Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

When does a sex suggestion from your boy friend bother you and when doesn't?

2007-11-12 05:59:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has horrible language. I used my son's cell the other day to listen to music and there was a text message from a girl asking "Why did you cal me a slut" I can not think of any reason a 11 year old would talk like that other than hearing it at home. My husband would just be angry if I brought it up. How do I approach my son on the subject?

2007-11-12 05:57:28 · 18 answers · asked by Destini H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Let me start out by saying my parents got divorced a couple years ago I am 23 and have a younger brother of 18. My brother lives with my mom and is going to school. My dad makes a six figure income which will be relavent here in a moment. My dad does not have to pay child support anymore for my brother because he is 18. My brother lives with my mom and she takes care of all his living expenses while he is in school such as, food, clothes, household stuff, gas, tuition, spending money, doctors bills etc.... My dad does not pay anything and refuses to take care of my brothers living expenses. My mom is requesting that he helps out because he is his son as well and pay half but he refuses and it is making my mom really financial unstable. What is your input on this please. By the reason they divorced is because he cheated on her a couple times after 25yrs of marraige.

2007-11-12 05:56:51 · 25 answers · asked by texman03 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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Have i gotten improvements from weightlifting? How much more should i bulk up?

2007-11-12 05:56:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my partner are spiritual, but not religious. We both come from religious families. Her family goes to church much more than mine does. I have expressed opinions about publicly funded education in a blog, to the demise of my sister-in-law. She accused me of being a hippocrate because I went to a faith-based school when I was a kid. She now ignores me and refuses to acknowledge my existence. I have emailed her comments where I apologized for possibly offending her, but they were my opinions. I have removed the comments, but I made a mistake and compared their struggle to get funding for faith schools to homosexuals fighting for the right to get married. This was clearly not acceptable to them and I would not include it, if I had to do it over.

The Question: How do I remedy the situation so that I can get along at family functions and such without sacrificing my ideals and dignity.

2007-11-12 05:53:39 · 18 answers · asked by Charles M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he is an ex husband( divorced twice ) of a friend of mine. do you think that he is using her because he is broke ?

2007-11-12 05:52:53 · 9 answers · asked by rodriguez m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was going to put a picture of us in it? What else can I get them besides jewerly. I am not a big jewerly girl unless it was for the hair or something? Flip flops what else? My budget would be like $50 or $40 a girl. Something else for my matron.

2007-11-12 05:52:43 · 9 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

or will they just laugh. He tells everyone we are seperated because he left to his brothers a month before he joined military but he also begged me not to divorce him while we lived apart. Every since he went in the military he has become a jerk as they will finish helping him become a citizen i just paid for greencard so he could join now they will give him citizenship after one yr i wrote immigration and want him deported as i was used it seems like he is seperated because it is convient for him since he rents hotels and puts money on whores.

2007-11-12 05:51:38 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she is not accepting that i no longer love her the way i used to and i have moved out but still wont accept it as over i dont want to be hard on her but i need her to understand any suggestions please

2007-11-12 05:51:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

... on a first date. Is that why she doesn't answer my calls?

2007-11-12 05:51:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do u think..when did u lose ur virginity??

2007-11-12 05:44:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you fall in love again after a failed acrimonious relationship. Is it possible to "jump in" and forget about the consequences of a possible negative turn to the romance? How can I do that, How do you do that? Please someone tell me?

2007-11-12 05:43:11 · 351 answers · asked by tod m 2 in Singles & Dating

I always wanted to get married in a church but a friend of mine just got married (FYI .catholic church), and she said she had to pay $800! Now i dont know what that included? I thought you were just supoosed to give a donation?

2007-11-12 05:42:56 · 14 answers · asked by Me :) 2 in Weddings

I always wanted to get married in a church but a friend of mine just got married (FYI .catholic church), and she said she had to pay $800! Now i dont know what that included? I thought you were just supoosed to give a donation?

2007-11-12 05:42:14 · 3 answers · asked by Me :) 2 in Weddings

I am so in love with my boyfriend, and I knwo he loves me, I have never dounted that in our relationship. Hes my best friend and my boyfriend.
My delema is that I just wnat him to do something special.We have kind of fell into a routne thing. I want him to just plan out a day and surprise me. Take the time out to plan something taht shows me how much he loves me. He tells me he loves me everyday and every chance he gets. I know he does. Hes one of those people that wouldnt say something if he didnt mean it at all.
Hes a very oblivious man and would never guess I felt this way unless I told him...thing is he thinks this stuff is dumb to feel. And then if I told him that i felt like this, it would be more me telling him to do it....omg help....i dont wana be needy but i want him to surprise me....HELP!

2007-11-12 05:41:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always said if I had a son I would name him after his father. Well my husband has a son with his exgirlfriend and he is named after my husband. I dont care for the ex naturally and in the past AI felt insecurities about her because she was my husbands first love and had his first 2 kids and his family always used to make such a big deal out of her and the fact that she had his first child which is the son. (the younger one is a girl) So we are having a son due in 3 months and been trying to come up with a name. Of course I wanted to name him after his father and I felt very hurt that I couldnt because his first son already carries his name. He got mad at me and said that he can have 2 sons with his name. I told him that it didnt matter if he had 2 sons with his name but if we named our son that it would only make me more insecure and feel even more second best to his ex girlfriend. He is still mad. I dont know why he cant understand. What should I do?

2007-11-12 05:40:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my ex dumped me 5 months ago and she got a new b/f not even 2 weeks later. We still talked for the 1st 10 days then i cut communication with her and the beginning of this week she starts sending me text msg that she wants to talk and I quote " about what happened to us" and I said not till Sunday, I figured if she got out what she needed to get out she would leave me alone. So we we're talking and I asked her if she was happy and she said that she thought she was but now doesn’t know. She also said that her mom asked her a few weeks ago that if she wasn’t in a relationship, if she would date me again ( she told me yesterday). She didn’t answer but said that I probably wouldn't go back out with HER. Then 2day while I’m at work she sent me a few txt messages
1st- hey, so what do u think about everything?..
Then I told her I didn’t know and asked her if her current b/f knew about this,
And she said
2nd - yes.. I told him all of it last night and that I didn’t know what to do about it, where do u stand with it all? What do u want and what do u want me to do?

And I told her that she needed to figure out what she wants
The she said what do u (me) want?
I said I don’t know and haven’t heard from her since.
I’m very confused and would like your opinions/ comments on this situation.. thanks

2007-11-12 05:39:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think when you see someone at school or work who is always by himself/herself and never has anyone to talk to? Always eats lunch by himself/herself, etc.

Would you go up to them and try to make friends? Would you continue your everday routine with your own friends and not think anything of it? Would you think that he or she was weird?

Be completely honest. There are a lot of lonely people in this world and not enough people who want to befriend them.

2007-11-12 05:37:57 · 13 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Friends

Do you think if the process to get a marraige license was harder that people would take marriage more seriously? (Like a 3 month marriage course before hand) What do you think? Something needs to change no one take marriage seriously anymore and divorce is too easy!

2007-11-12 05:37:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 05:37:54 · 9 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Singles & Dating

I had an affair with a married man 17 years ago and left the state shortly after that. 2 months later, I found out I was pregnant. I contacted the father after I had my son and told him but I'm not sure he believed me. There has been NO contact since then, he is not on the birth certificate and my son was given my then divorced last name with no name listed under the father's info. My son has always gone by my maiden name and now it has become a problem since he has tried to get his drivers licence and his name was never legally changed. What steps do I need to go through to get his last name legally changed?? I can't afford to pay an attorney and would like to take care of this myself.

2007-11-12 05:37:32 · 17 answers · asked by Mauri 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am married for a second time for 8 years. my oldest daughter is 16 and my youngest is 13 all from my previous marriage on thursday last wk my husband and oldest daughter got into an argument which went very verbal with my daughter cussing my husband and telling him he isnt her f*ing dad and then my husband got verbal then he got physicall like he was going to get the belt and spank her well i got in the middle and he got mad and left and has not been back since he says i do not decipline the girls enough and he demands respect which in my beleif it doesnt matter your age if you dont earn respcet you dont gt it in return.anyhow i do love my husband with all of my heart but i am torn in the middle by my kids telling me that if he comes back they are going to live with my mother and by him telling me that i need to make the kids respect him. other than the issue with my kids we have a pretty good mariage. should i just let him stay gone

2007-11-12 05:37:10 · 12 answers · asked by Scorpio_sting 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 05:37:04 · 28 answers · asked by missy H 2 in Singles & Dating

hi, ive just picked out my secret santa present, i picked the most hated girl in work. she belittles everyone and is not very appreciative. For her birthday she asked us all to give her the cash rather than club together and get a gift like we always do. anyway we have only ten pound to spend so i bought just pink from next perfume and a santa mug with a cuddly santa inside with sweets. is this ok? it came to ten pound.... ps... she asked for us all to keep receipts in case. ( dont agree with this)

2007-11-12 05:36:46 · 21 answers · asked by insatiable little yellow duckie 3 in Singles & Dating

we are both 18 and lost our virginity together. we agreed to separate 2 months ago. but now she is acting like a total s**g, and trying to rub my nose in it by doing it with lads i see regularly. what is the motivation behind this kind of behaviour?

2007-11-12 05:36:41 · 14 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Singles & Dating

I constantly hear people saying it was love at first sight, but it just doesn't make sense. How can you fall in love with somebody when you first caught eyes with that person? what is love? How do we know when were falling in love?

2007-11-12 05:36:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 05:36:03 · 55 answers · asked by stoner 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to call him and see him but I know it would be really wrong to do that to my boyfriend. He is the only man that I ever truly loved and I don't think that I could love another the same. I love my baby's father, but not in the same way. I was fine when I hadn't talked to him for almost a year, and now he calls me to say that he's in town and I can't get him out of my mind. I don't know what to do..When we were together he really hurt me bad, but I still love him.

2007-11-12 05:35:29 · 3 answers · asked by speedygonzalezlvr 2 in Singles & Dating

i went clubbin on friday.
after a few drinks. i became well..we all know what happens when u've had one or too many. :) lol
so i fancy this guy. and im alwayz clubbin with him
after the few drinks. i couldnt remember anything. all i know is i was with him the whole night. and at some point i told him i liked him and he smiled..laughed then said "i know"
what the eff??
i alwayz talk to him face to face and have convoz with him online
he's friendz tease me. which i dont find cool
i dunno. what should i do? i really do like him.

2007-11-12 05:34:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my 15 year old son has run away yet again, this time we pressed charges on him thinking this would teach him a lesson, much to my surprise csb was involved and charges are being put on us. he is adopted and runs to his bio family, we have loved and raised him since he was 2 years old.any i suggestion on how to protect ourselves is apreicated . thanks

2007-11-12 05:33:48 · 4 answers · asked by cynthia p 1 in Family