That's really up to you to decide. Personally I couldn't imagine wanting to wait. I lost my virginity when I was 13 and I've had a lot of great sexually experiences since that I'd never want to trade for anything. Honestly I don't get the "saving yourself" thing. It's not like you only get so many times. You can have sex as many times as you want. Why lose out now?
2007-11-13 05:58:22
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answered by Anonymous
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it really is as a lot as you. None human beings can inform you what's ideal for you, because none human beings will stay with the end results of your determination. many human beings do have sex before marriage, yet many human beings nonetheless wait. you want to come back to a decision what's necessary to you. Weigh the end results of waiting vs no longer waiting and attractiveness why you want to attempt this. If it really is basically to "fit in" because all of us else is doing it, i doesn't propose it. First, because no longer all of us does, and second because you'd be compromising your beliefs to adapt (not in any respect a good theory). If it really is because you've stumbled on someone you somewhat favor to be with, I nonetheless doesn't propose jumping right into a actual relationship. There ought to continuously be a deeper and extra significant connection than "this feels good," for my section.
2016-10-24 02:40:38
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answered by ? 4
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I havent lost my virginity and dont plan to until i get married.
It all depends on self respect and things.
I mean you only have it once.
After you lose it.
its gone forever.
Make sure that you think things through before you lose it
and that you dont do anything you may regret in the future.
I want my first time to be special with someone I love.
I dont know about anybody else in the world.
Be careful though if you choose to lose it before marriage and make sure you use protection.
Completely your choice as of when you want to lose it though.
2007-11-12 06:00:20
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answered by Oh so Confused? 2
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You shouldn't remain a virgin because you won't be good in bed when you get married. It takes practice. It's also the best time in your life when you are real young to have sex, and find out what you like.
2007-11-12 05:51:49
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answered by ? 5
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Let me say this in a nice way, you will be so glad that you kept you virginity until marriage it is so unbelievable. Really you do not want guys to think of you as "easy" and any other negative way. The majority of quality guys and men respect young ladies you respect themselves until marriage. I am telling you maintain your ladyhood and you will never regret it as long as you live. I can say I promise you this.
2007-11-12 05:51:05
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answered by Rooster 1972 5
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it all depends on your morals. most people do it for religious reasons or even the security factor, they dont want to lose it to someone who doesnt mean something
me, outta curiousity lost it when i was 16.
the guy acted like an asshole right after and booked it with his hit it and quit it mentalitly. he had a small dick anyways..... ha. if anything make sure the guy is really worth it.
2007-11-12 05:49:49
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answered by Anonymous
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yes if that is what you hart tells you but on the other hand you may not be compatible with your spouse and that would be bad but if you are a virgin and thy are a virgin you will not know that it is bad so it wont matter we cant tell you what to do follow your hart and soul
2007-11-12 05:50:19
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answered by irish_matt 7
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Please wait till you're married. Your virginity is a gift, and should be saved for the most special person in the world - your husband or wife.
That said: I did not wait, but wish with all my heart that I had.
2007-11-12 05:49:18
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answered by N L 6
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Its totally up to you in my opinion. i don't feel there is nothing wrong with you going either way. sex is a normal thing in todays society and really isn't looked down upon especially if you're an adult. but since you aren't married, wear protection for sure.
2007-11-12 05:50:26
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answered by Anonymous
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You do not have the willpower to wait until marriage so you might as well just get it over with.
2007-11-12 05:54:35
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answered by Wylie Dun 4
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