Family & Relationships - 2 November 2007

should i call someone i really really like to ask if we could meet? what should i do? how to approach? email call or nothing?

2007-11-02 10:39:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 10:38:54 · 13 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

I made over $2500 last month for my kids Christmas selling antique and other stuff, then my wife son who is a juvenile was lock up and she needs $2500 for a lawyer to get him home until he go to the next court date. Now I dont know if he committed the crime or not but should I give her my kids Christmas money to help her get a lawyer or should I tell her I just dont have it?

2007-11-02 10:38:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

will someone read this. you would be doing me a HUGE favor.
i know its long.


Like I said, we never seem to get a break. As soon as all the
stuff was over with Floyd and I thought my life was getting back
to normal, a police officer drove up to my house and knocked on
the door, my mom and dad answered it. I could catch little bits
and pieces of what they were saying, I heard "cutting them out"
and something about a hospital, that couldnt be good. my mom
came back into the kitchen, by this time she was hysterical, and
my dad I could tell he wanted to cry. I became numb, thinking if I
didnt cry then maybe it wasnt happening, and I could ignore it, it
seemed to work. I tried to console my parents telling them that
there was a good chance they were still alive. Do you know how
hard it is for a 15 year old to comfert her parents? something i
never wanna ever again. They called my grandparents, they
were over in nothing flat rushing off the two different hospitals,
they had to put my brother in one and my sister in another. I had
to stay up late that night, to check samantha [my diabetic little
sister] at 2 am. I sat on the couch not completely grasping the
situtation, I dont know if its just because i didnt want to, or i
didnt understand.
My brother and sister were in the hospital for a week, and
during that time, I had to play mom. I cooked, I cleaned, wathed
kids [i have 9 siblings] and gave samantha her shots. Even
though I hadnt done it before, i turned into an exact copy of my
mother, forgetting completely i was a teenager. My friends
would call, and i just about cry when i had to turn them down, i
was so sick of playing "mom" i just wanted my life back, to be a
teenager again, but i kept those feelings inside, put on a "mask"
and acted as if everything was alright. School, and even church
that week was hard. Having to repeat the story over and over,
the knot in my throat growing larger with each telling, but still i
didnt cry, i couldnt.
Over the week i decided that was it, this was too much for me,
and finally went to talk to someone, my school counselor. For a
week I went, telling him everything, pouring out my soul, but
still no real tears, the ones i did cry were fake and forced. But
isnt that what your supposed to do during a time like this, cry? I
pushed everything that had happened in the past week, two
weeks, and even month into the back of my mind. And now when
it seemed to all be pileing up on me there seemed to be no way
to release it. and i sank further and further into depression.
I became numb, a zombie walking through the halls at school.
I wanted nothing to do with anything or anyone there. I was
completely withdrawn, thinking to myself, i dont even remember
about what. I'd get home and go right up to my room to sleep.
The mornings though, were worse it was a battle to get myself
out of bed in the morning. I would tell me counselor about
everything, but that got me no where. He basically told mr that I
was on my own and that i had caused myself to feel so upset.
I dont know anymore, I've talked the counselors ear off and
i talked his ear off, i've told him about this. but i dont think that I 've
evr even
delt with it, just ignored it. It seems silly though, , this
happened two weeks ago why bring it up now? its in the past. I
really think that im just wasting his time, and that he thinks im
im in this all for attention. but believe me thats not what its
about.

2007-11-02 10:37:15 · 27 answers · asked by d_asnightnday 1 in Family

well to start with i couldnt go to the school dance but my boyfriend did. He danced with a few girls i didnt really mind. but then i found out that a girl kissed him. when he told me on the phone i just clicked on him because i was so mad n i regret tat i clicked. He told me that she kissed him n he didnt want that to happen. I forgave him but i was still sad. Then he broke up with me n said i dont want to be in a relationship right now. The next day he called me to make sure we were still cool...but he tells me that he got a girlfriend...n i was thinking i thought he didnt want to be in a relationship...n i dont kno wat to do... =[ i still have a lot of feelings 4 him i dont know why!!

2007-11-02 10:36:41 · 4 answers · asked by gumgirl1228 2 in Singles & Dating

i've known a guy for a couple months, and it seems like things are going nowhere. but i know that he likes me on some level because he:
-texts or emails me daily
-flirts with me when i see him
-tells me i should text him more
-shares personal stuff about himself
-says we are "hanging out"
however, when i suggest doing something, he kind of beats around the bush and won't straight out ask me. he mentioned going to a movie this weekend and when i asked him if he wanted to, he changed the subject and said he had to go...
what is this behavior all about??

2007-11-02 10:36:19 · 11 answers · asked by <>< captivated 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking married people here....
- Did your spouse cheat? (Or did you cheat?)
- Why?
- How did you find out? (or did the spouse find out?)
- Did you stay with them after? (or did they give you a chance?)

Just curious after reading some of these answers.... I hope it never happens to me, lol just wondering what the odds are.

2007-11-02 10:34:08 · 11 answers · asked by Betty 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My wedding is next Sunday and my sister how was suppose to me my matron of honor is not going to be able to do it. (She has a son who is in a wheelchair and she decided that she doesn't want to leave him alone.) I have asked one of my fiance's cousin to come out in the wedding as a brides maid, she said yes. Now my fiance's sister is asking who will be my maid/matron of honor...I really don't want to give that honor to any of my brides maids. Do I have to have a maid/matron of honor?

2007-11-02 10:33:52 · 15 answers · asked by butterflyesie 2 in Weddings

I get very nervous around good looking women..i go dumb, don't know what to talk about, my brain goes blank and i don't know what to do. How can i overcome the tension and be a good conversational partner?? What are some good general topics to talk about with a women ??? thanks for your help.

2007-11-02 10:32:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am crazy about him! n he likes me ALOT! but i dont wanna break up wit my boyfriend! what do i do!

2007-11-02 10:31:17 · 16 answers · asked by koolio 2 in Singles & Dating

She is just satisfied when I'm touching her private with hand, during intercourse, no other way, sometimes my wrist gets pain because of that, instaed of enjoing the sex I have to concentarte how I'm rubbing her. and it's a turn off for me. sometimes I'm thinking oh god sex again, what a hard job.
I can't tell her cause she is too sensitive and I love her and I think she can't do anything about that. is there any cure? I would prefer not to use any sex toys. sometimes I think it's not a big deal but sometimes I think it may ruin my marriage. I'm totaly confused.

2007-11-02 10:28:01 · 23 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

His house, her house, a hotel
What is your preference?

2007-11-02 10:25:52 · 15 answers · asked by Red Phantom 5 in Singles & Dating

I had a friend I was close with for a long time. We have been growing apart because he has changed a lot (in a negative way). When he was losing all of his friends, I stayed by his side.

But I got sick of the way he was acting as well, and I stopped being his friend. He apoligized, and I became his friend again. But then he started acting like a jerk towards me again, so I stop hanging out with him. This happened about 8 times.

I don't do this with ANY of my other friends!

I noticed that he didn't mean his apologies, and just said them to look like the good person in the situation. So I just told him that we could try to get along, but I didn't want to be friends with him again. We could just be like associates.

Was I right to do this? I think I gave him enough chances. And I know him well enough to realize that he didn't mean it when he said sorry. I don't feel guilty or anything, so I don't think I was wrong.

Some of the things he use to do to me were:

He use to talk bad about me behind my back, he would try to embarrass me in front of other people to act 'tough' or 'bad'.

He would make fun of me, the way I dressed, how much money my parents made(because he is from a family that is well-off), who I hung out with, and how I looked.

And he treated his girlfriend (who is my best friend) really bad. He did all of these things to her, and it made her really sad, but she let him do it.

And what REALLY made me SOOOO angry with him was what he said the other day. On Halloween, my friend passed away in an accident. Nov. 1st was my friend's (not the one that died) birthday, and he said,"Thanks to him dying, nobody will remember that it is my birthday!!"


What do you think?

2007-11-02 10:25:39 · 12 answers · asked by . 4 in Friends

My husband and I have been married 12 years, we have 4 children. For most of those years I have been a stay at home mom. I've been working for a few months now. He works late hours and by th time he gets in I'm either in the bed about to go to sleep or already asleep. We use to have so much fun together, but now between our jobs, and the kids we don't get anytime for each other. Our relationship just seems so bla and dull. Any suggestions on how to spice thing up to bring this relationship back to life?

2007-11-02 10:25:16 · 8 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she has been my best since grade school but i hate her new hubby they have been 2 gether for a yr now. hes a drunk and talks too much crap

2007-11-02 10:24:30 · 18 answers · asked by realgirl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my Brother. We are very close and I want to get him something special. I have bought him alot that he loves. running out of ideas.

2007-11-02 10:24:23 · 10 answers · asked by CasperinMississippi 3 in Family

my parents drive me insane!!!!!! my mum had me when she was 40 and my dad was 43. now im 14 and they are driving me insane!!! they never did before i just cant stand my mum trying to get me to knit and bake go to church and be the perfect daughter. and the only time i ever really talk with them is when where having a fight. am i an awful person?? i just cant stop acting this way help!!!

2007-11-02 10:23:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, I asked this simular question about a month ago, and here I am asking again! About 5 months ago I caught my husband (of 2 years) whacking off to porno on the internet, I found out cause I looked at the history button, and saw a bottle of K.Y., and a bunch of tissues, I confronted him, although I had put two and two together, and he denied it, and insisted he was innocent until I showed him what I found, then he apologized, and swore he would never do it again, I asked about what I should do on here at the time, and it was suggested that I tell him, it's ok if he look's but next time let me join in if he wants to do this, and I did, I looked at it with him and pleasered him as he looked so that he would'nt do it behind my back. Then about 2 weeks later I caught him again! He cried and pleaded for me to forgive him ( yes again) and swore no more, well, I went to work early at 6:00am, and when I got home, I found my history button full of porno ! to be continued...editing more.

2007-11-02 10:22:07 · 24 answers · asked by leah j 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-02 10:20:15 · 19 answers · asked by Incognito 3 in Friends

My mom is, well, a person who drinks to much. I don't know how to handle it anymore. I go to my room but I'm sick of living there. And my step brothers and step dad don't help.

2007-11-02 10:16:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am getting wed in June 2008 this work colleague was getting wed in 2009, now she is bringing it forward to august 2008.

I have got so much already, the dress, the venue, the date is booked, the groom has his suit, the cars are booked etc

She asked me this morning, 'can I borrow your dress to get married in'

Its cost me £250.00

I asked is she was going to help pay for it!

I could not beleive the cheek!

What would be your reaction to a question like that?

2007-11-02 10:16:43 · 28 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

Okay, I am not being stuck on myself but I want to know the truth. I am a very beautiful girl and I attract alot of attention from men and women may I add that I am also sexy. But when it gets down to being in a real relationship, men seem to scat like cattle. Do men think that I am too much to handle? What is it please help?

2007-11-02 10:15:54 · 27 answers · asked by Jazzie 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother in law is in her 70's & smoked since age 19. She now is in stage 4 copd & we have her under hospice care. Now she stays in her house & is still mobile, however, she has nurses that come once a week & a home health aid that comes twice a week. My ma in law doesn't like to go anywhere & she doesn't want to get baths. She puts the nurse off all the time. So you have to know that this house smells like old lady. She keeps me & my hubby on the go, but we at least get breaks from her. Today I came in the house & smelled smoke (she was required to quit after getting oxygen) but she still sneaks the smokes. We just got thru installing a $8,000 a/c system but ma in law still smokes anyways.
Why would her doctor place her under hospice care? How can I have more patience. I am not mean, I just get frustrated sometimes with her. She has started asking me where I am going, how long, etc. and I am not even her kid. Any advice appreciated. Thanks.

2007-11-02 10:15:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have a 12 year old neighbor girl who comes over EVERY day after school. I don't mind her coming over once in a while, but she brings her friends, cousins, anyone who happens to be visiting. I have a 12 month old son, who she adores, but she is always changing his diaper (even when he doesn't need it), changing his clothes, which makes tons of extra laundry. Today, I was so fed up, I didn't answer the door when she knocked. After pounding on the door for 5 minutes, she gave up and went home. And yes, her mother is home the entire time. Advice please?

2007-11-02 10:13:52 · 16 answers · asked by maria 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Play Truth or Dare with him and your friend have your friend "either truth or dare" for dare: dare him to tell you what he would say if you asked him out agian for Truth:Ask him what he would say "agian" or have him compare another girl verse you .

2007-11-02 10:12:31 · 1 answers · asked by Micah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-02 10:12:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so i am going to the movies with my girlfriend and my friend and his girlfriend, and this other kid is tagging along. So, i really want to kiss my girlfriend and i would deeply appreciate if somebody could answer this with step by step info. Pleaze! i beg of you!

2007-11-02 10:11:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy I really like. Im pretty sure he likes me too. How can I hint to him that I like him too. Like good ways to flirt with him so he can figure it out?

Please dont answer, "just tell him"

2007-11-02 10:11:28 · 3 answers · asked by AMAN DUHH 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 10:10:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would you save your childrens life or your spouses life and why?

2007-11-02 10:09:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce