Rollercoaster "I love you Bye"(Yesterday)
Today..just bye
2007-11-02 02:07:57 · 14 answers · asked by football2002 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its her who wanted to say Love you when you come or go....not me.
If we are upset w/each other she stops
When I stop she gets more upset.
2007-11-02 02:21:52 · update #1
No they never stop. Depending on how the husband or the wife feels that day. The respond always reflects on how the person feel that day.
2007-11-02 02:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't always tell my hubby I love him every time I say bye to him, but that doesn't mean that I don't love him. The same goes for him, he doesn't say it every time either, but I know he loves me.
You seem not to be very unsure of your marriage, are you insecure? Does your spouse give you reason to feel that your marriage isn't healthy? Do the 2 of you show each other affection, without saying "I love you" all the time?
If you are that worried over this then sit down & talk to your spouse about it, talking is the only way you are going to get your questions answered & calm your worries.
Take your spouse out to dinner & tell them what is on your mind & what is in your heart, tell them your fears, concerns, & then tell them know how you feel about them. And see what their reaction is & maybe that will give you some answers too.
2007-11-02 02:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm not in the mood to be romantic hurried umm dont know but that isnt a game its just life if you find yourself in a marriage full of games time to get out already cause its gonna end and someone is gonna lose somone always does in a game even two poeple can lose so stop with the games already have sex make little fridays and just relax and enjoy it its just life so you got no choice
2007-11-02 02:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not a game. I don't always tell my husband that I love him because I don't want it to be automatic.. I want it to mean something and I really wish that he would do the same.. But that also means that if he's being a jerk and a half, I probably won't say it. Maybe that's just her way.
2007-11-02 05:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to work at marriage. Lovey dovey is only one part of it all. You should always think of the other. Support them when they need it, chastise them when they need it. You'll argue, you'll make up - that's how it all works.
Your will change what and how you do things. Love grows with time and it becomes deep and more fulfilling. You learn trust and respect and you have fun whenever you can.
2007-11-02 02:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sally Anne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a true marriage/union where love and respect is base - one does not play games.
2007-11-02 02:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya after 6 months or after a year marriage games reduced n slowly slowly finished
2007-11-02 02:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're upset with this? Saying "I love you" all the time gets repetitious anyway.
Maybe stop saying it so much yourself if you say it all the time. Then maybe the other party will say it more often . . . if this really bothers you. You're MARRIED. It shouldn't be bothering you. If it is, then maybe there's an underlying problem.
2007-11-02 02:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful Chaos 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What? You aren't really playing semantics, are you?! What is the difference? Don't have such a weak character that you need validation every time your spouse leaves the house. Because I guarantee, they have NO IDEA that this is even on your mind.
2007-11-02 02:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by MWestbrook 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never played them myself. My marriage consist of two grown ADULTS...
2007-11-02 02:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋