Family & Relationships - 2 November 2007

I can’t talk to my husband about anything unless it’s convenient for him. No matter how nice I try to approach him, it’s never a good time. He’s either watching the football game, playing the Playstation, on the computer or getting ready to do something else. When I tell him we have to pay a bill by a certain date he’ll hold his head down, roll his eyes, sigh and say “We’re never gonna have any money”. Either that or he’ll lightly throw whatever is in reach (he’s recently started doing that). I guess that’s supposed to scare me or something. Then when I try to talk to him he won’t respond. He’ll sit there like I’m not saying a word. I end up leaving the room in tears because he won’t talk to me. All he thinks about is playing (literally playing with me like a kid), joking around and going out for a night on the town to have fun.

2007-11-02 02:07:21 · 19 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Florida but I am getting married in San Franciso, California. Do I need to get my marriage license in California?

2007-11-02 01:58:09 · 5 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughters friend has a daughter getting married. My daughter ask me to go with her to the wedding as she had no one to go with. Should I get the bride a gift?

2007-11-02 01:54:54 · 18 answers · asked by melodi1 6 in Weddings

Ive been with her about a year now, she is in her thrid year of University and obviously has alot of work. I Dont get to see her often and she seems to be giving me the cold shoulder now aswell. Doesnt seem like she wants to talk to me at all and when she does, its usally me tring to speak to her and her giving one word answers and has no interest in me at all. It was about last May where she left me for another guy and then came back to me.We had a great summer together and i took her on hoilday with all the money i had just before she left for Uni. 4 weeks later, shes flirting with other guys, i think she might have done somthing already. Im worried sick that she is going to leave me any day now, with some crap excuse. The thoughts plague my mind, thats why i think im paranoid. Ive asked her already if she is interested in other guys and she says im gettin it from no where but ive been shown some things.So im at home going crazy, while she doesnt seem to give a crap anymore. (repost)

2007-11-02 01:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she married at 18. He was 24.
she does his laundry. irons his clothes. sets his bath water for him and cleans it when he is finshed. She works two jobs to help suppor the two children. He works partime and visits his friends
When he wants her to entertain him she drops everything and does whatever he wants.
He says shes a real woman/
She gives him all of her paycheck to do as he pleases. Often she borrows to keep the bills paid and to keep up the car she bought him.
She drives the car whenever he thinks she should. She says she loves him
He never responds but demands entertsainment instantly
Finally, when he feels lonely he asks her to invite her female adult cousins to chat.
They both are americans and for generations their parents and foreparents have been Americans
I tell her she is not in a marriage. She says she loves him and to mind my business. I dont say anything anymore.. What do you think? oh, He convinced her that all relationships are like this married 12 years

2007-11-02 01:50:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just in brief how they differ or they should differ

2007-11-02 01:48:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-02 01:45:44 · 11 answers · asked by LIS 1 in Singles & Dating

(ex- wives, ex-husbands, ex-girlfriends or ex-boyfriends)

2007-11-02 01:44:14 · 10 answers · asked by Fancy You 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey All,

I Had a conversation with my wife about metting a Co-Worker after Work for a Drink at a local Restaurant/Bar. She works 4pm till Midnight so I assumed she would come home around 1:30-2am because that is when it closed down. I was fine with this because i met the guy and he seamed cool. Well the night of she in at 4am and told me she lost track of time and it was a mistake. 4 days later i found out through her because we got into an argument about something that she mutually went back to his house because he was still upset about breaking up with his girlfriend now she swears "nothing happened" and she has never given me a dilema like this before.....So my ? is How do you find out and believe the truth and move past it? and She still wants to go out to the bar with these guys after work but we made a small schedule such as she will have one drink and come home or will call if she is running behind stuff like that .....Does it work? Any Real Advice is appreciated

TY Hall

2007-11-02 01:40:40 · 27 answers · asked by Hall0418 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that I really like and we have gotten to know each other in the past week. And we were talking last night and he was telling me how glad he was he met me and that I give the best hugs and that he wants to hang out sometime. He KNOW'S that I like him I have told him twice because he asked me twice. So I naturally asked him if he liked me. His response:
"hmmm I don't think I can tell you."
and then I get another message from him with the subject "well dear" and it seems like he likes me. But his best friend is my ex- and the guy is having a fit about us being friends and calling me a slut and a bunch of crap. Why won't he tell me? and do you think he likes me?

2007-11-02 01:39:31 · 10 answers · asked by limestuff45 2 in Singles & Dating

If it's a bad thing .. how to avoid it ??

2007-11-02 01:37:31 · 9 answers · asked by Maria 6 in Marriage & Divorce

we where at a nightclub i was drunk , she went to the loo and when she came out she saw me kissing her friend, how do i tell her i am sorry ,and i did not mean to do it

2007-11-02 01:35:21 · 24 answers · asked by dazza 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 01:34:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I sent a message to a radio dj on face book saying how are you do you want to chat did I do the rong thing by sending a message like that to a radio dj?

2007-11-02 01:33:37 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 01:33:05 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Everytime I go out with my girl she always talks about her exboy who is my close freind.I hate it and I always tell her not to do that, but I have found out that they are going out behind my back.I like them both cause 1 is a freind and the other is my girlfreind and my feelings for her are nolonger as strong as they used to be.What can I do cause I cant talk to them.

2007-11-02 01:31:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

X..I want to go back to America ok? See you next time. Goodbye!

2007-11-02 01:30:20 · 11 answers · asked by always4him 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been married 18 yrs. 3yrs ago i caught my husband talking about sex online esp about BDSM. I was disturbed by this. Finally I spoke to my husband last night that I wanted out of this marriage it is not making me happy. It not just the sex, it him watching sports all day or playing tennis all day. She said we have known each other for so long that passion dies, maybe it does die but don't you usually desire each other or give hugs to each other? Even after our little talk last night he still put on the tv today during the meals and is out playing tennis? What is wrong? Any one who is married do you still feel passion for each other, I want to be married to someone who is my best friend I don't think passion dies even if you have known someone for a long time. In need of some help.

2007-11-02 01:22:51 · 12 answers · asked by tp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

once i was at university where many unknown people are waiting for giving their exams.......
2 guys asked me something about the lessons and i answered them just the same thing....
the one treats me as i were a waste
the other say ''you are an angel thank you!'


what i am??????
i think that our image has to do with the point of you of the others..........
what do you think about that?

2007-11-02 01:22:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend is getting married and her mother us going to be a braidesmaid! I thought this kind of werid! I thought the moms has there own part in the wedding! Maybe I am wrong...Let me know your thoughts!

2007-11-02 01:20:10 · 25 answers · asked by ~Yoli~ 1 in Weddings

If someone tells you that you have an artistic face?
Then they add that they think you have a talent for painting. What does this mean? Can you tell from a person's face that they are creative?

2007-11-02 01:20:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 01:17:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was born in India though I am not Indian. I was raised in a very introverted sort of an atmosphere. I was never ever encouraged to go out and socialize and now my family moved to Germany and now my parents suddenly changed their view of things. They suddenly want me to go out and socialise and they want me to open up. I have spent 14 years as an introvert and now suddenly they are like ordering me to be an extrovert. I have been trying my level best. I joined debate club, I have made quite a few friends and my grades are OK too. But they want me to be something more than that. They keep complaining about my gardes too. I am getting like A- in everything and still they want more. They are just not ready to believe that I am working hard enough. I am so screwed. I am really going to break at one point.

2007-11-02 01:14:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It seemed life would be easier?

2007-11-02 01:13:24 · 13 answers · asked by Apollonia23 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 01:12:23 · 6 answers · asked by Holly H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 01:10:56 · 36 answers · asked by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 in Friends

Asking for a friend:

She bidded and won a wedding gown on ebay that if anything is wrong with it she can send it back

The dress she sees now on there is "prettier" than the first one but you cannot return it at all if something is wrong or whatever.

What would you do?
(She done knows about all that contract bidding)
She is wandering would you pick one where you could send it back (in case something happens) or one that is so beautiful but you can return it?

2007-11-02 01:04:14 · 5 answers · asked by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 in Weddings

I have a new lover and we've been together sexually 3 times. I am 40 and he is 52. I noticed the first time we just fooled around and he did not have an erection. I asked him about it and he told me something I can't remeber. Then the first time we went all the way with sex and oral and every thing... I noticed his erection was up then down... then he never had a orgrasim. The second time he did... but the erection was up and down. Then the 3rd time... nothing. I'm starting to think it's me and he's not really turned on and I did ask him but he said it's not me. If anyone has a suggestion I would appreciate it. Thank you.

2007-11-02 00:56:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife has been separated from me for 5 months now. we split up because she out of the blue after 7 months of marriage told me that i was "not in her heart anymore", she "couldn't be intimate with me anymore", that "she didn't know if she wanted to be married to me anymore". long story short i tried to work it out, she didn't want to. I even tried for 3 months after the separation, she did not want to. NOW the last month she wants to, is no longer mean and nasty to me or telling me she wants a divorce like she told me all summer. I broke all contact with her 6 weeks ago then a week after I was done, now she wants to get back with me. WHY and what gives?

2007-11-02 00:52:06 · 20 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, not to brag or anything but I am really pretty and popular. Many guys come up to me and ask me to be his girlfriend. I couldnt say anything but "i'll think about it.". But what I really mean is "no." I am emo and I wanna stay single. I am so miserable because sometimes I feel a litlle "handicapped" around them because or example, I was bringing one light notebook and this guy tells me "I'll bring that for you" even if I didnt ask. How do I reject them? how???

2007-11-02 00:43:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating