Family & Relationships - 2 November 2007

I had it on the nightstand. Now my girlfriend is furious and said I disrespected her to do that.
Do you feel I was wrong?

2007-11-02 04:30:20 · 12 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

Your girlfriend handcuffs you completely naked to the bed, both hands and feet. She blindfolds you and brings along one of her male friends to have sex with you. You are being kissed by the guy and not by your girlfriend. You can't tell that he is having sex with you because your girlfriend has blindfolded you, you can't see who is really on top of you.

2007-11-02 04:29:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i used to back in the days when i was younger but once i got older (17) i just quit. and me getting caught in mississippi didnt help. i was visiting relatives! my granny at that lol! but i still kept stealing.hahahaha but anyways i was just wondering about other people!

2007-11-02 04:26:32 · 34 answers · asked by msblack23 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I wrote down all the gifts and who got them for us on a piece of paper. I've already sent out thank you cards to anyone who sent us gifts before the wedding but not for the wedding itself. Anyway, we lost the list with the names on it so I have no idea who sent me what or who sent me anything for that matter.

I waited to send out the thank yous because I wanted to wait on pictures from the wedding to get here first so I could put a wallet picture of us in the Thank You's. But since it has been two weeks since we wrote the names down and I am just getting the pictures in - I have misplaced it.

What should I do?

2007-11-02 04:25:38 · 12 answers · asked by Bubblelips 4 in Weddings

My boyfriend is addicted to the stupid computer game, world of warcraft. he plays it all the time. he does hang out with me, yes, but whenever i go over there, he inevitably ends up starting to play the game. i usually end up falling asleep to the sounds of him playing it. and he says he doesnt play it that much! its just annoying. while yes, he does still take some time to be with me, whenever we are at his apt he is playing that game. whenever im not with him, at any given time ill ask him what hes doing, and of course its WoW. is there anything wrong with this picture? isnt it bad when a couple starts to fight, over a stupid GAME!?!? am i just being a B****? does anyone else out there have this problem...

2007-11-02 04:23:13 · 8 answers · asked by She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named 3 in Singles & Dating

.... and she flirts back. And neither of them know you like him, as you're too scared to say anything because you're insecure and worried he'll feel disgusted

2007-11-02 04:20:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are having a hard time the last few weeks. I would like for everyone to keep us in mind, please if you have any kind of faith please keep us in those thoughts and prayers. My spouse will go into surgery on Monday November 5th. We need all of the support you can give to us!

Thanks,

Rags37:):)

2007-11-02 04:17:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was being a little noisy sister, and went through my sisters messages on MySpace, and noticed that "Shes NOT a virgin anymore" and it really shocked me for some reason. I always saw my sister as a virgin, but now shes not, and her and my mom are extremely close, they tell eachother almost everything, do you think my mom knows? My mom loves her boyfriend, hes really nice, and he sleeps over almost everyday. and I wanna tell my mom shes not a virgin, but i have a feeling she knows already, should I get into this? or mind my own buissness? They've been dating for like a little over a year, and shes 16.....Idk im more in shock than anything, but idk why im making a big deal out of it, what should I do? how can i just deal with it? (it's not jealousy)

2007-11-02 04:16:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'am 29 and i get treated like a child in the family. My dads had 3 strokes but i'am getting sick and tired of him treating me like a little boy i owe 6grand to barclaycard and 6grand to him. i feel in a traped from becoming a man cause he makes me feel like a child i wish i could leave but with no money dosent help. Does any one have any suggestions to help me out?

2007-11-02 04:13:41 · 18 answers · asked by james c 1 in Family

2007-11-02 04:09:44 · 30 answers · asked by Serengetti 3 in Marriage & Divorce

its very early in the relationship but im unsure as to where we stand. i met him at a party and since then we've been hooking up on the weekends (3 times thus far - no sex). hes very sweet and respectful but due to the fact that hes gorgeous and older and has a lot of school work -> its VERY possible this is JUST a hookup. i love hanging out with him just as friends (i don't just go to hook up wit him, we hang out a lot as friends before we make out) and i worry that if i make this awkward and start scaring him with thoughts of a serious relationship he'll probly say 'im not looking for that rite now' and then we'll probly not hang out as friends anymore - just cuz it'll be awkward. how can i find out where we stand and wat he wants without putting him on the spot and making him think im ready for some serious relationship. i know they say the girl should never ask the guy about this cuz it scares him away.. what should i do to figure out where we stand and what he wants out of this?

2007-11-02 04:07:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 04:07:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

something non-religious as well, please

thanks

2007-11-02 04:06:46 · 5 answers · asked by Ember Halo 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister is getting married in february. our parents are divorced and my dad is in a great situation, very financially comfortable but with a new family and raising his wife's kids. my sister has all her deposits due soon for her wedding and had to ask our dad if he was contributing as he has said nothing about it so far. he said he has too much tied up in his business and family to contribute. she figures he is being cheap and doesn't care. they are now not speaking because she feels that since he never paid child support and was a bad father when she was young...he owes her. she is saying she is not inviting him to the wedding. she wants advice from me.........i am torn between the two of them. should she still invite my dad even if he says he won't pay and doesn't care?

2007-11-02 04:00:45 · 21 answers · asked by Mary May 4 in Weddings

I get together with my wife's family three or four times a year for a Holiday get together. One of my sisters has a husband who does not socialize with anyone. He will talk to his son and daughter and exchanges a few words with his wife, but will not reply when anyone in the extended family tries to engage him in conversation. If we attempt to ask him a question he will just have a pained expression and turn away.

No one ever talks about him, so I do not know what the rest of the extended family thinks. I find it real odd. He is a fairly successful person at work and I understand he has a number of close friends.

Is this common, do you have people in your extended family who you see all the time but you have never had a conversation with?

2007-11-02 03:57:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-02 03:56:49 · 22 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Singles & Dating

Dont we all Behave the way we
Dress , the way we look ?

If we make our personality like a
Goat / cow / buffalo - Meak ....we will behfave meak.....

If we make our personality like LION ...
we will behave ...like Lion -Strong , Royal , powerful

Now My question is
Do you want your man to be

Weak like Cows and goats or
Strong like LION ...

As God has Created Man like

Do u want God Made Man or
Do u want Barbar Made Man ??

Do u want Ur father to be Strong ? or weak ?
Do u want Ur brother to be Strong or weak ?
Do u want Ur Husband to be Strong or Weak ?

Iam perfectly fine .........
this is a serious Question

As Globally we face threat
from every corner of the world

and we all have to be strong and Not weak

UR comments?

2007-11-02 03:54:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or would u feel insecure he might leave u enventually for someone younger?

2007-11-02 03:53:43 · 6 answers · asked by amygrl 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, so my husband use to drink a LOT. he would have blackouts and show all the symptoms of an alcoholic (losing time at work, being violent, forgetting everything that happened, etc). So I left and was heartbroken. I love him more than life. When we were seperated he had sex with someone else while he was really drunk, so I filed divorce papers.
Well he hit rock bottom, begged me to come back and has been a good husband to me. Well, last night he got drunk again. And not just drunk, wasted glazed-over eyes puking guts out yelling angry drunk.
This morning he says he doesn't remember anything. He said he's sorry (but more like a coaxed it out of him sorry). But he made the comment that its not the end of the world and that I need to just calm down and we can talk about it tonight.

I love him so much... but I can't do this anymore... :( any advice?

2007-11-02 03:51:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love my babys dad but he has another life now but everytime we see each other we cant keep our hands off we have a baby so we have to see one another i really love having sex with him but i want to stop because its keepin the feelings between us

2007-11-02 03:43:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

real men

2007-11-02 03:40:54 · 4 answers · asked by 5050 1 in Singles & Dating

16
female
likes all kinds of music (exept classical, country and rap)
green eyes
dark brown hair
loves people and makings friends
gets bored easily (hence why i'm here)
loves going out but ends up staying in

do i seem annoying?

2007-11-02 03:40:48 · 9 answers · asked by bumblebees666 1 in Singles & Dating

I do karate and I am an instructor's assistant. So, like a year ago a guy came in and started learning with us but only recently I started teaching him like 6 mos. ago one on one even though Iv'e known him this whole time. Anyway, this guy is really nice, but kindof delayed a little, lifewise, NOT mentally. Like he still has a really low-paying job, not married, lives with parents, etc. Anyway, but he's been really friendly to me over the past few months. Like he holds doors open for me and offers me rides (I don't), and he always wants to be my partner at karate, and he will come over and hit me playfully, and like flex his arms and tells me to feel them. I don't mind at all, I just think he's kindof old to be playing like that with a 15 year old. Anyway, do you think this guy has a crush on me? Please tell me anything you think I should know. Oh and its not like everyone's mean to him so he warms up to me, everyone is nice to everyone there. And he's never talked about a GF. Thanks!

2007-11-02 03:39:26 · 27 answers · asked by somebody 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband & i need some help... we aren't communicating well & things are spiralling out of control.

i want to go to a counsellor, but he refuses to go to "a stranger that doesn't care because they'll get paid either way, with money we don't have".... he was forced to do counselling as a kid & apparently didn't get anything out of it. i had counselling in college & got some tremendous help, myself.

so he suggested we talk to his dad. which makes me a bit uncomfy (i'd rather talk to a complete [&neutral] stranger that i don't have to see in any other circumstance, ya know?). I'm sure his dad won't totally take his side or anything like that... he's a cool guy & he likes me a lot. it's just the embarassment issue.... (and it kinda annoys me that he gets mad if i talk to my bff about our problems, but he talks to his dad about them & wants us both to.)

SO, should i suck it up, & grab this opportunity to do *something* that might help? do you think it *would* help??

2007-11-02 03:37:05 · 40 answers · asked by Ember Halo 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering how it all works. How do they determine who gets him for how long? The father was charged with domestic violence last year. Does that hurt his chances? And I have no record. He only asks to see him like 1 time a month and he usually asks like 10 minutes before he wants to visit. I told him to ask the day before so I am prepared and not busy. But he is dumb and cant get it throught his head. Unless he trying to just make it seem like I dont let him see the baby. I have told him a bunch of times he can see the baby whenever he wants just let me know ahead of time. Someone help me please...im going crazy thinking the father is going to be the main parent. He doesnt deserve it. I only want him to have supervised visits, because of his temper.

2007-11-02 03:32:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, so here's my problem. I am completely mad about this guy. He is a great guy. He put my kids in private school, we have a house together, I make good money, I am beautiful, we have been together for 10 years, and he has not popped the question. We talk about getting married, more often then not, supposedly in 2008, but I am not sure if he is just yanking my chain. He hasn't officially asked me, he just says we will get married in 2008. I don't want to keep waisting my time. Let me know what you think.

2007-11-02 03:31:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when she says "whenever you see me you say that you want me back and I tell u it dont mean jack no it dont mean jack" ........................it dont mean jack???? what does it mean???

2007-11-02 03:24:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been single for nearly a year now and I'm fed up with it an really desperate how can i get a boyfriend really quick ??

2007-11-02 03:21:32 · 8 answers · asked by phoebe n 1 in Singles & Dating

IM FREAKY

2007-11-02 03:19:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got married 4 weeks ago, and even though I had cold feet before walking down the isle, I must tell you that this is the best feeling in the world! I'm glad to come home to someone who loves me for me, glad to be able to cook for my hubby, and grateful to have someone love me unconditionally and take care of me...

do you believe some people when they say the "newlywed" gushy feeling will go away, and that after the first couple months, it's all downhill?

I know our entire life won't be all 'peaches and cream', but no matter how many times you fight, get on eachother's nerves, and sometimes all around hate eachother's guts, the fact that you are committed and have such a deep bond with someone means more than some hard times (which you know you can get through - why else would you get married!?!)

2007-11-02 03:19:11 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce