My boyfriend and I broke up on Monday. I'm not entirely sure why but he said we fought alot (we have been) and we tried too many times that was all and he couldn't even look or touch me. Anyways he is being completly immature! I saw him and he couldn't say hi or even look at me but proceeded to laugh and rub it in my face, how happy he was...or pretending. P.S. Things changed this summer after I went away to Canada for a month...also we are christians so he would not be sleeping around. So there is this girl, one of those annoying, overfriendly types. Facebook of course! She already has a picture with him as her default saying how much she loves him and how hott he is, and wrote a comment about the concert tomorrow...the concert she's driving 2 hours to see just with him...that i was going to suprise him with. However, he either hasn't been online or isn't replying to any of these things. She's rubbing it in, not him. What should I do, I want to be mature. I also want him back...
2007-11-12 04:35:23 · 4 answers · asked by DeliaS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know in my heart I don't want him back the way he's acting but I can't help it...it's a girl thing I loved him and I still do.
p.s. i want to text him, should i? just to say nice haircut, he chopped it all off
2007-11-12 04:35:45 · update #1
Of course you're hurting. This is a fresh wound and bound to hurt like all get out.
And I know you want him back - but he's gone. Live with it and move on. He did - awfully quickly I might add.
Sounds like he had her on the side long before the breakup.
As for his new bit of fluff? Well, of course she's rubbing it in. But she can only hurt you as much as you are willing to let her.
No. Move on darling. That's the Christian thing to do. Sure it hurts - but that's also part of life.
and when he comes back to you begging for forgiveness, forgive him. But don't get back together with him. Jesus says we should love even those who hurt us - but that doesn't mean you should marry them.
Move on - and I'm sure you'll find a good Christian man who appreciates a mature, kind, and forgiving young lady.
Your Ex should stay that way. It's his loss - not yours.
2007-11-12 04:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were in canada for a month? Okay, while you were gone she got him and he liked it. She's making a fool of herself by flaunting their relationship. If it was that groovy of a thing they wouldn't try so hard to prove it. You guys broke up on monday and now he has a new toy. Don't worry. It won't last. You go and do you. Don't stoop and embarass yourself by being foolish for a guy that doesn't want to be with you. You don't need the drama. Let them do whatever they want to and you don't acknowledge it. Ignore them. It will hurt because you care for him but baby girl keep it moving. Stay your cute self and next time you see him say hi if you want to and keep walking. He's looking for a reaction from you. He wants you to hurt because he is. He doesn't want that chick, he's using her to get to you. Don't let him.
2007-11-12 05:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by tequilanikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? He is now a free man, he can flirt with anyone he likes, as can you!
2007-11-12 04:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say move on. This comes from experience.
2007-11-12 04:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋