Family & Relationships - 2 November 2007

That I want to be a stay at home mom for some part of my life?

I'm planning on getting through my credentialing to become a high school teacher and then when kids come want to stay home (and write, preferably, which I've always done).

Why do people have a problem with this?

2007-11-02 08:37:39 · 9 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-02 08:34:05 · 4 answers · asked by Kim 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

... you were dating a girl who you were really falling for, for just over a month, then she reveals she's not a waitress as she's always claimed to be... and that she's a lap dancer?

What would be your honest reaction?

No jokey comments please.

2007-11-02 08:29:32 · 39 answers · asked by kl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 08:29:22 · 5 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

So here's the deal. His mom is coming from out of town for Thanksgiving. She and I are close, she's my kid's Grandma and all. I will be picking her up at the airport on Sunday, she will stay with me until Wednesday, when I am going out of town to have the holiday with my boyfriends family. So, anyway, the ex lives across town in a tiny studio apartment, I live in a three bedroom house, big enough dining room, kitchen, etc. I have had the standpoint with the mom that I didn't want the ex in my house when I wasn't there. The reason for this is probably residual bitterness: to understate things, he wasn't that nice to me when we were together. It has been a while(about a year and a half) and we have been lately been getting along a little better. I kind of think it would be gracious of me to offer my house for just that day, so they don't have to be cramped for Thanksgiving dinner. But I am torn!

Do I offer this or do I not?????

2007-11-02 08:23:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK so this guy has a girlfriend and he has been MAD flirting with me!!!! Like its mega obvious that he likes me.... like ten people have told me and i kinda think i like him too but his girlfriend is SORTA my friend and I wouldnt want her to like totally HATE me and he was talking to my other REALLY good friend at school and he said that he didnt really like his girlfriend he was just going out with her as a bet to see how long their relationship could last!!! But she doesnt know that!!
So..... what should I do?
Should I telll the girl wats up even though i dont know her all that good?
Is it OK to flirt back with him even though he has a girlfriend??
oh, and PS he doesnt really flirt with me outside of school or when he is around his gf!!
Is it normal???
Just help!!!

2007-11-02 08:21:18 · 14 answers · asked by supamegaultrafly 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I work at the same company. I am his boss. He was supposed to turn in a project last Monday and he didn't. I had to make an example of him to avoid being unfair to the others, so I suspended him for two weeks without pay. He doesn't talk to me anymore at home! How do I explain to him that work and personal life should not be mixed?

2007-11-02 08:20:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why don't we just call it a "Wedding Day"? That's what it is!

Why the euphemism? My Special Day sounds like a polite way of saying "The Day I Got My First Period".

2007-11-02 08:19:12 · 11 answers · asked by danashelchan 5 in Weddings

how many of you would have a sexual affair, how many you already have and how many of you fantasize about it?

2007-11-02 08:16:20 · 17 answers · asked by Matthew (Go STEELERS!) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean if i want to marry a woman, does it is necessary to marry her ?

2007-11-02 08:16:07 · 14 answers · asked by seeker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here's the deal. I've only been married for 9 months. I am to the point where i can't stand to be around him anymore. He drives me crazy. I don't want to kiss him, hug him, or even at him.I don't know how to tell him. I'm afarid he will go crazy on me or something. Then on the other hand i've been close with this other guy for about a year now. He finally reveled to me that he is totally in love with me and when he gets back from iraq. He wants us to be together. What do i do?

2007-11-02 08:14:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It was an email in response to his, seemingly, in which she told him she thought he was a "hot guy" and said she wanted to chat with him on Messenger to get to know him better.

What is the best way to respond? I have her email address. What would YOU say to her?

2007-11-02 08:14:25 · 23 answers · asked by Solstice 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wrong to like someone that is ENGAGED or someone who just has a girlfriend..
I`m only asking because i had this situation before with this guy..When he was with someone..& i don`t know if it was wrong or not.
Well anways The guy that i was talking to he has been missing for like a month.And nobody knows where he is. When i call him he doesn`t answer my parents think he got into drugs..He is 23 btw..& if my parents ever found out about what went on between me & him i would Get into so much trouble..
I just wanna know if its wrong to b liking someone 0r wanting to **** em when he is engaged..
Thanksz for the answers!
Btw i`m 15
Please no rude comments!

2007-11-02 08:08:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hope you say yes. At the end of a phone call etc............ If you don`t please remember that it does not go without saying. I lost my mum7 years ago and found that i could not forget that i did not tell her i loved her. My daughters and family always say it . i tell my father i love him. It may be a generation thing to finish a phone call with "love you!"

2007-11-02 08:06:56 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-02 08:02:25 · 30 answers · asked by Rose 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I LIKE THE GUY N SUPPOSLY E LIKES ME 2. BUT IM SHY 2 TELL HIM THAT I LIKE HIM.. =[

2007-11-02 08:01:44 · 24 answers · asked by misz_chaparra 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 9 months wants to have sex! I respect, love and care for him but im just not ready for sex. I have always wanted to stay a virgin until I’m married and he knows that. Im just stuck on what to say without losing him. We just keep going round in circles, he says the cliché line “if you love me you would” and I say “if you love me you wouldn’t” please if anyone has any advice on how to say no but still show that I love him and want to be with him. we are both adults but i believe that even if you 18 or 80 you have a right to stay virgin until your ready!

2007-11-02 07:58:12 · 4 answers · asked by Confuseddotcom 1 in Singles & Dating

I really would love to find a short sleeved (white) satin bolero jacket to go with my dress and I am having NO luck! I looked at david's bridal and they only have the long sleeved boleros. I googled it as well and found nothing. Aybody know where I can get one???

http://www.pinkprincess.com/j240w.html

This website is the only thing that has something similar to what I want, except it's for a child, not an adult.

2007-11-02 07:54:45 · 10 answers · asked by Avery's_Mommy 2 in Weddings

Here is my problem I have a boyfriend that I have been with for a year and a half. When we began dating I had just gotten out of a tough relationship where we lived together. My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 3 months, and I have also been talking with my ex who I was with in high school for 3 years. We were on and off after Hish school and now I think I like him again. But I still love my boyfriend alot and still want to be with him. But I also feel since we are not married would it be ok to continue this so called relationship with my ex? Please help!!

2007-11-02 07:53:19 · 22 answers · asked by bunny45989 1 in Singles & Dating

We used to go to the movies a lot until we had kids, now we hardly get out of the house at all, but tonight, we have the inlaws watching the kids overnight and we are sort of at a loss as to what to do? Also, we are on a tight budget and live the the outer-Chicago area.

2007-11-02 07:53:10 · 7 answers · asked by MommyToo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister in law is very actractive and is always flirting with me. My wife says that she has always been a flirt and does not think nothing about it. My sister in law came up to me recently and wispered in my ear that she would like to have sex with me and that she would keep things quiet. I didn't really respond but looked at her with a supprised smile. She told me to think about it. Unfortunately that is all that I have thought about. I'm not sure if I can trust her and think that perhaps that she and my wife may be pulling a prank on me. But then again she may not be kidding. Should I take the oppertunity and go for it, or should I pass. I'll feel that I will be dammed either way, A. if I go for it I may feel guilty for the rest of my life, and B. if I don't then I may later feel bad that I missed my chance. I'm not getting any younger and I know that as you get older these kind of things dont' come around as much.

2007-11-02 07:52:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

An elderly gent in Perth Scotland has popped the question to what he calls "his bidy-in" at the age of 96... the lady in question is a mere 74 years old.... I think this is a real heart-warming story. The local Registrar says that he could be the oldest person to marry.

2007-11-02 07:48:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so this is what happened. I was in the library today at school and 2 of my friends and this girl I don't like were talking out loud so i heard the whole conversation. The girl i dont like said "Her boyfriend is cheating and she's clueless." and my friend started singing Secret Lovers. I had no idea who they were talking about so I didn't care. So then I went to my locker and I saw a note and it said my boyfriend's name and some girl's name and then it said secret lovers. So when I got back to the class I looked at all 3 of them and they smiled and i just sat down at my desk and said nothing. Please help me somebody I'm falling apart. School is already stressful enough and he' making it worse. What should I do?

2007-11-02 07:45:03 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He loves to cook and sais he cooks good...but what if i dont like it.. Hes making Tacos Dorados, its a mexican dish, the ones my mom makes are really good but i dont know what to expect. Has anyone else been in my position. did you like what was made for you? if not, what did you say? I already told him am gonna tell him the truth about how it comes out but i just want to know what others have done.

2007-11-02 07:41:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I knew a girl thru online since 6 months.We both talk to each other on phone daily ,for almost 1 hr.We reside at different places and didn't see each other.She is a nice girl with a gud behaviour and 4m the very first day,i started loving her,seeing her attitude .I recently proposed her,to which she agreed.But,the problem is she doesn't want to marry me,it's noto nly me she doesn't want to marry any other guy in her life and would sacrifice her life for her grand parents who brought her up all these days.I know she loves me a lot,but she tries to avoid me and asks me to marry aother girl and get settled,which I cannot do,as I love her.Every alternate day she picks up a fight with me and tries to avoid.Why do girls behave such way?

2007-11-02 07:39:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. He's a really nice guy. He has given me no reason not to trust him, and maybe it's just my over reacting imagination but there were a few rumors about him hooking up with another girl. The rumors came from a very unreliable source, but I mean, they HAD to start somewhere. And lately it seems like he is being more distant. I could just be making it up b/c of what I heard. idk. I feel that I should trust him more, but I also feel that I should look into these things before we get to serious. what to do?!

2007-11-02 07:39:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you think the saying is true that when you are drunk you really do speak you mind and lose inhibitions!!!!

Can you give me an example

I met this guy and he has always been really lovely to me as friend and said thats all he wanted right now but last night he texted me and said he wanted more...potentially a relationship
i was a bit taken a back because i had come to accept we were going to be friends-- so i just replied a laugh and a little nice jokey message- he has since replied saying he was drunk last night!!!!!!

2007-11-02 07:38:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I be taking him seriously and start thinking about having unprotected sex.... i really care about him and I know he does too!!!! Were both young 22, 24 and I dont know if I want to take things that far.... to me its a big step.... Help what do you think

2007-11-02 07:37:06 · 11 answers · asked by Holly S 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I understand that in most cases an abuser will not change, it is a never ending cycle and that change can only happen if the abuser really wants it and admits readily to their bad behavior. What I would like to know is if there is anyone who has been a victim and witnessed a change in the abuser? I realize this would be a rare occurrence. Is there anything specific that brought about the change or any methods that seemed to help specifically? Thank you!

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2007-11-02 07:36:43 · 23 answers · asked by laura_lovely_sweet 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-02 07:36:02 · 4 answers · asked by dancerchick21 1 in Singles & Dating