Why do men want to share a woman? Especially my boyfriend? What is he and his mates getting out of having sex with me in front of each other?
When I ask them they say they really like me but then I think they dont listen to anything I say i.e using condoms! Also we dont use condoms so it is messy if you know what I mean! How can guys be ok with this from other guys?
Why does it not upset my b'friend to see men have sex with me? Why does he get off on it???
2007-11-12 07:24:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys like it like that.
Have you ever watched guy's pornography?
It can be a badge of honour to have a girl who is desired by other guys.
It _IS_ considered unusual or even deviant to GIVE the girl to the other guys.
However, in some circles it can be seen as a form of control - domination, submission.
Interesting stuff.
But I agree with the concerns voiced by the other people. In many cases this can be unhealthy for relationships. If you are feeling degraded in a way that you do not want to be, by all means you should get out of there quick as you can.
2007-11-12 23:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are nothing more than a whore to them except they do not have to pay you. They have no respect for you and do not see you as anything more than a piece of meat.
Nice taste in boyfriends and friends. Try to get some morals and quit spreading it for whoever your boyfriend wants you to. Find a guy that is going to treat you with respect instead of just a walking hole for their pleasure.
2007-11-12 15:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that's a little perverted. If I saw another guy having sex with my girlfriend, I'd beat the **** up =(. I don't get it either, and I'm a guy. I think it's maybe something that a lot of guys want to see, but only some actually have the audacity to ask? I dunno, I don't have that feeling at all about my girlfriend.
2007-11-12 15:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by fishdude404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men like the arousel it brings to them to see there mate with another man...... i myself enjoy sharing my wife and myself with another couple on occasions ..... and we all have a great timee when we do it .... however we do practice safe sex and always use condoms as well as other safety measures can be a great experince for people however it needs to be with the right people , in the right mind and practiced safely and if ya boyfriend cant do it on your stipulations then you need to end it .....
2007-11-12 15:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you out of you F***king mind!?! Ge the hell away from this dude? You shouldn't be asking why it is okay with your bf...but why it is okay with you? Why did you agree to do that!?! They're running a train on you sweetie. They don't care about you....they just like the fact that you're a freak. Move on and find someone that respects you for you.
2007-11-12 15:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by carqueen66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it ain't no fun if the homies can't have none. honestly him and his friend think of you as their ho and can bang whenever they want. First your crazy for letting all those guys do that, and without wearing a rubber. Now I have had my share of running trains on females. Your nothing but a piece of a$$ to them who gives it up and does whatever they want...hell I would keep you on my team if you got down with me and my boys all the time to.
2007-11-12 16:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by chibran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to come to terms with the fact that you are not his girlfriend. I have had some pretty open relationships and I have shared girls with my friends and let me tell you that if a man has real feelings for a chick he doesnt let all his friends have turns on her. I do commend you, however, on your commitment to this person..
2007-11-12 15:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by Justin G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to seem mean but you have become these guys personal porno they are using you i have never heard a guy say he is looking for a nice hoe to settle down with maybe you should consider why you are allowing it
2007-11-12 15:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by Blaqchinah Violation Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys think that way. I think guys who do are weird and wish they were in a porno.
2007-11-12 15:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is weird and you should dump him because guys want there women for themselves and no one else
2007-11-12 15:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Vincent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋