My husband left me 3 months ago we have 2 kids.My daughter found out he has a GF he told my daughter he would be out of town this weekend She thought he might be going to our cabin so she texted him & told him Dont you dare take your GF to our cabin if you do my friend who lives around there will tell me. He wrote back" tell her to come by at 1 o'clock & she can meet her."
I can't tell you how much that hurt me I have not been to the cabin since he left & all of my things are still there my clothes and everything & our bed I can't believe he would do that to me
my mom thinks that he just said that & that he didn't even go to the cabin. She thinks he was just mad at my daughter for trying to run his life. It hurts so bad if he did that.Does anyone have an opinion on it?
2007-11-12 07:29:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DID YOU PAY FOR THE CABIN? if you did in anyway i would change the locks of course...go to court. do you still live in the house that you two lived in? would you bring another man in there? eventually people do that...take him to court, jet your stuff out of the cabin. forget him.
2007-11-12 07:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by HellzBellz08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so understand what you are going through. I too do not think he took her there either though. Clearly he is insensitive and although you do not know it now, you are better off without him. My ex fiance left a month and a half ago. Within days he met someone on a sex dating site and she looks like a large bull dyke and is into all kinds of weird sex like fisting and group and asphyxiation. He took a lot of money from me and will not give it back. This is one messed up world. Find someone nice and giving and compassionate. No matter what you think, this new girlfriend will not stick around or he will get back just what he did to you. Hopefully by then you will have found someone fantastic and he can look back and see what he lost!
2007-11-12 07:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only opinion that matters is the Judges in your divorce. Get the best lawyer that he can afford(make sure he pays for your lawyer as he left you), document everything and I mean everything, and take him for everything he has including that cabin. There is only way to get to a liar and a cheat and that's through his pocketbook.
2007-11-12 07:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ABSURD that your daughter is texting him at all about his private life. It sucks but he left...be thankful that he didn't lie, cheat, or deceive (anymore) and he left you to move on. Keep your daughter out of the mudslinging!! Bite your tongue when it comes to negativity and trash talking. He WILL eventually move on, maybe even re-marry and it would be alot easier on the kids if you dealt with that on your own and didn't involve them in your disdain for him. Their only concern should be visiting dad and when the time is right he can choose to involve them in his dating life. How sad....
2007-11-12 07:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by laura1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has moved on you should too. Get you a friend and take him there. Don't get the kids involved. Get your groove back but don't bring him around your kids. Go get your groove on at the cabin! Have fun
2007-11-12 07:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Lyk01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This dude is not very smart. If he has a GF he should be waiting till the divorce is complete before doing things like this.
2007-11-12 07:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope he took his own sheets/towels, if not burn them!! And I'm not real busy, and I do LOVE cabins, so lets just go to get even!! LOL hehehe
2007-11-12 08:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he left, then you honestly have no argument. Just as he can't say anything if you had a male suitor visit your home. Good luck.
2007-11-12 07:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by marcavelli0569 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋