Ok my live in boyfriend of 3 yrs moved out nov 2nd and I've been a total mess cuz I want him to come home I can't eat or sleep but my question is now I'm incredibly. horny? Is that normal? He said he doesn't know if were broken up or just on a break to get things in order. So what do I do (it doesn't work if I do it myslef its just nowhere near the same)
2007-11-12 07:26:45 · 26 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry to hear this.
Give it some time. Of course you miss him, and he will be missing you too in some way, regardless of what he may say.
So yeah, time is the answer. If you are meant to be, you'll get back together. If not, then move on, it's for the best.
Are you based in the UK?
2007-11-12 07:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok he has moved out since 2nd Nov, well then i guess you know the answer. He's gone probably. Dont worry ur not alone, im going through a break up to now, sleep is very hard to do right now i know, although im not horny??,lol. all the best.
2007-11-12 15:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Diane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course your horny....Just dont go out and find some to sleep with until you know where the relationship is headed.
I think you should call him, talk things out and see where the relationship stands. Becuase I dont know why he moved out? I dont know what happened between you two!! only you two can resolve this together and come down to a conclusion to what you both really want and what is best for the two of you and try to work something out because it seems lke there are a lot of unanwered questions you need to know from his part. And i think you shold ask him. Tell him how you feel. you need to resolve this. you should be left in the dark...thinking what you want to believe and then you end up getting hurt in the end when it actually hits you.
See if it's a break or a break up? If you dont know where you stand you need to talk to him and get on with your life.. ok im pretty sure you know deep down inside where you stand. But its best for you to talk to him in person to see if it goes both ways and there is no missunderstandings.
or if the feelings are mutal - just tell him you need to get laid and he can be your boy toy until the next best thing come along. hahaha
good luck.
2007-11-12 15:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. HE may be sleeping with someone else and not sure if he wants to stay with you or move on. Not fair to you I say, I've been in the same situation except I knew he was sleeping around, and I was trying to get a new place. I experienced ALL the same feelings (lack of food, sleep and wanting it bad). You'll come around. I lost 10 lbs in less than a month because of it (even with forcing myself to eat food 2 times a day).
2007-11-12 15:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were getting a lot of it on a regular basis. it would be quite normal to feel horny. It is true, like the song says, "Ain't nothing like the real thing baby..."
What things need to be in order the requires him to leave? That's the big issue here. I do not feel that you will find the answers to your questions with someone else in your bed.
2007-11-12 15:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a Dildo... I just had a brake up to and I feel the way you do.. I think you need to tell your boyfriend he needs to pick right now b/c if e loves you he won't need a break from you.. I think hes probly gettting some from someone else and if that doesn't work out then he'll still have you don't let yourself
2007-11-12 16:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Loveable_Lilly _2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well cOOkie it can be the worst time of our lives splitting up with a partner but the only time its easy is when you don't care for them. then you want them to go. feeling horny is normal if you have had a regular sex life up to that point the body and your mind get used to that excitement and miss it.
you could ease this with B.O.B (battery operated boyfriend) and or do a bit of decorating. its nice to have things round the flat the way you've always wanted them. visit friends you couldn't with him because he didn't like them. do the things he would not share with you and you miss. but don't fall into the trap of using someone else for sex because you're horny(lonely). as if you use them , they will use you.
2007-11-12 15:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be a little more concerned about the well-being of your 3 year relationship rather than how you're going to get off next. If you're going to be single for a while...you better get used to being horny or taking care of yourself!!
2007-11-12 15:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think it's normal to feel that way sometimes people have does day when they want some and feel like they love that person but they really don't they just want them to do them a favor cause they are horny. I think you just want some and have to look for someone you truly love.=]
2007-11-12 15:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hook up with him for a quick fix. It is hard when you break up with someone and this happens. I know in past relationships have gone through this, only to prolong things. If you think it will work out then just wait. If you are unsure go someplace else (with someone else) and take care of your needs...
2007-11-12 15:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by micaso1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋