I'm 20, and have been dating a really sweet, down to earth girl for the past few months. I see her several times a week, and we almost always have a really good time.
We've made out, petted and passionately kissed almost every time, although I'm not sure how to go to the next level without offending her or moving too soon. I don't have too much experience at all, and am dying to undress her, lick and kiss her all over.
She asked me what the first thing was that I wanted to do with her when I saw her the other night. I didn't know how to really respond, as I know what I'd really like to do with her but didn't voice it. I offered some lame excuse like hugging, and she joked is that all? She also invited me to spend the night tomorrow, and hold her in bed. What should I expect? On the other hand, I haven't even seen any real skin or put my hand down her pants (or vice versa.) I just can't tell how far she wants to go.
2007-11-02 02:21:30 · 11 answers · asked by ColoradoRed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This would be the first time I've stayed over.
2007-11-02 02:46:20 · update #1
now I know how my boyfriend feels when he spends the night with me!! We usually end up in bed hugging, cuddling, kissing while lying on top of one another, and just touching each other's body, but he's never done anything disrespectful to me all. and I'm glad cuz I don't want to lose my virginity
but I'd say that by the way that she joked off her question, she really wants to go further
2007-11-02 02:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off have you ever spent the night at her house?
I'll add on if you put in additional details, It seems like she wants it though going back towards that question.
2007-11-02 02:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When she wants you to stop, you'll know it.
Bring protection, young explorer. This is thoughtful and caring, not disrespectfully assumptive -- you're planning ahead just in case. Also two brand-new, in-package toothbrushes.
2007-11-02 02:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oohhh Spending the night! You should probobly speak up when your with her and ask her if you wana do some sexual stuff. Good Luck!
2007-11-02 02:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going too far is always a risk. All you can do is try something and see what happens. There are no guarantees.
2007-11-02 02:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by airjarrod 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to do it or take it to the next level then wait for her
2007-11-02 02:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by Nika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a condom handy, and go with the flow.
She will provide the tempo.
2007-11-02 02:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well by the sounds of it tommarow you guys will go all the way i can guarentee that 100% but thats wht i think
2007-11-02 02:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by big_mikey_18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BRING CONDOMS BUDDY.SOUNDS LIKE A FUN SLEEPOVER.YOU DEF WON'T GET ANYSLEEP UNTIL UR RELEASE
2007-11-02 02:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mex_tech78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax. She'll let you know if she's ready.
2007-11-02 02:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋