::this is kinda a repost,sorry::: everytime i go shopping for the past couple of weeks i see this guy who works there. i will be walking around, and i will feel eyes on me. i'll look up and i always see him watching me. sometimes its long stares, othertimes its quick glances. he doesnt "follow" me around like some guys, but if he happens to me nearby then he is looking. well i was there today, and i look up and there he is. so i tried to ignore him (because i dont like to stare at people). i had to walk passed him to get to something, he was in the process of taking his cart down the aisle when he just stops and watches me walk passed him (i could kinda see and feel him witht he corner of my eye) i look at him, and say hi, and all he does is look the other way. now when he sees me he tries to "sneak"glances rather then flat out staring. he doesnt appear to be shy (he doesnt look like a geek or nothing) is he crazy, or is it possible for normal guys to so afraid they're rude?
2007-11-12 04:22:08 · 39 answers · asked by HerR 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i dont want to have to find another store. i just left the last one i went to because i had a stalker there
2007-11-12 04:23:47 · update #1
i did ctach him looking down my shirt once
2007-11-12 04:38:18 · update #2
Hm...it sounds as if he likes you but he doesn't know how to strike up a conversation with you. But staring at you constantly is kind of creepy. Be careful.
2007-11-12 04:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by PURR GIRL TORI 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a shy boy. One day he'll get the nerve to say hello. Just keep shopping and speak when you see him. As long as he's not giving psycho stalker vibes, he's harmless. He thinks you're cute. If it becomes a problem, like him being on every aisle you're on, speak to the manager of the store. You don't want to get him in trouble but if his staring is making you feel uneasy you can put a stop to it. Good luck.
2007-11-12 04:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by tequilanikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very careful, he's is checking you out, no doubt.
Could be he is shy, scared or un-sure, or he is checking for any weakness you might have. I'am talking from a Protective point of view, (bodyguard) he might be a stalker! Go with you first impression, if he follows you home or you see him around were you live, you might have a problem. Contact the Police if you are unsure of what to do.
2007-11-12 04:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by J.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him in a way that he has to respond. Ask him a question with full eye contact. Make sure that you do this as friendly as you can and then see where it goes. If you speak to him more regularly he will either feel comfortable in talking to you and tell you what's up or he will avoid you and hopefully quit staring!
2007-11-12 04:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me. This guy stared at me all the time and would go out of his way to walk past me. Eventually after about two months of this he spoke and I found out he has a girlfriend. He liked me but he was not available so I guess he got his fun out of staring. lol
2007-11-12 04:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by templehoney2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take control. Go up to the guy and ask him point blank if he lost something, or why he stares at you so much. If he does not provide you with a reasonable answer report him to the store manager, believe me, the one thing the store would certainly not like is to have someone like that working for them and annoying customers.
2007-11-12 04:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by Karan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think he is crazy. Though he may not seem or even be shy, its always hard talking to someone you find attractive. Put yourself in his shoes. I don't know if you are outgoing or shy but isn't it always hard to talk to someone you like and you find yourself staring at them for a while? If it freaks you out, try to not go back as much.If you do, try talking to him. If not dating, you could make a new friend.
2007-11-12 04:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by Meeeee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks that you are an attractive woman but he wont talk to you because he is in a relationship.Then again some men feel like some woman are not approachable
2007-11-12 04:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he's not supposed to chat with the customers. You, however, could, uh, ask him how to find something if you want to get acquainted. That could also tell you whether he's a dangerous nut or a potential friend.
2007-11-12 04:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,
you are either very very attractive, or very very odd looking.
I would say.
IF he is looking cause he thinks your cute.
next time it happens.
say something sweet and cute and funny..
like.
You konw if you wanna see more of me all you have to do is introduce yourself.
unless of course he isnt attractive..
then either tell his boss.. hell probally get fired.
OR.
if you just want it to stop.
Say something rude. It will hurt his pride and he will stop liking you, You may still get a dirty look now and then.
but at least he wont be raping you with his eyes
2007-11-12 04:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by Matthew David 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋