we where at a nightclub i was drunk , she went to the loo and when she came out she saw me kissing her friend, how do i tell her i am sorry ,and i did not mean to do it
2007-11-02 01:35:21 · 24 answers · asked by dazza 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my hair is haifway down my back
2007-11-02 01:45:43 · update #1
buy her something nice
2007-11-02 10:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by suzywong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Don't know your age but you sound 18-24 and very foolish.
Phone your lovely g/f apologise, grovel and i mean reallyyyyy
grovel , really putyourself down [ eat humble pie] buy her flowers, omg a massive bunch from a florist and don't just say sorry on the card this is major man , i have never done any stuff like this nor never would !!!
MAYBE , you meant to kiss this girl, if not try and apologise
to the girl and say i was a fool , i did not know what i was doing etc, but if she is one of these girls who finds it hard to forgive in situations like this well i suggest when going out
1, you drink less. and 2, Learn from this. Good Luck.
2007-11-02 03:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Red,Green and Blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what does you hair being halfway down your back have to do with anything?
Second, saying "I was drunk" just makes you sound irresponsible. That's not an excuse.
AND...... you did it when she went away, so obviously you being drunk didn't mean that much because you waited for her to leave you two alone, right? So if it was just because you were drunk, it would've happened when she was around.
That was shady and extremely wrong.
GOOD LUCK if you think she's gonna forgive you.
Be a man, and take responsibility for what you did.
2007-11-02 01:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by pd♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly there is no way to say sorry. Even if she forgives u, she will never forget this. And honestly thats soo triflin(wrong) but Im not here to judge only here to advise. So I think the best thing to do is be a man admit your faults and understand where she is coming from. Put yourself in her shoes, how would u feel if u saw her kissing ya friend ?ya pride probly would'nt let u get pass that.
2007-11-02 01:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Divalicious;-p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude you were drunk and you never knew she was not on the dance floor. Asshole you thought you were kissing her till she actually came from the loo and you woke up.. cmon man cook some sentimental story. YOU WERE DRUNK AND THINKING ABOUT HER MAN. tell her.
2007-11-02 06:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by monty k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH PLEASE. if you did,nt mean to than why did you . my guy did this to me once and i could,nt believe it ,it crushed me inside just the thought of him doing this and with my friend obviously it ruined my friendship with her and i never wanted her around again do to the fact that it takes two and she was just as guilty, if you did,nt get caught would you of still felt guilty. the only way to fix this now is to show her you really love her give her flowers bring her out more tell her you were STUPID. and never never do it again it took me three years to trust my boyfriend again it makes a person feel so put down when the person they love should only have eyes for them.and no one else. suck up big time and don't get mad at her if she lashes out at you . just deal with it . good luck. and please don't make the mistake again or you will lose her for good.
2007-11-02 01:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell her that your sorry but telling her that you didn't mean to do it might be difficult. Its not like kissing someone happens accidentally you actually think about it before you do it and i personally don't think your sorry for kissing her friend i think your just sorry you got caught.
Alcohol is not and excuse!!
2007-11-02 01:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have never got caught! My Imaginary friend has been kissing your girlfriend for years and you had no idea!
2016-04-02 00:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol is no excuse. I would not take you back if I were her. Actions speak louder than words. How did you not mean to do it? Did you accidentally fall on her, and your mouths accidentally lined up, and then your tongue accidentally fell in hers? If you are old enough to be in a relationship, you are old enough to deal with the consequences and have control over your urges.
2007-11-02 01:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by mrr86 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
by saying "I'm sorry I was drunk. I'm a fool."
and promise (and keep it) to not get as drunk so you can stay in charge of your mind
All the best
Added: how is her friend making it up to her?!
2007-11-02 01:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mean to do it? Well, tell her the truth then. Tell her how you were just walking along and stumbled and started falling, and luckily her friend was there to catch your lips with hers and saved you from a nasty, and embarrassing fall.
2007-11-02 01:44:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋