Family & Relationships - 2 November 2007

I sent a message to a radio dj on face book saying how are you do you want to chat. was I rong for doing that?

2007-11-02 03:17:05 · 3 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The head roommate at my house kinda runs the show, he tells people to clean up their **** all the time, while leaving his own messes out. He's so high most of the time it's amazing he can talk, he ignors everyone else, and he and another roommate seem to get along much better and they always make fun of me for whatever they can find (the way I enter rooms yesterday). I really don't care about that stuff, but this little bastard is such a trip I can't tell if he's just being him or if he hates me.

When we were drunk wednesday I told him we should go up to a-basin this weekend, he said wait till more mountains open. Yesterday he found out keystone opens today and txt me, I said are you going? He said ya, but never invited me, and even told the other roommate he was pissed that the other roommate couldn't go in front of me.

What do you guys think, is this guy just a general *** or does he hate me?
(i'm 20, both of the other guys are 24) I know it's not much to go on.

2007-11-02 03:14:57 · 5 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Friends

Like what qualities do stuck up people have and if someone calls you stuck up and youre not, you just have looks and are rich then why would they say that?

2007-11-02 03:13:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi everyone,

I am pregnant ( 2nd month) and I want to go abroad to visit my family. My husband who is not able to travel with me wants his mum to go with me. When I told my family they did not like the idea, they are looking forward to my visit which will last for a month. My family asked me to try to avoid bringing his mum with me. How can I manage this situation. How can i tell my husband without hurting his feelings. His mum is very special to him and I don't want him to realise that she is not welcome.
I am looking forward to booking my ticket and fly home, pls help me solve this.

BIG THANK YOU

2007-11-02 03:10:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

together 7 years.

2007-11-02 03:09:07 · 11 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Singles & Dating

I know there are too many questions like '' Does like me?''...or '' will he call me?''...theres a lot! But I guess it just proves how '' the game'' ( How I hate that game) Is complicated and doesn't make ANY sense to ANYBODY. To get to my question....There is a man that I felt very confident about giving my number to...so I did....Wednesday......(Today=Friday)....and ever since I gave him my number my gut feeling tells me he won't call....Darn gut feeling....Is my gut feeling right? How long is too long to expect a phone call? What do you do when you face rejection?

2007-11-02 03:06:35 · 6 answers · asked by SolarSoul 4 in Singles & Dating

someone who stands people up just cause they dont feel like it. Like they plans with someone. The person comes in from another state and they stand them up and refuse to see them or talk to them. They paid money for hotel, expenses, travel and the person stood them up. Also they rarely answer your calls. What kind of person is this?

2007-11-02 03:05:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-02 03:03:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know if anyone else has these issues or not but some feedback would be great. My mother-in-law never wants to spend quality time with us or our son. This is her very first grandchild and shes even an elementary school principal. She just always makes excuses to never see him and if she does its maybe once a month for a few hours with us present. Also if we ask to babysit ,which we rarely do and we havent gone out my husband and i in 6 months, she always says no shes busy going here or there or she'll go and ask my sis in law. it just aggrevates me because if i wanted to ask her i would! Is this normal behavior for a grandmother? my mom lives 4 hours away and i know shed be kidnapping our kid every chance she got because she does it when we visit her. I mean I don't know if i should approach her and mention it because it bothers me but my husband says shes missing out oh well. i mean grandpa is so involved but grandma is MIA. im open to suggestions so plz give me some!

2007-11-02 03:03:40 · 6 answers · asked by deftoneschik42o 2 in Family

Call me old fashioned, but I think that when a guy puts the moves on the girl, he should do so slowly and respectfully.

I've hung out with a guy 3 times so far. I'm coming off of a bad relationship and I explained to him, I wasn't ready for anything...I'm still very hurt and trying to mend myself...

We watched a movie the last time we hung out. He kissed me. Which was fine. But he kissed me and then asked if I had a condom. I kind of shot him a look..like..."There's no chance we're going to have sex." And he proceeded to try to take off my shirt. I stopped that. And he tried for my pants. Not once, but twice.

I'm not going to lie, I felt a bit offended. I'm 23 so maybe it's not that big of a deal. But it is to me. I was kind of into him until this happened. I guess I just expect a guy to be respectful, gentle, and slow with me. I didn't feel that at all with him. And now, I don't really want to see him again. Am I making too big of a deal of this?

2007-11-02 03:03:36 · 18 answers · asked by autumn 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 03:01:57 · 18 answers · asked by rahim s 1 in Friends

I've divorced and started dating again. Of course since I'm divorced and have 2 children, i really don't have a ton of money to spread around. it's pretty scarce like a single mom's cash flow. problem is i meet these single moms or divorced women and it seems they're looking for another dad for their kid or want some guy that has all this money to do stuff to help take care of their kid(s). it seems they're unrealistic in their dating and it's like they're holding out for Mr. wonderful with no baggage and tons of cash when they have their own baggage. what's the most important thing a single mom looks for or even an older woman that's been through a divorce. I think a lot of divorced people think the grass is greener and spend their life looking for something they'll never get and regret getting divorced (it wasn't my choice to get divorced). then these women wonder why they can't find a good man? it boggles my mind sometimes.

2007-11-02 03:01:35 · 15 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is to pay the first $250 per child per calendar year. She won't do this and I don't want the doctors coming after me when it's court ordered she is to do this.

2007-11-02 02:56:39 · 16 answers · asked by deehops 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad is threatening to kick me out because he doesnt agree with me dating a 24 yr old guy...he is trying to kick me out to go live with either my mom or my grandma (one is in iowa the other in west virginia) so i would be out of state but if my grandma is my legal guardian can she legally let me move out of HER house and let me live with whom i choose?

2007-11-02 02:53:37 · 11 answers · asked by deliaisrad 1 in Family

Ok the details are like this. This is a girl I had a crush on in the 6th grade but of course never revealed it although she was always pretty friendly with me. I didint see her for another two years until the 8th grade but only briefly. Now Im nearing the end of the 10th grade, and the formal came up. One of my friends asked her through a text message to come to the formal, 4 days no reply so I asked her instead and she said yes! (over the phone)

Obviously I was so happy afterwards, but i now realise its been 2 years since Ive seen her. Ive got her myspace and everything and shes got mine, but I wanna meet her. Im thinking of asking her to the mall then to watch a movie or something, discuss things over lunch or something. Im also gonna ask her friend little things she likes so I can buy a present maybe?

Please gimme some advice, I know to act myself and everything, but please give me more indepth things. I think she had a BF already, but this is my first date lol. Help in anyway ty

2007-11-02 02:53:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have to kids not his, but he sais he was a virgin when he married me and he doesnt want to waste his life with me.

2007-11-02 02:51:49 · 31 answers · asked by Lady D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The length of time since the relationship has ended is not, in my mind, long enough to move on and start dating again. But apparantly he has no problem doing just that. I find it insulting that he started dating right away, and feel like it kind of degrades the relationship that we did have, but I don't want to turn into one of those psycho ex-girlfriends. How would you handle this situation?

2007-11-02 02:44:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 02:41:07 · 14 answers · asked by LA 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend and im actually a really responsible person and they have no reason not to trust me. But they wont let me go to the movies with him. He's not a bad guy. My parents have met him and they like him. Anyone know why they might be doing this?

2007-11-02 02:28:39 · 17 answers · asked by blondiebabe4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

and self confident , but it is not always in my hands. can anyone help me ...

2007-11-02 02:27:44 · 12 answers · asked by halaz2005 1 in Singles & Dating

we were sleeping together for 18 months, never discussed commitment but I assumed that since we are " involved" and since it has been this long the man would feel some level of commitment to a woman. I found out that he was looking online and meeting other women. I loved this man and now my word has turned upside down. Could not sleep and eat for 3 days. I broke up with him and asked to never contact me again. Now, 1 months later I feel numb inside and trying to move on with my life. ..I received an unexpected email from him. He said he wants to talk. I DO NOT want to see him but my friends tell me to go and see what he is gonna say.
I'm 36, he is 47and divorced twice.
Should I go and listen to his BS tell him one more time how I feel and how much he hurt me or just to email him back and say that I do not want to see him anymore ?
I cannot forgive him.

2007-11-02 02:27:21 · 9 answers · asked by L. L 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday it was a very windy day and many of my neighbor's thongs, or bikinis flew into my backyard along with a shirt of hers.
My problem is that I feel ok to give her back her shirt but feel really wierd in going to her house>>>ringing the bell>>> and them giveing her 4 thongs back.
I am 24 but am still a little bit shy when talking to girls, and cant even think about handing her the thongs...
I picked up one and sniffed it and it seems they are clean, so it might be newly washed laundry.
They are still in my backyard, but I think that she might not be able to see them through her backyard...

WHAT SHOULD I DO ??? :-(

2007-11-02 02:25:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one night, my crush and I got kinda drunk and flirted(more so me, he does this thing where he has 2 drinks and then "pretends" to be drunk) he kept tryin 2 subtlely touch me. our friends encouraged us because they knew I liked him and when i said he doesnt like me they all said i think he does. The people there that night meddled in the situation, pestering him about me afterwards and called him oblivious. my friend who is close with him (and is NOT lying) said "he said he doesnt have feelings 4 for, the pestering didnt help a huge amount." Im shocked he doesnt like me because after that night when I randomly left he left me 2 voicemails, one saying "hope u got back 2 your room OK, ill IM you tomorrow" and he did IM me right away the next morning, and he asked me questions. he was sober while doing these things. He didn’t tell his friends he did this and my friends response to this was “hes stupid trust me, didn’t mean anything by it.” He has been told Ive liked him since last year.

2007-11-02 02:24:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 20, and have been dating a really sweet, down to earth girl for the past few months. I see her several times a week, and we almost always have a really good time.

We've made out, petted and passionately kissed almost every time, although I'm not sure how to go to the next level without offending her or moving too soon. I don't have too much experience at all, and am dying to undress her, lick and kiss her all over.

She asked me what the first thing was that I wanted to do with her when I saw her the other night. I didn't know how to really respond, as I know what I'd really like to do with her but didn't voice it. I offered some lame excuse like hugging, and she joked is that all? She also invited me to spend the night tomorrow, and hold her in bed. What should I expect? On the other hand, I haven't even seen any real skin or put my hand down her pants (or vice versa.) I just can't tell how far she wants to go.

2007-11-02 02:21:30 · 11 answers · asked by ColoradoRed 1 in Singles & Dating

IM 28 AND HES 28 AND WE HAVE A 2 YEAR OLD CHILD TOGETHER ........ WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS AND NEVER ONCE HAS HE GAVE ME A PROMISE RING OR TOLD ANYBODY WE ARE INGADGED ...... IM A GOOD WOMAN TO HIM AND NEVER CHEATED ON HIM AND A GOOD HOUSE WIFE ......... I HAD THIS LITTLE TALK TO HIM TOO BUT HE STILL HADNT ASK ME TO MARRY HIM ........ IF YOU WERE ME WHAT WOULD YOU DO ???

2007-11-02 02:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by LOULOU 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a bad situation. I broke up with my fiance. We had many problems, money, child raising, etc. We were already having major money problems when I left. He was the biggest reason for these problems. Anyway, I got saddled with a lot of bills he caused.

Well, my sister took this time to turn her back on me and I have no other family in this state or even on this coast. I was hurting really badly and had no place to stay and no money because I'm paying everything I can to catch up on bills and I asked to stay at her place for 2 days and she said no and started berating me and saying how it was all my fault and she didn't care. Did I mention I have a 2 year old?

So, now I've been struggling for a few weeks on my own and I just can't catch up and without my sisters support I'm screwed. But, I won't beg. He wants to get back together and I know he is bad for me, but I just have no money and don't know what to do? I feel like I have to be with him right now.

2007-11-02 02:15:45 · 22 answers · asked by Highly Evolved 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband dragged a mattress out to the front yard the other day with a blanket and pillow. We layed there and looked up at the stars and talked and cuddled for about an hour. I seen my first shooting star ever. It was sooo nice. Our neighbors probably thought we were crazy but I don't care. It's not like the mattress stayed there, we took it back inside when we were done. To me that was more romantic than if he had bought me something, because it came from his heart.

2007-11-02 02:11:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One time I was writing my friend a private email about him while he was sleeping on the bed (stupid I know). I got up to use the bathroom and saw he had gotten up and was reading the email.

He kept ignoring the fact I was mad my privacy had been invaded and was like, "Well why did you write what you wrote".

Another time I wanted to go to my friend's bday party instead of driving two hours to VA to visit him (which I've done the last two weeks in a row).

Again he won't admit it's shady to get mad about that. He kept saying, "But the army is going to station me in Nebraska in December. You should want to spend as much time as possible with me while you can".

2007-11-02 02:09:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, well i had my dad almost convinced to get beer/wine for our wedding reception until his girlfriend told him it wasn't his responsibility...it was the grooms parent's responsibility. Well thats all well and good except my hubby to be and his father don't drink, his mom doesn't drink much either but I do know of some people on his side that would drink wine and beer...

Ok..so we'll have a dry wedding, fine with me, i'll just be providing champagne toast (real and non alcoholic).

Well I don't particularly want a cash bar (as everyone has told me it's tacky).

HOWEVER, his mom said we should have a cash bar, and it's included in the price. His parents are paying for some of the expenses. My dad and his girlfriend agree with the cash bar...just note on the invities or reception card that champagne toast is provided by Bride and Groom but there is also a cash bar available on premises if they would like alcohol.

2007-11-02 02:08:37 · 18 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

Rollercoaster "I love you Bye"(Yesterday)
Today..just bye

2007-11-02 02:07:57 · 14 answers · asked by football2002 3 in Marriage & Divorce