There is this guy i'm interested in.
I would love to pursue a relationship with him
but some people have told me bad things about him
Such as, He's a player., only wants one thing. [sex]
I dont want to judge him
because i wouldn't want to be judge
how do i find out the truth?!
2007-11-12 03:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by Skye 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date him and find out. First hand experience is the only thing that will let you know the truth. Just don't get too close (don't give in to the pressure of having sex early on; if he wants you for you, he'll wait).
2007-11-12 03:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is to date him. However, you've been warned by other people. So be VERY careful with your feelings so you don't get hurt. If you think you can handle dating someone without falling in love for a while, then you should be okay. But falling in love with someone who only wants sex and doesn't care about you is only going to bring you a lot of hurt. Good luck!
2007-11-12 04:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by agrocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out who some of his best friends are, ask them about it, then talk to him about it. Be honest and tell him how you feel, if hes a good guy then he will be honest about it and let you know. Just dont get tooattached because then you can end up really hurt and ruin your love life.
2007-11-12 03:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Matt S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from past experience's listen to your friends but also if they all tell you the exact same thing them its most likely true but its your choice not others.
2007-11-12 04:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Brandon C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as him how he feels about you then ask some of his really good friends that he would tell them everything and ask them wat he said about you.
2007-11-12 03:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by tricia f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋