroit. he called my husband last tuesday and i heard my husband asking him when was he coming back to detroit. i guess the guy said never. well yesterday when my husband and i were on our way to church he told me the real truth behind that conversation he had with the guy on the phone. he told me that the guy told him to pack his things, bring his pension money and moved to alabama with him that they were going to run a warehouse together and sock up. my husband got mad and told me that he was done with that guy because he was not going to change. he erased the guys phone number out of his cellphone and he has scheduled for our home phone number to be changed.
2007-11-12 10:04:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
now it seems to me that this guy has no respect for me either being my husband's wife if he is going to just tell him to pack his things and just leave and come down their with him. so he called just now and i told him that my husband dosen't stay here anymore. was i wrong for doing that? that guys uses people and people get into trouble hanging around him. if he dosent have any respect for me as a wife then i dont have any respect for him as being my husband's so called friend. my husband says he dosent want that guy calling this house or calling him anymore. i dont want my husband to get nasty with him and cause any trouble so i told the guy that he did not live here anymore. i know that guy knew that i was lying and so what if he did what is he going to do beat my a*!?
2007-11-12 10:08:22 · update #1
i like to point out that is it a*# holes on here who makes smart remarks and it is always the one who dosent have it where you can email them back.
2007-11-12 10:19:43 · update #2
Weird. I didn't read your earlier post but this guy sounds like a train wreck waiting to happen. I'm glad your husband sees it now.
2007-11-12 10:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not at all. Infact you have done a very good thing. there should not be any secret between husband and wife and if this was totally business he should have talk over to you first before listening to any tom dick and harry. Afterall you will the who is taking a good care of your husband. The guy was after his pension money. He would have simply dumped him once the money runs out.You have saved everything sweetheart.
Good on you.
2007-11-12 10:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by shohil c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I do not think you were wrong. You had something bothering you about something your husband was getting into so you chose to try to figure out what was bothering you instead of just waiting around for an answer. You found a way to LET IT OUT!! Glad to hear that it is all CLEAR NOW!!
2007-11-12 10:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by backyardbum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are doing a great thing the guy could of came to your house and stalked you for a long time till you called the cops
2007-11-12 10:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I would have probably done the same thing. I'm glad your husband isn't buying his crap! I say good riddance to his sorry self!
2007-11-12 10:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your hubby wants him gone, then fine. As long as he leaves you alone. Good luck.
2007-11-12 10:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uuumm okkk thanks for the update...
2007-11-12 10:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋