I went out with my ex on/off for 2 years.I needed to just have space from it all so I tried to have no contact with him at school since we have a class together. I started to be very mean to him even though he was just trying to be nice. i had family issues,self worth, and friend issues going on which caused me to be kinda ignorant. we still talked at times and he texted me once every week for 2 months. I still cared about him a lot.he even called me to hang out but I told him I was busy. After that he stopped trying to talk to me. Its like were both invisible. His friend said hi and waved to me but my ex just looked and me and didnt say anything. I sent him a text last night saying congratulations on winning the game. and he texted back saying thanks lol i saw you in the stands.
Does this mean he cares about me or is he just being nice or what?
Side note- Theres a girl that waits for him after some of his classes. They aren't going out.
2007-11-12 10:13:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course he still cares or he wouldn't have replied at all... Why don't you try apologizing for your actions awhile back. Saying your sorry can heal so many many wounds & open up many new doors!
2007-11-12 10:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is very hurt but would never tell you because it is a guy thing. He must have cared about you a lot because he noticed you in the stands. It sounds like he is having a hard time getting over you. It sounds like you were the one that ended it, so, He would feel he has no choice but to get over you and is trying to do so. John
2007-11-12 18:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by John 77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he still cares for you, you went out for quite sometime, hes probably confused as to why you were so mean when he was being nice, if you want to be good friends with him maybe you could explain yourself, other then that, I'm not sure..
2007-11-12 18:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is sad because you were mean to him, maybe if you told him about your family issues, he will understand why you did that. Try inviting him over again. Try striking up conversation. Don't do it on the phone because it means more to him to say it face to face.
Hope this helps!
2007-11-12 18:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by !i a m c o ol ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try too hard to read into his actions. Guys, believe it or not, are VERY complicated. If you obsess over what he does you'll just go crazy and get frustrated. Believe me, I've been there. I think it would be smart to just move on with your life. It sounds like you're getting too stressed over something that's over. Move on. Have fun. Forget him.
2007-11-12 18:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should be w/ him more, after all he's ur boyfriend, he should be part of ur support system from friends and everything else that's going on in ur life
2007-11-12 18:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by xoxox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could mean that and im sure he does. maybe if you start being nice to him or apolgizing for the way you acted he'll reveal his feelings but being mean to him and what not mite have pushed him away...
2007-11-12 18:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think he has feelings 4 u
and he was wondring if u r also
but i think from ur attitude with him
i think he u heart him , so hey may move on ..
but if u want him , GOO
2007-11-12 18:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a choice either you want to be with him or not --- if you do then talk to him apologise for your behaviour and work out any problems together ---- if he does not want to be with you accept and move on ---- have fun
2007-11-12 18:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. grow up.
2007-11-12 18:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by Ray E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋