iam asking this beacuse im confused beacuse iam a virgin and for it to hurt scares me
2007-11-12 04:34:19 · 11 answers · asked by bre bre 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when it hurts so bad, why does it feel so good.
there is fine line between pain and pleasure when it comes to sex.
no pain, no gain.
But I suspect you are too young to be asking these questions.
Treasure your innocence and youth. Growing up too early is way way overrated.
2007-11-12 04:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by 6th Finger 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It hurts for some girls. But here's the thing to remember, that kind of pain goes away. It is a new muscle and hasn't been used too much before. It might be uncomfortable, but it might be fine. You just have to go slow. The more afraid you are, the weirder it will be. I remember worrying myself into a frenzy about the pain and when it came down to it, it was fine. In fact, it was so fine, I wanted to do it again the next day. If it is painful, that's why pain killers were invented.
2007-11-12 04:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jody 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It does hurt but only for a minute, actually less than a minute.
Once he is past the barrier, other than the stretching, it doesn't hurt anymore.
Don't let that scare you if you are ready for sex. Just think of all the non virgins, they went through it and it didn't kill them.
2007-11-12 04:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by justceleste 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know seeing as how I am a virgin and have no interest for that to change for a long time. Imagine how ou would feel emotionally.
2007-11-12 04:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by Hiro a Hero? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's different for everyone. For me, I didn't really feel any pain, and I didn't bleed at all.
Have your boyfriend go very slowly, and just try to relax. The more relaxed you are, the less discomfort you will feel.
2007-11-12 04:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yea when i first lost my virginity it was awful like I was being torn open, but the more you do it the less painful it will become & eventually it should start feeling good
2007-11-12 04:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am one who had no pain my first time as I never had a hymen to break. It was extremely awkward though. I really had little idea what I was doing. When it was done, my first thought was, "That's it?"
2007-11-12 04:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts and to an extent bleed, but the pain is erased by sweet sensations
2007-11-12 04:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really hurt! To some it does but not bad at all! Don't be scared sex is amazing! Your going to love it.
2007-11-12 04:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please wait, you can never regain your innocence! By the way, I`m a virgin, and OK with it.
2007-11-12 05:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋