would this bother you....?

Question

i am in a relationship(2.5yrs) its the holidays...my boyfriend is going to louisville for Thanksgiving to his Moms.His 2 kids and his brother and girlfriend will be there. he didnt invite my kids, although,they probably wouldnt go but if i were going to my moms, i would invite his kids.for Christmas his kids are coming to his house,he told me we(my kids and i ) could come over if we wanted.....not "I want you and your kids to come over..." our kids are all older ranging from 16 to 21, i have 3 he has 2.by now, i would think it would be a given that he would know, if he is going to invite me along for a holiday get2gether,you would invite my kids. maybe im wrong.i dont think so though. 1 of my kids will be at his girlfriends, the other 2 may go to theeir dads or their sisters, i dont know,but i think i will stay home, cook something and invite my kids "home" because i know we are ALL welcome there !!!

Answer 1

If it was his house andhe was doing the cooking he could invite anyone he wanted. but it is his moms house and she is doing all the work, then it is up to his mom to do the inviting.

He probably doesn`t feel like your kids would want to spend any time with him during the holiday and didn`t want to impose on them that he wanted (making it mandatory) them to come over.

Or

He could care less and I would drather be somewhere else with someone else doing the work.

Answer 2

I wouldn't bother me but sure will pissed me off. I'm going to tell you why? My ex went on vacation once and took his son.Of course the drug addict Ex she was living in the same state and town. A week later he came back different.We went different ways/ Three months later he told me he slept with her and that was the reason he broke up with me. Needless to say I dumped his *** and recommended him to go get his *** checked up with a doctor. That was the last time I heard from him.On a last note I was living in my own apartment.
If he's not including you on any family gatherings what's there for you with this guy? think about it.Not saying what happened to me might happen to you but just keep your eyes open for anything around you.
Good luck.