My girlfriend and I have a fantastic relationship everything is great. She confided in me that she would love to know what it is like to please a woman orally. How do I help her with this fantasy, or do I just leave it alone.
2007-11-12 06:55:35 · 12 answers · asked by iceman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would seriously leave it alone - maybe she is wondering that, but actually doing it is a whole different matter. And if you find someone for her to try it on, she might think you're suggesting a threesome or something, and get the hump. We're a complicated bunch... If she really wants to do it, let her find out on her own.
Besides - do you REALLY want her doing that? What if she enjoys it and ends things with you? Do you want to take that risk?
2007-11-12 07:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Amy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, can you handle it. If you would be jealous of it or feel like she may end up turning into an active bisexual or lesbian then you may want to steer clear. If you can handle it and the possibilities of her sexuality opening up on you then you just need to let it happen. If you guys want to turn it into a threesome then you both had better talk about it at length. When you think you have talked enough then do it all over again just to make sure. The thing is though that she may not want you involved in any of it and you will just have to sit there and let it happen. It is all up to you guys.
2007-11-12 15:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it as a fantasy man, anytime you involve a third party in the bedroom it very rarely ever works out.
2007-11-12 15:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What could you do to help her out? That's right, nothing. So you probably should just leave it alone.
Whatever you do, do not marry her. The only thing that is for sure about her is you will never be able to completely satisfy her.
Good luck.
2007-11-12 15:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone unless you want to lose her. Fantsies are just that, fantasies to dream about not something you necessarily do..
Good Luck
2007-11-12 15:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by mn lady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it as a fantasy, before you open Pandora's box!
2007-11-12 15:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by Bad_Kity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can try to suggest that you would like to be the man that can try to please her fantasy. And if she has a mean face on, laugh it off to make it look like a joke. Ha ha ha. It never hurts to try.
2007-11-12 14:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by dr. phillian here.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the opportunity ever arises you can tell her to go for it, but somethings are better left alone.
2007-11-12 15:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by judy b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah leave it becasue if you help her you could be helping her to leave. she might like pleasing another woman and want to do it all together and drop you. bad idea.
2007-11-12 16:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by cylenneh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it as a fantasy....
2007-11-12 14:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋